ji hyeok's character is such a man and I absolutely loved it! he stuck through the "mission" appropriately and…
That part. He understood the assignment of support while also being her rescue. He allowed her the autonomy she needed, he equipped her to fight while also knowing when to step in to take charge. Have mercy..
I donāt care what no one says. This is probably the most mature relationship development Iāve seen in a drama. The way they open up and talk is refreshing. They are silly and childish but at the same time mature and open. I love it. and that lil happy dance over 500 won was everything. The way theyāre willing to make total fools out of themselves to help each other. Thatās authentic unselfish mature love.
theyāre adorable and I love them. They are the kind that can be brash but you know itās from a pure place. They do too much sometimes but itās always in a sweet refreshing way. I love them.
Lots of free time is right. Like dude why are you here like Inspector Clouseau. All up in the business and flat out clueless. Talking about Iād be disappointed. We donāt care about your disappointment. You need to mind yo business. The way this character is over cooking my grits!!!
He will be so dumb enough to not realise from this statement that " he is enemy not friend"
I hope they donāt go with making him that naive because when he asked about why it took him so long to tell him about the camera that told me that maybe heās aware of something about him but not quite what. I hope he can look past him being his senior to see the enemy in his own camp. That was a trigger statement. Iām hoping it leans in the direction of his realizing somethings and putting 2 and 2 together as he draws closer to Ha-Nuel. I hope she tells him he deserve someone fighting by his side and she exposes old boy. I think he (the so called friend) likes her, came on to her or something. Dude is shady and itās obvious.
In this episode of Pleasant Observations aside from Park Hyung Sik being his adorasexy self I have to take a moment to appreciate the fineness that is wrapped in the person of Yoon Park. He is what I like to call nerdy fine. Heās that super smart guy with glasses with the beautiful smile. Heās a complete dork but you love him for his dorky and nerdy ways. You love his awkwardness, his randomness and borderline lame behaviors. He is that in this. Heās the guy you fall for unexpectedly. Everything about him makes you smile and when you stop to really look at him you realize heās super fine too. Like he been fine you just never paid attention because he was always coming out of pocket with the off the wall behavior and statements. lol. He is that.
You shouldnāt be happy right now?!? Wnat a telling statement. Itās giving Iām jealous of you and Iāve been jealous of you and now that Iāve destroyed you, you should be wallowing in your destruction. I did this so you could sink beneath me. Why are you happy and rising?!?
Taking a break on your own v/s getting accused of medical malpractice resulting in the death of a patient on the…
Well the beautiful thing about watching dramas tackling real life issues is you get to explore various aspects of the story line like: 1) how quickly someone's life can be destroyed over false accusations 2) the audacity of other people and their expectation of how you should handle a traumatic experience - it's like victim-shaming. This man's whole life was turned upside down due to no fault of his own. He's being framed. Yet because of his heart and kindness, instead of leaning on his popularity, his money or taking to his YouTube channel to defend himself or taking an attitude of arrogance: he sold off all his assets to pay fines and take care of his employees so that they didn't have to suffer much through the situation. He is bearing this trauma and tragedy all alone. He's done all he could within his own power - yet those on the outside looking in say he's not doing enough. He was framed, therefore victimized but the victim is being expected to do more? You're innocent until proven guilty. Yet he's being expected to do more while, he's doing his best to process through the trauma of someone dying before him, the trauma of being abandoned by everyone he thought was for him - he's lost everything and he's full aware of the more he could lose; 3) The reality that sometimes your best successes and experiences in life are born out of your worst losses in life. Nothing reveals the face of people in your life more than trouble. No one wants to experience trouble or pain or trauma or some worse case scenario situation like this but unfortunately it happens. For his own strength and that of the FL this man makes a statement that is so real "since we are rock bottom let's have fun for once, let's take a break." Why should he be held responsible for proving his innocence when he's a victim too? Why should he do more? Should he just die and continue to carry the weight of his trauma alone? Should he just resolve to be defeated and let this traumatic experience consume him? I don't think so. He is being real with what's before him. And He chose to make a decision to do something for himself he's never done - rest, smile, have fun and find strength to fight on against this situation that has turned his life upside down. As unfortunate as the situation is, this man comes to the realization that "I've worked hard to build this life and it's snatched from me at no fault of my own. I'm carrying the nightmare of someone dying before my very eyes, I can lose my career and all folk care about are themselves." However in the midst of all of this he chooses to find peace and rest in it. Should he die too? Should he break his neck trying to prove himself to people who's opinions clearly shift like the wind. He doesn't owe anyone that kind of sacrifice. He's already sold all he had. He's bearing this weight alone. He's a victim too. And in the midst of this whole situation while tragic, sad, horrific and unfortunate he's able to reflect on his life and he realizes he never took a break, he never rested, he never had fun and neither did the FL so he makes a suggestion for them to take a break. And he's allowed to do that. He's allowed to breathe. That is the start of healing - taking time breathe, stop blaming yourself, stop living to please other people and gather your strength so you can overcome the thing you're facing.
I can go on but as I stated before, this is the beauty of watching dramas that cover things like this: you get to talk about the ugly of life and how different people process through the ugly and pain because life is filled with tragedy. And as someone who has had my own share - I can say from experience my best experiences in life, the most peace and rest I experienced came out of the worst parts of my life. It's not ideal but it's real. And it's real that folk think they are entitled to tell you how you should process your own trauma as a victim so I stand by my perspective and you are within your rights to stand by yours. That's the beautiful thing about life.
Maybe I just see things different but the male leadās assumed lack of concern over his situation does not come off as a lack of concern to me. From what I see, both of the leads worked hard from their youth to be the best, perform the best and be on top but they never caught a break or had a moment to just enjoy their youth or life.
Sure the male lead built up success but who was that success for. And who has he had to lean on. When everything started falling down around him, his supposed friends and even his own mom didnāt comfort him all she cared about was how it would affect them - his father more specifically. Itās like he built this success but it wasnāt for himself. While the situation is bad, I believe heās relieved in some ways because he can take a break from performing and being what other people want him to be. I mean everyone in this manās life is shady and unreliable. I donāt blame him for wanting to have a carefree moment for once. And the female lead needs a carefree moment as well.
Thatās just me. I am certain he cares but I understand his calm. Itās like well Iām down, itās gonna take a while to build back up so let me rest and enjoy the moments of peace I can find in the chaos. I donāt blame him one bit because my heart breaks for how utterly alone he is with no support. The FL is literally all he has to cling to. Thatās heart breaking.
I commend every actress who has to look in the face of and fall into the arms of Park Hyung Sik because I would lose it. He is like the perfect combination of fun loving, gorgeous, sexy, silly and ughh. He makes me giggle.
Iām already in love with this drama. A childish competitive Park Hyung Sik is a national treasure and gift. I canāt stop laughing at these high school flashbacks š¤£š¤£š¤£
I donāt care what no one says, there is something about a man who can cute and vulnerable in his relationship. My husband and I been married 25 years and I love how playful we are with each other to this day. I love his pouty moments, his serious moments and every moment in between. Him being cute doesnāt make him any less grown. After seeing the ML scowl itās refreshing to see this side of him. I am loving it.
1) how quickly someone's life can be destroyed over false accusations
2) the audacity of other people and their expectation of how you should handle a traumatic experience - it's like victim-shaming. This man's whole life was turned upside down due to no fault of his own. He's being framed. Yet because of his heart and kindness, instead of leaning on his popularity, his money or taking to his YouTube channel to defend himself or taking an attitude of arrogance: he sold off all his assets to pay fines and take care of his employees so that they didn't have to suffer much through the situation. He is bearing this trauma and tragedy all alone. He's done all he could within his own power - yet those on the outside looking in say he's not doing enough. He was framed, therefore victimized but the victim is being expected to do more? You're innocent until proven guilty. Yet he's being expected to do more while, he's doing his best to process through the trauma of someone dying before him, the trauma of being abandoned by everyone he thought was for him - he's lost everything and he's full aware of the more he could lose;
3) The reality that sometimes your best successes and experiences in life are born out of your worst losses in life. Nothing reveals the face of people in your life more than trouble. No one wants to experience trouble or pain or trauma or some worse case scenario situation like this but unfortunately it happens. For his own strength and that of the FL this man makes a statement that is so real "since we are rock bottom let's have fun for once, let's take a break." Why should he be held responsible for proving his innocence when he's a victim too? Why should he do more? Should he just die and continue to carry the weight of his trauma alone? Should he just resolve to be defeated and let this traumatic experience consume him? I don't think so. He is being real with what's before him. And He chose to make a decision to do something for himself he's never done - rest, smile, have fun and find strength to fight on against this situation that has turned his life upside down. As unfortunate as the situation is, this man comes to the realization that "I've worked hard to build this life and it's snatched from me at no fault of my own. I'm carrying the nightmare of someone dying before my very eyes, I can lose my career and all folk care about are themselves." However in the midst of all of this he chooses to find peace and rest in it. Should he die too? Should he break his neck trying to prove himself to people who's opinions clearly shift like the wind. He doesn't owe anyone that kind of sacrifice. He's already sold all he had. He's bearing this weight alone. He's a victim too. And in the midst of this whole situation while tragic, sad, horrific and unfortunate he's able to reflect on his life and he realizes he never took a break, he never rested, he never had fun and neither did the FL so he makes a suggestion for them to take a break. And he's allowed to do that. He's allowed to breathe. That is the start of healing - taking time breathe, stop blaming yourself, stop living to please other people and gather your strength so you can overcome the thing you're facing.
I can go on but as I stated before, this is the beauty of watching dramas that cover things like this: you get to talk about the ugly of life and how different people process through the ugly and pain because life is filled with tragedy. And as someone who has had my own share - I can say from experience my best experiences in life, the most peace and rest I experienced came out of the worst parts of my life. It's not ideal but it's real. And it's real that folk think they are entitled to tell you how you should process your own trauma as a victim so I stand by my perspective and you are within your rights to stand by yours. That's the beautiful thing about life.
Have a great day...
Sure the male lead built up success but who was that success for. And who has he had to lean on. When everything started falling down around him, his supposed friends and even his own mom didnāt comfort him all she cared about was how it would affect them - his father more specifically. Itās like he built this success but it wasnāt for himself. While the situation is bad, I believe heās relieved in some ways because he can take a break from performing and being what other people want him to be. I mean everyone in this manās life is shady and unreliable. I donāt blame him for wanting to have a carefree moment for once. And the female lead needs a carefree moment as well.
Thatās just me. I am certain he cares but I understand his calm. Itās like well Iām down, itās gonna take a while to build back up so let me rest and enjoy the moments of peace I can find in the chaos. I donāt blame him one bit because my heart breaks for how utterly alone he is with no support. The FL is literally all he has to cling to. Thatās heart breaking.