the fact that gh still hasn't had the BIG moment with her (crying? hugging? kissing?) makes me think and HOPE it will be amazing when they both decide to let it all go. i saw the preview for the next episode and i wonder if he's talking about her, that would make me think that gh is still trying to keep a certain distance with yuri, scared that it will be over soon, as for why he hasn't really acted as much. cause opening that chapter of his life and be vurnerable again would cost him way too much if he loses her another time. (trying to kill himself another time?) on the other hand yuri is doing the same, i feel like they're both trying to keep a certain distance because they know it would be a mess if they both let go and then she has to 'die' again.
(which makes me love their relationship even more, thinking they're so in love with each others they have to put a wall between them not ot hurt that much. but we will see if this is just a theory or they'll go for this route)
I cried so much in this episode!! Don't know how it's going to end, even I don't know how I want it to end. But…
this is what bothers me too ! everyone hugged her, crying on her arms, and he did nothing? he legit tried to kill himself to be with her!
i feel like Gang Hwa is protecting himself by trying to shut everything off. I think his whole persona after Yuri's death is ''weird''. He had no emotions after she died, i feel like he used Minjung to have someone who could take care of him and his kid. He didn't do the death - cope - acceptance - moving on , thing. He went straight to the ''moving on'' as a way to shut the pain away as quickly as possible. We see the flashbacks with Yuri and he's so full of life and love for her, while with his current wife he's so boring, he lost everything I enjoyed in his character from 'before'. Even at the end of this episode, when he eats the egg and both of them gets angry at him, Yuri has that confidence, the way she said it makes you understand she's not afraid of calling him out, while Minjung is still keeping a type of distance.
So I hope this drama will show how he's trying to shutting everything off and pretending to live a good life because the pain of losing Yuri was too strong. I wouldn't even want him to be with Minjung at the end, I want him as a single father, something he should have done before letting anyone else in his life. If the storyline of him seeking help for his phobia will happen, I'm positive he might trigger something that he has been hiding deep down that might make him snap and act towards Yuri!
by the way this new episode ended (9) it feels like they're about to drop the guy and have a wlw relationship lmao it frustates me because i have no idea of how the story could continue
i'm loving this drama so much, there are few things that make me sad tho.
i don't like how they don't show how much yuri loves ganghwa. i assume yuri knows she won't be staying on earth after the 49 days, still, i don't like that it seems as if she has no feelings left for him but only cares about her daughter. at the end of the day the drama first episode was all about how madly in love they were. i can't even see her pretending she doesn't care about him, just like he's trying to do since the beginning.
another thing i don't like its the possible second lead romance? the pilot guy seems to be a new love interest for yuri and to be honest i would hate it so much. what i would love in the end is to see yuri and ganghwa back together and the pilot with minjung (cause it looked like she knew him in a way?)
its pretty clear that ganghwa doesn't love minjung and resent the daugther, he has been trying to be as far as them both probably due to the fact that he will never be over yuri's death (and he wanted to die and be with her even if he had to look after his baby) i just really REALLY hope the next episodes will show yuri's love for him, i started the drama shipping them so much i can't believe it went from 100 to 0 in a second. she was by his side all the time to check on the baby and all, i can't even imagine falling out of love with my husband if i can still see him every day, see how he tried to kill himself to be with me and struggle in being alive without 'me'.
on the other hand yuri is doing the same, i feel like they're both trying to keep a certain distance because they know it would be a mess if they both let go and then she has to 'die' again.
(which makes me love their relationship even more, thinking they're so in love with each others they have to put a wall between them not ot hurt that much. but we will see if this is just a theory or they'll go for this route)
i feel like Gang Hwa is protecting himself by trying to shut everything off. I think his whole persona after Yuri's death is ''weird''.
He had no emotions after she died, i feel like he used Minjung to have someone who could take care of him and his kid. He didn't do the death - cope - acceptance - moving on , thing. He went straight to the ''moving on'' as a way to shut the pain away as quickly as possible. We see the flashbacks with Yuri and he's so full of life and love for her, while with his current wife he's so boring, he lost everything I enjoyed in his character from 'before'.
Even at the end of this episode, when he eats the egg and both of them gets angry at him, Yuri has that confidence, the way she said it makes you understand she's not afraid of calling him out, while Minjung is still keeping a type of distance.
So I hope this drama will show how he's trying to shutting everything off and pretending to live a good life because the pain of losing Yuri was too strong.
I wouldn't even want him to be with Minjung at the end, I want him as a single father, something he should have done before letting anyone else in his life.
If the storyline of him seeking help for his phobia will happen, I'm positive he might trigger something that he has been hiding deep down that might make him snap and act towards Yuri!
*so sorry for the big comment*
it frustates me because i have no idea of how the story could continue
i don't like how they don't show how much yuri loves ganghwa. i assume yuri knows she won't be staying on earth after the 49 days, still, i don't like that it seems as if she has no feelings left for him but only cares about her daughter. at the end of the day the drama first episode was all about how madly in love they were. i can't even see her pretending she doesn't care about him, just like he's trying to do since the beginning.
another thing i don't like its the possible second lead romance?
the pilot guy seems to be a new love interest for yuri and to be honest i would hate it so much.
what i would love in the end is to see yuri and ganghwa back together and the pilot with minjung (cause it looked like she knew him in a way?)
its pretty clear that ganghwa doesn't love minjung and resent the daugther, he has been trying to be as far as them both probably due to the fact that he will never be over yuri's death (and he wanted to die and be with her even if he had to look after his baby)
i just really REALLY hope the next episodes will show yuri's love for him, i started the drama shipping them so much i can't believe it went from 100 to 0 in a second. she was by his side all the time to check on the baby and all, i can't even imagine falling out of love with my husband if i can still see him every day, see how he tried to kill himself to be with me and struggle in being alive without 'me'.