Is there anyone who can explain???- they met in front of theater, but she didn't have even a minute to say hello?…
She didn't say hello because she was called urgently by the director and not that she can say hello and he can hear it. And wouldn't they fell awkward and taken aback considering they met each other after 1 year?
About the dialogue in the play, it means the following:
The analogy of two people without arms is used to illustrate a situation where both individuals face a similar challenge in the relationship.
The phrase "they will start hating each other soon" implies that, in general, people might find it challenging to cope with difficulties, and it could potentially lead to frustration and resentment.
However, the key point in the dialogue is the contrast with the second part: "why don't we love each other until then." Here, the FL is proposing an alternative perspective, suggesting that instead of succumbing to negativity, the couple can choose to love and support each other through their shared challenges.
The FL is expressing a realization that her initial discomfort with dating a deaf guy was a mistake but she is acknowledging the importance of accepting and embracing differences in a relationship, and realizing that love can prevail over any challenges they may face.
Fl was talking to someone who she know want to sleep with her . She didn't block him even her one friend said…
1. She got mad and left when he said he didn't took the job and that's understandable. Look from her point of view. They have been dating for years and years and she wants to marry this guy and settle but without a secure stable job it's not possible. She was really looking forward about the merger but then he said he's not doing it without explanation. So, of course she will walk out of the house.
2. She was talking to this guy and I know it's wrong and also what makes it more wrong was that she knew the guy's intention but she still didn't block him straight away (although she didn't reply him often or immediately upon receiving the message). But, you have to also think about it in another way. If the ML had given her the time and attention she wouldn't have looked for some attention elsewhere. She wanted to spend time with her bf but the only time he spent with her in the later stage of their relationship is while working together and when the bf wants to have sex.
Just to compare the bf was having drinks with the girl that his friends invited. Isn't that also some sense cheating ? cause he should have left the restaurant without taking any part in drinking. He knew the intention of the girls but he still chose to stay there.
3. Why would the FL have to say sorry to him, if the bf is shown to be the one who breaks promises, always on his laptop and doesn't even realizes that his girlfriend has arrived and right next to him, uses the expensive wine saved for the two of them with his friends and ditches her for his friends and football. These are some scenes shown in the drama but such occurrences have been happening for multiple years which lead to the FL frustration.
4. The elevator scene was wrong and I agree. What made it more sad was she continued to walk with this guy (although it's somewhat understandable that she froze). Also, allowing that guy's hand on her shoulder was insane. Then she didn't even bother to give an explanation even if that was a misunderstanding. Going from the bar to the bedroom (even if lets consider that nothing happened) is crazy.
You seem to believe that misunderstanding is the sole reason, but it's just one of the factors. The challenges…
I get why you would assume she is selfish, but I just feel it may be a bit strong to label the girl as selfish. I think it is more of a moral dilemma as she is conflicted because of shortsightedness.
The ML took his girlfriend for granted which he should not have. They have been in 7 years relationship, and literally grew up together through most of their adult life so it makes sense that the ML got too comfortable in the relationship (like deep inside he knew she would always be with him no matter what happens). His focus was more on his business and spending the little free time he have with his friends instead of his gf. He should have realized that he was neglecting his girlfriend (although he did loved her but it did not actually show).
On the FL side, every feeling and neglect she felt from ML is valid. It is seen that she has been consistently contributing to the relationship and ML has always been her no.1 priority from the start and even in the present. She was the better person in the relationship and was the one who was keeping the relationship afloat.
But regardless of that, if she did reach her limits, its better to confront her partner(not ghost) and then just leave the person no matter how hard it is if it doesn't work. Then, she can move on to another person and can hook up or do whatever she wants. But no matter who's fault it is or who is to blame for the downfall of the relationship, it is not acceptable to cheat (which we are not sure a the moment) while they are still in a relationship. No matter how wrong the ML was, if the FL did cheat then there is no recovery from it. She cannot get a free pass.
You seem to believe that misunderstanding is the sole reason, but it's just one of the factors. The challenges…
Yes thats the point. She was in a not so good situation (eg: in terms of her career) and wanted someone to be her support and thats when she met him. She was able to disregard the compromise the relationship would entail at that moment because he was there for her when she was going through hard times.
But now she is in a relatively good place, the misunderstanding actually opened her eyes to those things she initially ignored. So, she is now finally realizing whether she have what it takes to actually fully go through with the relationship without feeling the sense of compromise.
You can't really blame her because humans are like that. They don't think about all the variables when making decision especially when the decision is something you've never taken before. It takes time to settle and to start considering other factors about the decision that they have taken.
If you are in not so good place and someone comes into your your life, I don't think you would start to calculate and consider all the things before being in the relation right? It takes time and situation for you to come into those realization. People only think about problems once they are in a situation where they have to face it, not before.
Just a relatable example but in a different domain. Eg: The government only works on creating laws once they see something as an issue. No lawmaker starts to look at all the possible issues before it actually happens and start to act on it. Something needs to trigger the lawmaker before they realize that the law should be in place.
Now most people starting to Criticizing the Greenflag FL 😂😂🤣🤣
I don't see anything wrong with the female lead (FL) up until now. She has just come to the realization that being in a relationship with someone who cannot hear and speak poses challenges. She recognizes that she would have to give up things she enjoys, as she mentioned at the end of episode 13.
Many people believe that the misunderstanding is the sole reason for the FL's behavior. However, the actual reason is that she has moved beyond the initial love bubble, where the primary concern is how much they like each other. Now, she is grappling with the practical implications and challenges of what her world would be like if she decides to stay with him.
NGL MoEun is annoying me. I understand her side with all the insecurities of hearing everything from everyone…
You seem to believe that misunderstanding is the sole reason, but it's just one of the factors. The challenges in expressing her feelings about the situation to him, a difficulty she doesn't face when talking to others, have led her to question if she can truly be happy with him. She contemplates the possibility of the comfort she initially found in silent communication turning into discomfort. This uncertainty is causing her to second-guess the relationship.
Those problems are little bit overdramatized. My husband is Swiss and when we go to my country he has no clue…
If she and he are together, it will always be a situation where he may not fully understand what others are saying. This is different from your situation, which is temporary while you and your husband are in your country.
Moreover, if your husband stays in your country for an extended period, he can learn the language to better adapt himself. However, a deaf person cannot learn to hear, and instead, others must adjust to the deaf person, which may not always happen.
Furthermore, she has realized the possibility that what initially made her feel comfortable around him might eventually become uncomfortable. This is a profound realization worth contemplating. She mentioned enjoying laughing, talking, and joking loudly, activities she cannot engage in when she is with him. She wonders whether the initial comfort she found in silence might eventually turn into discomfort.
I wish I didn't read the spoilers and especially the rumors about the 1st & 2nd to be revealed couple, it really…
True. I didn't feel any sad emotion when the second couple was revealed. Which was strange considering season 2 long term couple and their back story reveal made my eyes teared up.
Deep inside, I have this feeling that the two couples that were revealed are not totally genuine.
I think Minji is either quite sensitive emotionally or the whole environment is overwhelming for her because she…
She cried after the game became she was pushed a bit too hard and fell. Thats the reason she cried. But then she changed the narrative that she cried because she wanted to win so as to pick Gwan Hee (such a lie).
If you have watched previous episodes carefully you know she changes her narrative to uphold her character. For example, when Minji was was back to inferno after the first simultaneous date with two guys, she wanted to talk to Gwan hee so, she asked who was the one who said she looked like the green character (forgot the name) as she thought it was Gwan hee but when he said that he didn't and it was actually Han Bin, she said she was glad that Gwan hee didn't and asked him to go to talk alone. Basically, she changed the narrative on the spot to talk to Gwan hee.
Ikr!! I'm so sick of him being the redflag he is, I just skip all his parts😂😂
He is a 4 years old kid trapped inside 38 year old body. This man seeks for attention and validation. He want's every girls to come to him like he is some kind of trophy. Also, he wants the girls to be sure about him but that doesn't apply to him. Instead of choosing the girl he likes the most he is looking at the girl who likes him the most.
This show is proving that girls wants bad guys no matter how toxic that guy will be towards them.
almost all dating shows have 1 or more contestants who have acting or idol experience, extroverted and energetic…
I think it has mostly to do with how the editor edited the video. At this pointed its futile to even try to guess because the editor is intentionally making the viewers to guess the wrong couple.
I think the first couple can easily get back together because both liked each other and did not had any major fallout reason. I also think that if the guy tried, he can get back with his ex outside the show pretty easily. Not sure why they have to go through the lengthy route by joining the show because 99% sure they are the end game.
About the dialogue in the play, it means the following:
The analogy of two people without arms is used to illustrate a situation where both individuals face a similar challenge in the relationship.
The phrase "they will start hating each other soon" implies that, in general, people might find it challenging to cope with difficulties, and it could potentially lead to frustration and resentment.
However, the key point in the dialogue is the contrast with the second part: "why don't we love each other until then." Here, the FL is proposing an alternative perspective, suggesting that instead of succumbing to negativity, the couple can choose to love and support each other through their shared challenges.
The FL is expressing a realization that her initial discomfort with dating a deaf guy was a mistake but she is acknowledging the importance of accepting and embracing differences in a relationship, and realizing that love can prevail over any challenges they may face.
2. She was talking to this guy and I know it's wrong and also what makes it more wrong was that she knew the guy's intention but she still didn't block him straight away (although she didn't reply him often or immediately upon receiving the message). But, you have to also think about it in another way. If the ML had given her the time and attention she wouldn't have looked for some attention elsewhere. She wanted to spend time with her bf but the only time he spent with her in the later stage of their relationship is while working together and when the bf wants to have sex.
Just to compare the bf was having drinks with the girl that his friends invited. Isn't that also some sense cheating ? cause he should have left the restaurant without taking any part in drinking. He knew the intention of the girls but he still chose to stay there.
3. Why would the FL have to say sorry to him, if the bf is shown to be the one who breaks promises, always on his laptop and doesn't even realizes that his girlfriend has arrived and right next to him, uses the expensive wine saved for the two of them with his friends and ditches her for his friends and football. These are some scenes shown in the drama but such occurrences have been happening for multiple years which lead to the FL frustration.
4. The elevator scene was wrong and I agree. What made it more sad was she continued to walk with this guy (although it's somewhat understandable that she froze). Also, allowing that guy's hand on her shoulder was insane. Then she didn't even bother to give an explanation even if that was a misunderstanding. Going from the bar to the bedroom (even if lets consider that nothing happened) is crazy.
The ML took his girlfriend for granted which he should not have. They have been in 7 years relationship, and literally grew up together through most of their adult life so it makes sense that the ML got too comfortable in the relationship (like deep inside he knew she would always be with him no matter what happens). His focus was more on his business and spending the little free time he have with his friends instead of his gf. He should have realized that he was neglecting his girlfriend (although he did loved her but it did not actually show).
On the FL side, every feeling and neglect she felt from ML is valid. It is seen that she has been consistently contributing to the relationship and ML has always been her no.1 priority from the start and even in the present. She was the better person in the relationship and was the one who was keeping the relationship afloat.
But regardless of that, if she did reach her limits, its better to confront her partner(not ghost) and then just leave the person no matter how hard it is if it doesn't work. Then, she can move on to another person and can hook up or do whatever she wants. But no matter who's fault it is or who is to blame for the downfall of the relationship, it is not acceptable to cheat (which we are not sure a the moment) while they are still in a relationship. No matter how wrong the ML was, if the FL did cheat then there is no recovery from it. She cannot get a free pass.
But now she is in a relatively good place, the misunderstanding actually opened her eyes to those things she initially ignored. So, she is now finally realizing whether she have what it takes to actually fully go through with the relationship without feeling the sense of compromise.
You can't really blame her because humans are like that. They don't think about all the variables when making decision especially when the decision is something you've never taken before. It takes time to settle and to start considering other factors about the decision that they have taken.
If you are in not so good place and someone comes into your your life, I don't think you would start to calculate and consider all the things before being in the relation right? It takes time and situation for you to come into those realization. People only think about problems once they are in a situation where they have to face it, not before.
Just a relatable example but in a different domain.
Eg: The government only works on creating laws once they see something as an issue. No lawmaker starts to look at all the possible issues before it actually happens and start to act on it. Something needs to trigger the lawmaker before they realize that the law should be in place.
Many people believe that the misunderstanding is the sole reason for the FL's behavior. However, the actual reason is that she has moved beyond the initial love bubble, where the primary concern is how much they like each other. Now, she is grappling with the practical implications and challenges of what her world would be like if she decides to stay with him.
Moreover, if your husband stays in your country for an extended period, he can learn the language to better adapt himself. However, a deaf person cannot learn to hear, and instead, others must adjust to the deaf person, which may not always happen.
Furthermore, she has realized the possibility that what initially made her feel comfortable around him might eventually become uncomfortable. This is a profound realization worth contemplating. She mentioned enjoying laughing, talking, and joking loudly, activities she cannot engage in when she is with him. She wonders whether the initial comfort she found in silence might eventually turn into discomfort.
Deep inside, I have this feeling that the two couples that were revealed are not totally genuine.
If you have watched previous episodes carefully you know she changes her narrative to uphold her character.
For example, when Minji was was back to inferno after the first simultaneous date with two guys, she wanted to talk to Gwan hee so, she asked who was the one who said she looked like the green character (forgot the name) as she thought it was Gwan hee but when he said that he didn't and it was actually Han Bin, she said she was glad that Gwan hee didn't and asked him to go to talk alone. Basically, she changed the narrative on the spot to talk to Gwan hee.
This show is proving that girls wants bad guys no matter how toxic that guy will be towards them.
Not sure why they have to go through the lengthy route by joining the show because 99% sure they are the end game.