This argument only applies to bl not for real gay relationships. Believe me, I’m gay mysel;) And a proposal has nothing to do with the „power“ dynamics of a relationship or if anyone is more fem or mask. It’s the same in hetero relationships. It’s totally common in those relationships that the woman proposes to the man, at least where I come from. So what I mean is, just because someone implies that they want to be proposed it doesn’t mean that they are the sexual receiving part in the relationship.
K-Drama 
And a proposal has nothing to do with the „power“ dynamics of a relationship or if anyone is more fem or mask. It’s the same in hetero relationships. It’s totally common in those relationships that the woman proposes to the man, at least where I come from.
So what I mean is, just because someone implies that they want to be proposed it doesn’t mean that they are the sexual receiving part in the relationship.