It's OK to make bad mistakes. Repent and take actions to rectify it. However. 3 years living bad mistakes and…
I mean, at that point, it's a matter of opinion. Based on available sources, there's no hint of coercion or manipulation. Obviously, he's a much older man - that's quite predatory and unethical already. However, it is still two consenting adults choosing to commit infidelity out of their own volition.
As to your second point, that's literally what we are all saying. Higashide also deserves to lose his career, it's not either/or. Both of them should face consequences and the fact that she was the only one who was punished by industry just shows how systemic sexism is in Japanese society.
finally, an article for jdramas!! Renai Mangaka wasn't a groundbreaker or a masterpiece, but it was so much fun and I looked forward to it every week :)
Don't recommend ppl to use sites like dramacool or kissasian, all they do is steal the work of fansubbers without providing credit. Try to direct them to places like bagikuy or justpaste(.)/nsbc2 instead
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you can find the raws on bagikuy or just paste(.)it/nsbc
As to your second point, that's literally what we are all saying. Higashide also deserves to lose his career, it's not either/or. Both of them should face consequences and the fact that she was the only one who was punished by industry just shows how systemic sexism is in Japanese society.
Renai Mangaka wasn't a groundbreaker or a masterpiece, but it was so much fun and I looked forward to it every week :)
How on earth is she supposed to be ugly?