I'm confused why the mom wouldn't want to be more sure who her son's father is? Wouldn't she want to have a DNA…
Than has EVERY RIGHT to be furious 🤬 💯💯 But our sweetheart only wants answers. Which he absolutely is ENTITLED for!!!! He must get answers! He must know ASAP!! Can't wait to see how this goes:)
No because I’m sorry, this isn’t just miscommunication anymore, this is full-on character assassination. You’re telling me Akin was with Than for YEARS and still doesn’t know that this man — this bubbly, sparkly-eyed, emotionally transparent golden retriever of a human — is absolutely incapable of masterminding cheating, secret pregnancies, and cinematic betrayal? Be serious. If you know Than, then a random photo of him asleep next to someone suspicious shouldn’t scream “he cheated,” it should scream “my boyfriend is in danger, I’m putting my shoes on.”
And let’s talk about the REAL betrayal here, because ghosting your partner is already unforgivable, but Akin didn’t just disappear — he robbed Than of fatherhood. That’s not angst, that’s diabolical. Even if you genuinely believed your partner cheated (which is already wild), you still don’t get to decide that a child doesn’t deserve to know their parent. Especially when that parent is clearly someone who would step up, love that kid, and do his absolute best. You don’t get to make that choice for someone else. Ever. What makes this worse is that when Akin met the mom, he STILL said nothing. Even if in his head he was like “wow, he’s a cheating asshole,” the morally correct thing would’ve been to encourage the mom to come forward. say: “Whatever happened between us, he’s not a bad person. He’s kind, he’s responsible, and if there’s even a chance the child is his, you should tell him.” That’s not forgiveness — that’s basic human decency. Because from the mom’s perspective, she spent ONE NIGHT with a man. She doesn’t know him. She doesn’t know if Than would help her or be evil about it. Akin had crucial context he could’ve shared, and instead he chose silence — which trapped everyone. And honestly? The mom meeting Than in real life would’ve ended this entire plot in five minutes. One look at him and she would’ve known: yeah, no, this is not the man. This is just a name attached to a phone number. That’s it. Which is why I’m standing by this with my whole chest: Than is not the father. Not emotionally, not logically, not narratively. I believe the truth lies under the wrong contact information.
And don’t tell me Akin moved on, because he clearly didn’t. He’s still in love with Than, still emotionally attached, still raising a child while believing the man he loves betrayed him. That’s not strength, that’s emotional self-harm.
At that point, pick a struggle: either confront him and say “you cheated, I’m leaving,” or admit you never believed it enough to let him go.
When the truth finally comes out and Akin realizes he’s been raising a child that isn’t biologically Thans? That’s going to be INSANE.
Because it won’t even matter anymore — that kid is his forever — but the realization that he destroyed his own happiness, robbed someone else of fatherhood, and rewrote multiple lives based on an assumption? Brutal.
And when that moment comes, I need Akin to APOLOGIZE. I need groveling. I need yearning. I need him to actually fight for Than, because Than deserves someone who chooses him loudly and without hesitation. Especially after showing up with those flowers like the softest, sweetest, most sincere man alive. God, he’s so cute. Too cute for this nonsense.
And let’s talk about the REAL betrayal here, because ghosting your partner is already unforgivable, but Akin didn’t just disappear — he robbed Than of fatherhood. That’s not angst, that’s diabolical. Even if you genuinely believed your partner cheated (which is already wild), you still don’t get to decide that a child doesn’t deserve to know their parent. Especially when that parent is clearly someone who would step up, love that kid, and do his absolute best. You don’t get to make that choice for someone else. Ever.
What makes this worse is that when Akin met the mom, he STILL said nothing. Even if in his head he was like “wow, he’s a cheating asshole,” the morally correct thing would’ve been to encourage the mom to come forward. say: “Whatever happened between us, he’s not a bad person. He’s kind, he’s responsible, and if there’s even a chance the child is his, you should tell him.” That’s not forgiveness — that’s basic human decency. Because from the mom’s perspective, she spent ONE NIGHT with a man. She doesn’t know him. She doesn’t know if Than would help her or be evil about it. Akin had crucial context he could’ve shared, and instead he chose silence — which trapped everyone.
And honestly? The mom meeting Than in real life would’ve ended this entire plot in five minutes. One look at him and she would’ve known: yeah, no, this is not the man. This is just a name attached to a phone number. That’s it. Which is why I’m standing by this with my whole chest: Than is not the father. Not emotionally, not logically, not narratively. I believe the truth lies under the wrong contact information.
And don’t tell me Akin moved on, because he clearly didn’t. He’s still in love with Than, still emotionally attached, still raising a child while believing the man he loves betrayed him. That’s not strength, that’s emotional self-harm.
At that point, pick a struggle: either confront him and say “you cheated, I’m leaving,” or admit you never believed it enough to let him go.
When the truth finally comes out and Akin realizes he’s been raising a child that isn’t biologically Thans? That’s going to be INSANE.
Because it won’t even matter anymore — that kid is his forever — but the realization that he destroyed his own happiness, robbed someone else of fatherhood, and rewrote multiple lives based on an assumption? Brutal.
And when that moment comes, I need Akin to APOLOGIZE. I need groveling. I need yearning. I need him to actually fight for Than, because Than deserves someone who chooses him loudly and without hesitation. Especially after showing up with those flowers like the softest, sweetest, most sincere man alive. God, he’s so cute. Too cute for this nonsense.