Cao Guangyan/Pu Yiyong IS canon. I was just rewatching the final episode and noticed that during the tomb visit,…
I support this theory with all my heart .... If it is wrong, do not correct us ...
but on a serious note, drama gods the mom was okay with the confession, and in the last episode that was too much queer baiting for my poor heart. Please make it happen ...
I stand by Pegasus market... That should have been the first show mentioned about him... The other shows might be more famous but this is where he shined the most.... Go watch it and come thank me later..
I first saw him back in Coffee Prince during the broadcast year, where he stood out among the cast. He looked…
I can't even remember when I first saw him all I know is that at that time all I had was indie movies of his to watch without subs and voice 1 because the comments under that drama was jsut about his cheek bone 😁😁
No it's the writers fault for not understanding we need to see her truly comprehend the level of her actions aper from the food story and why the apology was needed...
People acting like she would have left him to drown. I can understand what she is doing too
All I can say is that there is a difference between the vidoe she watched about water therapy and whatever the hell she was doing in that river and if she couldn't do alone ask for help and if her ego was too big to ask for help then what can i say...
I think you said it here more adequately than I did... I understand the mother to some extent coming from a third world, war ridden country and also still fighting to stay afloat, having a strict non western parent who beliefs in ass Whoopings I still understand how though it can be for parents... But like you said understanding should make her guiltless and the fault kang ho's because his mom was just doing her what she could...
Not only her actions did she have any réalisation as to why she should truly be, its not just "my actions were wrong" but also "I recognise how they impacted you and how it was traumatic to you" I want to see her know her parenting methods were crap... And yes sge goes back to her old ways and I know thats just the parent she is and that's the parent who got results...
To who?? Because she did to a child not the adult son who she scared for life... And for me it's just lip service, not that she didn't mean it but truly cannot fathom what her apology is for... I want her to truly understand what her upbringing caused her son mentally and ge fact that if was NOT okay even if he turned out into the top super achieving prosecutor, but I also understand her generation are not as self aware but sometimes a person can wish....
As a person who has been in the same situation , i agree eith u. After i got into my twenties i started seeing…
This right here is the point I am trying to make, yes she has been through alot, but that was taken put on her child and her child had to pay the price...
The worst part is there will never be accountability or acceptance of fault and understanding that your trauma and hardships in life was never for your child to suffer from...
I think this is were I disagree with most people here, she did what she could but "what she could" didn't have to not only damage his life but instill fear, resentment, hatred and anger in her son towards her and himself....
And I wish I knew what else to say other than "you have worked hard to get to where you are now and that alone is amazing"
you can have your values we have ours..you are not appointed a judge here to make judgement of other views...a…
I am very confused at your comment... But let my delusional self entertain you...
I am not appointed to judge but I will state my disagreement because I CAN...
Call it delusional but unlike you I do not meindless consume television just because its in front of me, you absorb you see you learn and you unlearn...
Family this family that, mother this mother that, since I said nothing to warrent this personally I have nothing to answer for and I leave you to decide what you may...
But I will answer about the drama since I am here to discuss about the drama, but agian as a person who learns and unlearn let me start by sating a comment that resonated with me very much when it comes to this woman "She doesn’t seem to understand the role she played in his life, one that was built on fear, anger and loneliness but never one of unconditional love." unfortunately in all her sacrifice ( which is a weapon that parents will forever use come good or bad) this is the lasting impression she has given her child and this is the lasting impression needs to come to terms with... Yes she " did it all for him" but at the cost of who's childhood and adulthood?? It most definitely wasn't hers...
Many things might happen, many things might be forgiven but for that to be accepted she needs to know why forgiveness is needed...
And of course at some he loves his mother, it will take some therapy for him to breakdown those emotions...
This isn't about how all of you feel this aboiy what every decision she made and FORCED unto him shaped him in his life and his ability to even be happy....
This is why they say if you are not in a position to NOT make your traumatic life your child's problem don't bother having children...
When it comes to this woman I don't like her most of the times, but I see her, I see the person she is, the young girl who lost her family, the young woman who lost her husband and the terrible mother who was borderline abusive to her child, i didn't grow up in a western home my parents caned us, we had the shouting mothers who whooped us for every little thing, the typical Asian/african mother stereotype you see on YouTube sketches, and even then I know that they love me and would never go to this extent...
"did kang ho ever know his mother loved him??"
I don't care about all this stuff love you guys are trying to preach...
I ask again "did kang go ever feel that love??" "did he ever understand that love"
but on a serious note, drama gods the mom was okay with the confession, and in the last episode that was too much queer baiting for my poor heart. Please make it happen ...
The worst part is there will never be accountability or acceptance of fault and understanding that your trauma and hardships in life was never for your child to suffer from...
I think this is were I disagree with most people here, she did what she could but "what she could" didn't have to not only damage his life but instill fear, resentment, hatred and anger in her son towards her and himself....
And I wish I knew what else to say other than "you have worked hard to get to where you are now and that alone is amazing"
I am not appointed to judge but I will state my disagreement because I CAN...
Call it delusional but unlike you I do not meindless consume television just because its in front of me, you absorb you see you learn and you unlearn...
Family this family that, mother this mother that, since I said nothing to warrent this personally I have nothing to answer for and I leave you to decide what you may...
But I will answer about the drama since I am here to discuss about the drama, but agian as a person who learns and unlearn let me start by sating a comment that resonated with me very much when it comes to this woman "She doesn’t seem to understand the role she played in his life, one that was built on fear, anger and loneliness but never one of unconditional love." unfortunately in all her sacrifice ( which is a weapon that parents will forever use come good or bad) this is the lasting impression she has given her child and this is the lasting impression needs to come to terms with... Yes she " did it all for him" but at the cost of who's childhood and adulthood?? It most definitely wasn't hers...
Many things might happen, many things might be forgiven but for that to be accepted she needs to know why forgiveness is needed...
And of course at some he loves his mother, it will take some therapy for him to breakdown those emotions...
Good intentions, we can argue
Shitty mother, yes
Shitty childhood, yes
This isn't about how all of you feel this aboiy what every decision she made and FORCED unto him shaped him in his life and his ability to even be happy....
This is why they say if you are not in a position to NOT make your traumatic life your child's problem don't bother having children...
When it comes to this woman I don't like her most of the times, but I see her, I see the person she is, the young girl who lost her family, the young woman who lost her husband and the terrible mother who was borderline abusive to her child, i didn't grow up in a western home my parents caned us, we had the shouting mothers who whooped us for every little thing, the typical Asian/african mother stereotype you see on YouTube sketches, and even then I know that they love me and would never go to this extent...
"did kang ho ever know his mother loved him??"
I don't care about all this stuff love you guys are trying to preach...
I ask again "did kang go ever feel that love??" "did he ever understand that love"