i have been watching KDramas since 3-4 years and I love KDramas. This years KDrama such as Lovely Runner, Queen…
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YOU SAID :- Lol, just don’t watch or rate such dramas because they go against “your” sense of morality.. If you can’t be bothered to read a synopsis you will keep running into storylines you don’t agree with but that’s your business.
MY RESPONSE :- My sense of responsibility?? ha ha ha.... at least I am trying to a have some sense towards morality of a better family and a civic society. What about you? Are you not part of a family and society??? :) :)
When forbidden series like "Family By Choice" are made and release millions watches them, and so they see how such dramas corrupts the beautiful relationship between brother-sister. Any way it doesn't matter you coz you accepts such immoral relations. Right?? :-) :-)
YOU SAID :- It’s myopic of you to judge other people’s piousness or sense of morality because they are not as intolerant as you are.
MY RESPONSE :- Ha Ha Ha Ha .... seriously you are making me laugh. I don't know What kind of piousness or sense of morality do you see in a brother hugging and lip kissing his sister? Are you really in sense? or you are just obsessed by celebrities like Hwang Inyoup etc., and you can not tolerate anything bad sad about them even if they do something wrong? ha ha ha ha...
YOU SAID :- What qualifies as a Taboo is also subjective to different people, cultures and groups. I hope you learn about these or at least accept that not everyone in the world will think or feel as you do.
MY RESPONSE :- You are right Taboo is also subjective to different people, cultures and groups, but whatsoever culture or religion or nation it may be, a forbidden relation between brother and sister in any civic society across the globe is Taboo.
YOU SAID :- To some people there are more serious problems in fiction than two fake brother and sister getting together. In their story they are happy about their relationship.
MY RESPONSE :- As you mentioned " In their story ..", I am exactly talking about the bad influence this story is setting between brother and sister.
You will agree, Television can have a strong influence on children, people, family and society. So isn't it responsibility of capable people such as leaders, celebrities, influential people etc whom people, children, younsters follows, must not set bad influence that could impact children, culture and society in a wrong way?
your repetitive struck or centered on meaningless tags such as "synopsis" , "story line" etc. that is what is myopic. So please come out of it and think broadly. While right from beginning I was saying it in a very broad sense that the infuence of forbidden relation shown in the television series could have a very bad impact on children, family, culture and society.
You mentioned "... two fake brother and sister getting together. In their story they are happy about their relationship." Honestly tell me in the story, didn't the television series, from their childhood to their highschooling the series beautifully displayed the affectionate, caring, worrying, bothering about each others, protecting each other etc as brothers and sister? So how could it be fake brother and sister?? you can argue they were not biologically related. right? But in the story their actions, their responses, their emotions, their affection, their caring, their feelings etc tells that they were emotionally related as brother-sister just like any blood related brother and sister. From their childhood to growth years they grew up together and treated each other as brother and sister. So the story absolutely mentioned repeatedly in many episodes as brother and sister, but it is you who is putting it as fake brother and sister. :-) :-)
Had their emotions, feelings and affections for each other in the story were displayed as fake from the begining for each other then it would have been a different matter, and We both would not be arguing and explaining our point of view.
YOU SAID :- I don’t want to keep explaining the points to you over and over again. Not sure where you’re from, but such rigidity requires censorship. Censor yourself. That’s all.
MY RESPONSE :- I am a person who don't forget the past so that any mistake made in past should not be repeated. If you forget the past, then you are bound to repeat the same mistake in future. why iam saying this is because I clearly remember each and every thing in the story about their past emotional relationship that of innocent , caring, affectionate brother and sister. Like me millions family who had seen the series would have felt the same. But in recent episode when they grew up and became mature adults they should know they grewup together as loving caring brother and sister just like siblings. And All of a sudden you can not erase the emotions and feelings of siblings to become lovers. That is disgusting concept or story or bad impact/influence on brother-sister relation.
So its not me who should be Censored. it should be the series or the corrupt forbidden relation shown in the series should be Censored. because again as i have mentioned earlier, Television can have a strong influence on children, individuals, family, society and culture. and such bad forbidden brother-sister relation should not be aired in television. The actors who knew the script before making this series should be Censored. The makers of these series should be Censored.
You should be RIGID to some thing if you find that thing is potentially harmful to you, your surroundings, friends, family, society or country.
I am from the great nation with over 10,000 years of rich cultural heritage, history, traditions and geography. It is the only the world's oldest and greatest civilizations. My nation have diverse people, culture, language, regions, religions. It is home to many religions, including Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Sikhism, Islam, Christianity, and Judaism. My nation is a spiritual country. Here from North to south and from east to west you can Experience the vibrant culture and scenic beauty with Great Mountains, rivers, seas, lakes, islands and oceans. Nowhere on Earth does humanity present itself in such a diverse, creative burst of cultures and religions, races and languages as my nation is. :-) :-)
i have been watching KDramas since 3-4 years and I love KDramas. This years KDrama such as Lovely Runner, Queen…
I am sorry I don't agree with you cause you are struck with synopsis. Not everyone check the synopsis and then watch the series or drama. I don't understand your sense of censor? I don't mind if it is a hot scene between lovers if it goes with the story. But how can even a lip kiss between elder brother and sister is allowed?
the thing is you are not understanding my point.
I was very excited and enthusiastic about the story and the flow the drama was going I felt the story was adorable and heart warming that used to bring smile on my face and every week I was waiting for the next episode of "Family By Choice". But the Kdrama took ugly and disappointing turn when the brothers came back after 10 years . The same brother ( Hwang Inyoup) who used to be affectionate, protective and pampered his little sister (Jung Chae yeon) when they were growing together started looking his younger sister with different angle which is forbidden between brother and sister.
That's the whole point was mentioning. It doesn't matter I watch it or not but the relation between brother (Kim San-ha) hugging and lip kissing his younger sister ( Yoon JuWon) is a BIG TABOO.
My whole point was the UNETHICAL, IMMORAL and FORBIDDEN relation between brother and sister which should not be aired or shown as FAMILY Drama. I don't understand how koreans and may be some people from few other Asian countries digest or accept such pervert TABU relation?
What so ever it is, in no way showing such TABOO/TABU relation as Family Drama is ethical. You can not have sex with a person whom you respect adore and honor as your brother or sister.
About your point 2. I don't understand how could it be my moral responsibility? How I am unfair about the drama? do you want me to become blind and justify or accept such Taboo, Forbidden relation shown between Brother and Sister? I think you don't have the emotional understanding , bonding and piousness that family members shares .
i have been watching KDramas since 3-4 years and I love KDramas. This years KDrama such as Lovely Runner, Queen…
I am a 52 years old Ex-Navy and currently Data Analyst at a senior position in a multinational company. As an Ex-Naval officer or defence personnel we have been educated about morality and social responsibility towards society and nation.
May be you are habituated of finding out the story before watching cause you don't like sad ending. It could be your reason to justify. But again my point is as I believe in real world a family is built when there is emotional attachment among each other - Parents emotionally attached to their children(s) or adopted children(s), Brothers and sisters emotionally attached to each other (even if one of them is adopted) it doesn't matter whether they have same biological parents or not. Ethically and morally when you see or feel emotionally attached or treat a person as an elder or younger brother (or sister) you can not think of hugging or kissing them as a lover, because you honor them, respect them and treat them as brother (or sister). If you do then you are ethically and morally corrupt .
As I mentioned earlier about the social responsibility, its the role of celebrities or drama makers when they make family drama or series they should not depict or show or malign or manipulate a relationship cause possibly it might impact millions of people watching such forbidden relation in a very wrong way. May be today you don't realise it but tomorrow if you have grown up kids son and daughter watching this kdrama then it could impact their thought process and hence their purity of brother and sister relationship. Cause they might not think the same way as you are thinking today. Just like your and mine thought process are not same regarding brother and sister relationship. For you it might be a casual relation ship but for us their is a purity, affectionate, adorable relationship between brother and sister. where sometimes the elder brother or sister treat or act like parent their younger one in character building and support them, guide them in right direction always.
I hope now you will understand my point of view and perspective. Also its moral and social responsibility of everyone to build a morally good healthy society and not a chaotic one.
A casual perusal of the synopsis and google of the source material could have saved you the trauma of watching…
i have been watching KDramas since 3-4 years and I love KDramas. This years KDrama such as Lovely Runner, Queen Of Tears, A Shop For Killers, Death Game, The Judge From Hell etc, etc. all I found good and exciting. And I love watching them all. I never do google to investigate or get some idea about all these series cause once you know the plot or synopsis the excitement dies.
This is the first time I felt disgusting watching "Family By Choice" from recent episode when the pure emotion of brother sister relation changes to lovers relation. The thought of such relation itself is disgusting. You may accept such forbidden relation between brother and sister.
"The Bequeathed" had such forbidden relation, which was reveled at the end and its goes by the plot or concept of the story. But in "Family By Choice" the main characters grew up as brother and sister. Their family, friends, schoolmates etc all know they are not blood related but they grew and treat each other as brother and sister. In one episode the lead female character wanted to have a common sir name so that everyone will treat the three as brother and sister. And this emotional sibling relationship was shown and presented in the early all episodes. So the concept of brother-sister relation changing into lovers and kissing each other (Episode 11) is disgusting and taboo. I suggest you to watch all the early episodes from their early childhood to high school properly feel them and then I hope you will also agree with me.
YOU SAID :- Lol, just don’t watch or rate such dramas because they go against “your” sense of morality.. If you can’t be bothered to read a synopsis you will keep running into storylines you don’t agree with but that’s your business.
MY RESPONSE :- My sense of responsibility?? ha ha ha.... at least I am trying to a have some sense towards morality of a better family and a civic society. What about you? Are you not part of a family and society??? :) :)
When forbidden series like "Family By Choice" are made and release millions watches them, and so they see how such dramas corrupts the beautiful relationship between brother-sister. Any way it doesn't matter you coz you accepts such immoral relations. Right?? :-) :-)
YOU SAID :- It’s myopic of you to judge other people’s piousness or sense of morality because they are not as intolerant as you are.
MY RESPONSE :- Ha Ha Ha Ha .... seriously you are making me laugh. I don't know What kind of piousness or sense of morality do you see in a brother hugging and lip kissing his sister? Are you really in sense? or you are just obsessed by celebrities like Hwang Inyoup etc., and you can not tolerate anything bad sad about them even if they do something wrong? ha ha ha ha...
YOU SAID :- What qualifies as a Taboo is also subjective to different people, cultures and groups. I hope you learn about these or at least accept that not everyone in the world will think or feel as you do.
MY RESPONSE :- You are right Taboo is also subjective to different people, cultures and groups, but whatsoever culture or religion or nation it may be, a forbidden relation between brother and sister in any civic society across the globe is Taboo.
YOU SAID :- To some people there are more serious problems in fiction than two fake brother and sister getting together. In their story they are happy about their relationship.
MY RESPONSE :- As you mentioned " In their story ..", I am exactly talking about the bad influence this story is setting between brother and sister.
You will agree, Television can have a strong influence on children, people, family and society. So isn't it responsibility of capable people such as leaders, celebrities, influential people etc whom people, children, younsters follows, must not set bad influence that could impact children, culture and society in a wrong way?
your repetitive struck or centered on meaningless tags such as "synopsis" , "story line" etc. that is what is myopic. So please come out of it and think broadly. While right from beginning I was saying it in a very broad sense that the infuence of forbidden relation shown in the television series could have a very bad impact on children, family, culture and society.
You mentioned "... two fake brother and sister getting together. In their story they are happy about their relationship." Honestly tell me in the story, didn't the television series, from their childhood to their highschooling the series beautifully displayed the affectionate, caring, worrying, bothering about each others, protecting each other etc as brothers and sister? So how could it be fake brother and sister?? you can argue they were not biologically related. right? But in the story their actions, their responses, their emotions, their affection, their caring, their feelings etc tells that they were emotionally related as brother-sister just like any blood related brother and sister. From their childhood to growth years they grew up together and treated each other as brother and sister. So the story absolutely mentioned repeatedly in many episodes as brother and sister, but it is you who is putting it as fake brother and sister. :-) :-)
Had their emotions, feelings and affections for each other in the story were displayed as fake from the begining for each other then it would have been a different matter, and We both would not be arguing and explaining our point of view.
YOU SAID :- I don’t want to keep explaining the points to you over and over again. Not sure where you’re from, but such rigidity requires censorship. Censor yourself. That’s all.
MY RESPONSE :- I am a person who don't forget the past so that any mistake made in past should not be repeated. If you forget the past, then you are bound to repeat the same mistake in future.
why iam saying this is because I clearly remember each and every thing in the story about their past emotional relationship that of innocent , caring, affectionate brother and sister. Like me millions family who had seen the series would have felt the same. But in recent episode when they grew up and became mature adults they should know they grewup together as loving caring brother and sister just like siblings. And All of a sudden you can not erase the emotions and feelings of siblings to become lovers. That is disgusting concept or story or bad impact/influence on brother-sister relation.
So its not me who should be Censored. it should be the series or the corrupt forbidden relation shown in the series should be Censored. because again as i have mentioned earlier, Television can have a strong influence on children, individuals, family, society and culture. and such bad forbidden brother-sister relation should not be aired in television. The actors who knew the script before making this series should be Censored. The makers of these series should be Censored.
You should be RIGID to some thing if you find that thing is potentially harmful to you, your surroundings, friends, family, society or country.
I am from the great nation with over 10,000 years of rich cultural heritage, history, traditions and geography. It is the only the world's oldest and greatest civilizations. My nation have diverse people, culture, language, regions, religions. It is home to many religions, including Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Sikhism, Islam, Christianity, and Judaism. My nation is a spiritual country. Here from North to south and from east to west you can Experience the vibrant culture and scenic beauty with Great Mountains, rivers, seas, lakes, islands and oceans. Nowhere on Earth does humanity present itself in such a diverse, creative burst of cultures and religions, races and languages as my nation is. :-) :-)
the thing is you are not understanding my point.
I was very excited and enthusiastic about the story and the flow the drama was going I felt the story was adorable and heart warming that used to bring smile on my face and every week I was waiting for the next episode of "Family By Choice". But the Kdrama took ugly and disappointing turn when the brothers came back after 10 years . The same brother ( Hwang Inyoup) who used to be affectionate, protective and pampered his little sister (Jung Chae yeon) when they were growing together started looking his younger sister with different angle which is forbidden between brother and sister.
That's the whole point was mentioning. It doesn't matter I watch it or not but the relation between brother (Kim San-ha) hugging and lip kissing his younger sister ( Yoon JuWon) is a BIG TABOO.
My whole point was the UNETHICAL, IMMORAL and FORBIDDEN relation between brother and sister which should not be aired or shown as FAMILY Drama. I don't understand how koreans and may be some people from few other Asian countries digest or accept such pervert TABU relation?
What so ever it is, in no way showing such TABOO/TABU relation as Family Drama is ethical. You can not have sex with a person whom you respect adore and honor as your brother or sister.
About your point 2. I don't understand how could it be my moral responsibility? How I am unfair about the drama? do you want me to become blind and justify or accept such Taboo, Forbidden relation shown between Brother and Sister? I think you don't have the emotional understanding , bonding and piousness that family members shares .
May be you are habituated of finding out the story before watching cause you don't like sad ending. It could be your reason to justify. But again my point is as I believe in real world a family is built when there is emotional attachment among each other - Parents emotionally attached to their children(s) or adopted children(s), Brothers and sisters emotionally attached to each other (even if one of them is adopted) it doesn't matter whether they have same biological parents or not. Ethically and morally when you see or feel emotionally attached or treat a person as an elder or younger brother (or sister) you can not think of hugging or kissing them as a lover, because you honor them, respect them and treat them as brother (or sister). If you do then you are ethically and morally corrupt .
As I mentioned earlier about the social responsibility, its the role of celebrities or drama makers when they make family drama or series they should not depict or show or malign or manipulate a relationship cause possibly it might impact millions of people watching such forbidden relation in a very wrong way. May be today you don't realise it but tomorrow if you have grown up kids son and daughter watching this kdrama then it could impact their thought process and hence their purity of brother and sister relationship. Cause they might not think the same way as you are thinking today. Just like your and mine thought process are not same regarding brother and sister relationship. For you it might be a casual relation ship but for us their is a purity, affectionate, adorable relationship between brother and sister. where sometimes the elder brother or sister treat or act like parent their younger one in character building and support them, guide them in right direction always.
I hope now you will understand my point of view and perspective. Also its moral and social responsibility of everyone to build a morally good healthy society and not a chaotic one.
This is the first time I felt disgusting watching "Family By Choice" from recent episode when the pure emotion of brother sister relation changes to lovers relation. The thought of such relation itself is disgusting. You may accept such forbidden relation between brother and sister.
"The Bequeathed" had such forbidden relation, which was reveled at the end and its goes by the plot or concept of the story. But in "Family By Choice" the main characters grew up as brother and sister. Their family, friends, schoolmates etc all know they are not blood related but they grew and treat each other as brother and sister. In one episode the lead female character wanted to have a common sir name so that everyone will treat the three as brother and sister. And this emotional sibling relationship was shown and presented in the early all episodes. So the concept of brother-sister relation changing into lovers and kissing each other (Episode 11) is disgusting and taboo. I suggest you to watch all the early episodes from their early childhood to high school properly feel them and then I hope you will also agree with me.