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Twisted guilt. The cousin is easier to deal with and Mom is in denial. Where does she begin with her daughter. She is using the jealousy too. Reward the good discipline the bad. The writer got the psychology right. She is a military wife and raised only sons herself but has never raised a daughter. Let alone one she doesn't even know and has not maternal bond with. Guilt every where.

I don't think she is fair either. I can see she is use to dealing with boys. She also is a military wife. However, I have some empathy for her guilt and really not knowing how to handle her daughter. Part of it is the nurturing side which she is avoiding. The script writer got her psychologically correct. She hardened herself and now has to forgive herself. The mother you love to hate. Happy Drama Watching.♥

Two black eyes is no excitement. Humm you are hard to please. What episode are you on?

It's a disconnect to how she thinks her daughter should be. LOL, it's like leaving an innocent baby and returning to find a punk with piercings, tattoos everywhere and purple dyed hair. << in today's terms. What would you think? Would you be shocked and not know how to approach? Would you be angry? Would you be frozen in OMG what a mistake I made. How do I correct this? I can just imagine. That is what I think she is thinking in ancient terms. Wild child. Love it!♥

LOL, it's like leaving an innocent baby and returning to find a punk with piercings, tattoos everywhere and purple dyed hair. << in today's terms. What would you think? Would you be shocked and not know how to approach? Would you be angry? Would you be frozen in OMG what a mistake I made. How do I correct this? I can just imagine. That is what I think she is thinking in ancient terms. Wild child. Love it!♥

LOL, it's like leaving an innocent baby and returning to find a punk with piercings, tattoos everywhere and purple dyed hair. << in today's terms. What would you think? Would you be shocked and not know how to approach? Would you be angry? Would you be frozen in OMG what a mistake I made. How do I correct this? I can just imagine. That is what I think she is thinking in ancient terms. Wild child. Love it!♥

Umm are you watching the same series? If it's not to your taste... This has been exciting. Great characters. Lots of action, comedy, plots. 4413 comments on first 8 episodes. Nooo not exciting at all. Happy Drama Watching.♥

I think some actors are too skinny. There are the lip people and the stick people. Some of the male actors are too slight in their build for the roles they are playing. There was one actress she was so skinny and she running it looked awful and like she had no energy to run even for a few minutes. (was not part of plot.) Happy Drama Watching.♥

Niao Niao is undisciplined child. She was taught nothing on purpose by her aunt to annoy her mother. She is a young girl and is watching her elders. After all the Drama Queens can you blame her. Lots of character growth already. Survival is all she is about now but her true character is coming to the surface. ♥

I have empathy for the mom. She had to harden herself to leave her child behind. It is a dilemma for her. Guilt is playing a big role here. The script writer nailed it. Psychologically it damaged her thinking. She was very hard on herself and therefore she is hard on the daughter. Hopefully she can overcome her dilemma and just unconditionally love her daughter. Time will tell.♥

On what device are you watching? Sometimes it freezes on me and I just restart. It could be the high volume on the website that is causing the issue. ♥

As a mother I can totally understand her dilemma. The hardening off of your mother instincts as to deny your own child put her in a dilemma. She has to open up and look at her feelings. It's hard to explain. Lots of mothers go through this some can bounce back others remain hardened and in denial. I'm not sticking up for her but the writer nailed it. I see it from both sides and can understand and feel empathy for the mother in this case. Hopefully she will come around only the writer knows. ♥

Daughter abandoned at birth. Mother hardened herself to leave. Mother came back and saw what happened. Mother is totally feeling guilty. Mother can't forgive herself and unrealistically chooses what she hoped her daughter would be but isn't. 1. Mother needs to forgive herself. 2. Accept what happened to daughter. 3. Unconditionally love daughter despite her flaws.♥

I noticed that everyone sees but here. Daughter abandoned at birth. Mother hardened herself to leave. Mother came back and saw what happened. Mother is totally feeling guilty. Mother can't forgive herself and unrealistically chooses what she hoped her daughter would be but isn't. 1. Mother needs to forgive herself. 2. Accept what happened to daughter. 3. Unconditionally love daughter despite her flaws. Happy Drama Watching♥

As a Mother I can see this clearly. Great script writer. Here is the low down. Daughter abandoned at birth. Mother hardened herself to leave. Mother came back and saw what happened. Mother is totally feeling guilty. Mother can't forgive herself and unrealistically chooses what she hoped her daughter would be but isn't. 1. Mother needs to forgive herself. 2. Accept what happened to daughter. 3. Unconditionally love daughter despite her flaws. Happy Drama Watching♥

No riddle to Mother and daughter. Daughter abandoned at birth. Mother hardened herself to leave. Mother came back and saw what happened. Mother is totally feeling guilty. Mother can't forgive herself and unrealistically chooses what she hoped her daughter would be but isn't. 1. Mother needs to forgive herself. 2. Accept what happened to daughter. 3. Unconditionally love daughter despite her flaws. End of riddle. As for Ling Buyi's past. His father and mother are at odds. Mother is insane. Father married another woman and lords everything over son who hates him cause Father doesn't take care of his Mother. There was a tragedy that totally sent mother off deep end. I'm sure we will find out more about the tragedy later. Happy Drama Watching.♥

Yes he saw her from the bridge. He had that secret smile again. hahahah♥

Spoil brat. Always gets what she wants. Arranged marriage. Again. ML wants absolutely nothing to do with her. I did like the fake drowning scene. Solved just push someone in to show it's not deep. hahahaha♥

I love Ling Bu Yi how he is intrigued with Shao Shang even from the pointing finger episode. He noticed her on the balcony during his visit to her home and had a knowing smile. He just knows she could be the one. When he saw her at the lantern festival he knew. Love at first sight as he said earlier. He gets a knowing smile and his buddies are noticing. ♥