i think if she had in fact bullied people she should have the decency to have owned up to it and apologise already to at least show some sincerity in having changed as a person but she hasn't so even if her and her agency change their mind and own up to it, i dont think it would hold any value. not only that, the accusation include physical abuse so there is no possible way to think 'oh they're just a child, they don't know any better,' - i think you're taught not only in school but i'd expect at home that violence is shitty so this choice has no excuse. if the actress had changed she should have already have owned up to it and put in the effort to get in contact with her victims, apologise with no expectation of the victims accepting her apology
i can also understand people can say the timing is off but this is a build up of hurt and feeling wronged that's boiled over seeing someone who had hurt you in a position of success that you believe they dont deserve
i just feel terrible for everyone else involved who have worked hard and were actually decent people -- i'll withold judgement on the actress because there isnt proof but people who are wanting proof i just want you to take a moment and think in what bullying situation do you gather proof? i don't think this is a situation where people can demand for evidence - people wont accept cyberbullying proof because in this day and age editing is simple for anyone and video or photo proof sounds stupid to expect to have because what victim can take a photo of their abuser assaulting them? like i dont think people realise how dire the bullying scene is in korea and how asian mind set is (as an asian myself) people dont realise that most of the time with victims being in the powerless position they are in, they are also expected to keep quiet and to expect high school kids or middle school kids who are already living in a sensitive period of their life to fight back is asking for too much. i find myself offended for the victims (if the story is true) to be expected to provide proof of a time of so much hardship and can only imagine the frustration and anger they felt seeing someone that made their life horrible, being successful and acting in a drama that even has an exploration of bullying within the story.
i can also understand people can say the timing is off but this is a build up of hurt and feeling wronged that's boiled over seeing someone who had hurt you in a position of success that you believe they dont deserve
i just feel terrible for everyone else involved who have worked hard and were actually decent people -- i'll withold judgement on the actress because there isnt proof but people who are wanting proof i just want you to take a moment and think in what bullying situation do you gather proof? i don't think this is a situation where people can demand for evidence - people wont accept cyberbullying proof because in this day and age editing is simple for anyone and video or photo proof sounds stupid to expect to have because what victim can take a photo of their abuser assaulting them? like i dont think people realise how dire the bullying scene is in korea and how asian mind set is (as an asian myself) people dont realise that most of the time with victims being in the powerless position they are in, they are also expected to keep quiet and to expect high school kids or middle school kids who are already living in a sensitive period of their life to fight back is asking for too much. i find myself offended for the victims (if the story is true) to be expected to provide proof of a time of so much hardship and can only imagine the frustration and anger they felt seeing someone that made their life horrible, being successful and acting in a drama that even has an exploration of bullying within the story.