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Beautiful and real, but slow
I would be lying if I said I was interested to watch this from the start, but I wasn't. It didn't seem like my cup of tea. It seemed like a slow-burn story set in the province that may bore someone who finds it really hard to be hooked to a drama. I'm guilty to say that I watched it because I'm in my Kim Seon Ho fan girl era but no shame to that, because at least it introduced me to this beautiful drama.
The story dwells into the simple but harsh lives of Aesun and Gwangsik in Jeju. It takes you into all the hardships that they navigate while living a poor, rural life and the relationships that they form along the way. I think it gives a realistic view on the dynamics of a family that is constantly in survival mode - dysfunctional but deeply connected. It's a story that gives you all the details into someone else's life, making it hard for you not to be affected.
Aesun is an ambitious girl since youth. She dreams to be a poet. She had a close relationship with her mother which I found to be admirable, considering the tough love she receives. Gwangsik was an awkward boy who was good at sports. It's hard to describe Gwangsik's character without mentioning Aesun because he quite literally lived for her. I'm not quite sure what to think of this in general, someone devoting their lives for one person. But one thing I know is that this drama had a way to show it beautifully - so much that you'd wish you were that one person. They battle through lives together as a young couple, both carrying their own family issues. The start of their love story was fun to watch, all the push and pull and all the martyr things that Gwangsik did for Aesun. Eventually, Aesun who once had big dreams outside of Jeju became a mom of three and lived along Gwangsik's family. Gwangsik's family irritated me. I can't imagine living with his mother and most especially his grandmother. One of the major events in this series is when Aesun's youngest child dies from an accident. It didn't particularly hit me as hard as the drama tries but I could see how a parent watching this would be affected by it. They did well in portraying grief and how it could last a lifetime.
The second half of the drama focuses a lot on Geummyeong, the daughter, and a little bit on Eunmyeong, the son. I can't say I particularly liked Geummyeong's character but then again, that may be the intention. She was quite cruel to her parents in little ways. I do like following along the story of her two relationships and how parallel they were to each other. It was brave of her to let go of her first relationship. I felt how much she loved the guy but she soon found out how much she and her family would suffer if she married him. I also liked how her relationship with Park Toto was formed. It wasn't a grand and burning love story - it was simple, but real and safe.
The rest of the story goes on to tell the series of misfortunes that happen in each of their lives. Aesun and Gwangsik's lives were filled with so many obstacles and it was sad to see them suffer even in their later years. Gwangsik went to fish every day for his whole life to provide for his family. It was all he knew. One of the saddest scenes was when Eummyeong told Gwangsik that he didn't want to be like him - someone who works hard every day but could only provide so little for his family. Until the end, I felt the guilt he carried because he wasn't able to give the life Aesun deserved. But I related with Aesun as she assured him that the life she shared with him was already enough. This showed how unconditional their love truly was. I'm glad that the couple had the successful break they deserved in the end, even if it was short-lived. Their story reminded me to really appreciate life. A lot of people are not fortunate enough to be given the opportunities that we consider normal or typical. But the characters show that no matter how tough life could get, there is still something worth living for.
Overall thoughts: The story was beautiful. However, with all the hype that it gets, I wouldn't expect too much from this drama. It did not have a climax per se. It was a realistic story that shows how messy life could get. Honestly speaking, I don't think I would have continued to watch if I wasn't anticipating Kim Seon Ho. Some scenes were a little too slow for my liking and it didn't capture me right away. There were episodes that interested me and there were ones that did not. But I'm happy to have stuck through it because the ending ties up the story well.
The story dwells into the simple but harsh lives of Aesun and Gwangsik in Jeju. It takes you into all the hardships that they navigate while living a poor, rural life and the relationships that they form along the way. I think it gives a realistic view on the dynamics of a family that is constantly in survival mode - dysfunctional but deeply connected. It's a story that gives you all the details into someone else's life, making it hard for you not to be affected.
Aesun is an ambitious girl since youth. She dreams to be a poet. She had a close relationship with her mother which I found to be admirable, considering the tough love she receives. Gwangsik was an awkward boy who was good at sports. It's hard to describe Gwangsik's character without mentioning Aesun because he quite literally lived for her. I'm not quite sure what to think of this in general, someone devoting their lives for one person. But one thing I know is that this drama had a way to show it beautifully - so much that you'd wish you were that one person. They battle through lives together as a young couple, both carrying their own family issues. The start of their love story was fun to watch, all the push and pull and all the martyr things that Gwangsik did for Aesun. Eventually, Aesun who once had big dreams outside of Jeju became a mom of three and lived along Gwangsik's family. Gwangsik's family irritated me. I can't imagine living with his mother and most especially his grandmother. One of the major events in this series is when Aesun's youngest child dies from an accident. It didn't particularly hit me as hard as the drama tries but I could see how a parent watching this would be affected by it. They did well in portraying grief and how it could last a lifetime.
The second half of the drama focuses a lot on Geummyeong, the daughter, and a little bit on Eunmyeong, the son. I can't say I particularly liked Geummyeong's character but then again, that may be the intention. She was quite cruel to her parents in little ways. I do like following along the story of her two relationships and how parallel they were to each other. It was brave of her to let go of her first relationship. I felt how much she loved the guy but she soon found out how much she and her family would suffer if she married him. I also liked how her relationship with Park Toto was formed. It wasn't a grand and burning love story - it was simple, but real and safe.
The rest of the story goes on to tell the series of misfortunes that happen in each of their lives. Aesun and Gwangsik's lives were filled with so many obstacles and it was sad to see them suffer even in their later years. Gwangsik went to fish every day for his whole life to provide for his family. It was all he knew. One of the saddest scenes was when Eummyeong told Gwangsik that he didn't want to be like him - someone who works hard every day but could only provide so little for his family. Until the end, I felt the guilt he carried because he wasn't able to give the life Aesun deserved. But I related with Aesun as she assured him that the life she shared with him was already enough. This showed how unconditional their love truly was. I'm glad that the couple had the successful break they deserved in the end, even if it was short-lived. Their story reminded me to really appreciate life. A lot of people are not fortunate enough to be given the opportunities that we consider normal or typical. But the characters show that no matter how tough life could get, there is still something worth living for.
Overall thoughts: The story was beautiful. However, with all the hype that it gets, I wouldn't expect too much from this drama. It did not have a climax per se. It was a realistic story that shows how messy life could get. Honestly speaking, I don't think I would have continued to watch if I wasn't anticipating Kim Seon Ho. Some scenes were a little too slow for my liking and it didn't capture me right away. There were episodes that interested me and there were ones that did not. But I'm happy to have stuck through it because the ending ties up the story well.
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