I know this is just an anonymous internet statement throwing individual, but for anyone who thinks this is true, I just wanted to make it clear that a brain liking or disliking characters is actually extremely psychologically normal.
If anything, OP probably really dislikes people in reality who have careless personalities. Looks like it might cause a bit of anxiety seeing the lack of control of consequences that could have been prevented.
As a person who would consider myself boring, please don't put me on the same level as people who actually have opinions about these situations.
If it makes you feel better to the outside world you both look a little bit off kilter. The first person uses "cumbersome" the same way someone would use it to refer to a complicated educational text. The second person has obviously had their intelligence insulted before and made assumptions of what an internet stranger meant by one word (mind you it wasn't the tone of the comment nor a phrase that is used to insult another individual), then decides to respond in a similar tone as what they assumed that stranger's comment was in. The first person then gets both confused and insulted (probably after rereading their own comment) and responds in a manner that is less mature than how they started, probably from the assumptions that the second individual is young and shallow (which they could've gotten from the way of writing and excess judgement based on one word, idk that's the path I went). The second individual mistakes matching assumed level to mean shallow and arrogant. They then respond with the most judgmental comment yet, using what sounds like backhanded "advice" that does not ring true (I just want to know where they thought they could tell what type of person they were because of word choice). The first person thankfully managed to calm themselves down at the end and leave the blackhole that is a comments argument and maturely explain and end the exchange.
I also wanted people to know that "proving yourself, material gains, and one upmanship" are not just for those with "no inwards validation". You can show off your gains in a materialistic way without it being your main means of expression (what did you want them to brag about? How filial they are? You're an internet comment.). You can be competitive without putting others down. You can enjoy proving yourself, skills, and talents to others without being arrogant. It's all about how you express it and the reactions you expect to get.
" I can say it safely and without bragging that you will never travel that distance not if you live to be a hundred. Not with your communication skills." This wasn't it. They meant to say, "Thank you for your unneeded concerns. I'm proud to say that with these skills I have gotten as far as I am."
The reason I wrote all this out is obviously because I have nothing better to do. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk!!
If anything, OP probably really dislikes people in reality who have careless personalities. Looks like it might cause a bit of anxiety seeing the lack of control of consequences that could have been prevented.
As a person who would consider myself boring, please don't put me on the same level as people who actually have opinions about these situations.
Thank you.
I also wanted people to know that "proving yourself, material gains, and one upmanship" are not just for those with "no inwards validation". You can show off your gains in a materialistic way without it being your main means of expression (what did you want them to brag about? How filial they are? You're an internet comment.). You can be competitive without putting others down. You can enjoy proving yourself, skills, and talents to others without being arrogant. It's all about how you express it and the reactions you expect to get.
" I can say it safely and without bragging that you will never travel that distance not if you live to be a hundred. Not with your communication skills." This wasn't it. They meant to say, "Thank you for your unneeded concerns. I'm proud to say that with these skills I have gotten as far as I am."
The reason I wrote all this out is obviously because I have nothing better to do. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk!!