Em Mag

I don't care what people say, I genuinely liked this movie lol. Even though I may be influenced by the fact that I first watched it when I was really young (like 12 or 13) so ngl I kinda felt nostalgic when I rewatched it recently. I thought that it was really funny to be honest, even now that I'm much older.

Oh you were praising this movie for not doing this stereotypical trope?? My bad, I totally misunderstood you then!! Yes I know, I think it's because of the stereotypes in yaois and so they reproduce it in BL dramas. So it only perpetuate this cliché. Now I know that you're not this kind of person but there is actually some real people (usually it's straight girls) who think like that and it's really tiresome. And sometimes even in dramas, the sides girls who're suppose to represent fujoshis, have problematic behaviors but it's normalized and presented as something funny when actually, it's just super cringe. For example, when they're fangirling when they see a gay couple and ask themselves who's the uke and who's the seme. Some people do that in real life as if it was normal when it's totally not.

Mmh excuse me but I'd like to say something, what you said about "the absence of clear seme/uke (masculine/feminine)" is super problematic. There is not necessarily a "masculine" and "feminine" guy in a homosexual relationship. A homosexual relationship is only a relationship between two guys and nothing else so don't push heteronormative gender roles on gay couples.. Also, a "seme" is not necessarily masculine and an "uke" is not necessarily feminine, and most of gay couples are reversibles anyway. Those are just sexual preferences and it has nothing to do with the physical aspects of a person and it is certainly not a representation of "who's the guy and who's the girl in the relationship" (and if it's not what you meant, it is what you imply even if it is not on purpose). And thinking about "who"s the uke and who's the seme?" (which literally means "who fucks who ?") when you see a gay couple is super inappropriate. I don't know if you're a guy or girl but even if you were a gay man, my point would still be the same (but it would be so much worse if you weren't a queer man because it'd be genuine fetishization). So please, stop. <3