I think Zhuang Xu is a good person when it comes to others except for Xi Guang. With Ye Rong, he believes in her…
We know that someone who's shy in love tends to be a bit cold as a form of protection, or make comments to hide their discomfort or fear of expressing their feelings. This is typical of immature men or those schoolboy "cat-dog" relationships where the guy will act like you're his buddy, even getting into fights with you, even though he secretly loves you. Given the way he always looked at FL, I can't believe he was just playing with her for his ego; he's just a loser when it comes to love.
I can't hate Zhuang Xu, because his mistakes are the kind of human errors that are common: doubting himself, trusting those closest to him, and choosing a comfort zone. It's not healthy, but it doesn't warrant being labeled a red flag either. Naturally, I don't like Zhuang Xu, but I think he's more of a character defeated by his own timing and personality, not a toxic guy. Besides, who said he wasn't trying hard? I'm not sure they actually looked at him; he was trying, but the author didn't let Nie Xi Guang know that. If you look at the dynamic between Zhuang Xu and Lin Yusen, you also see that they never fight masculinity, never fight the gaze, never argue, never feel like they have to compete, because they are aware of their respective positions... but yes, not all audiences managed to see this message that the author wanted to convey... Because if you do, you can't call it a red flag. That's all!
my chinese followers Said me on instagram that ZUHANG XU is liked in china it’s why he has a lot of screen time
Opinions are mixed about him, but many appreciate him for his idol-like quality and cute face (in my opinion only). In the series, he's very expressive with his eyes; even when he's not smiling, you can see a lot in them. I'd rather wait for a drama where he's the lead because I have a feeling he won't have a happy ending here.
It makes me chuckle because my sister's husband is exactly like Zhuang Xu. He was incapable of seizing his opportunities throughout their school years, and they went their separate ways. One day, while my sister was in a relationship, he realized he'd missed his chance.
Two years passed, and then they both found themselves single at a party. They had a long chat, and he finally confessed his feelings, even though it was late.
They got together, and now they've been married for almost eight years. It just goes to show it's never too late. That's why I don't criticize Zhuang Xu like many people here. Even though Yusen is perfect, and I'm happy that he's ending up with the FL,
I can't bring myself to hate Zhuang Xu because I know we're not all good at love, but that doesn't mean anything.
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Two years passed, and then they both found themselves single at a party. They had a long chat, and he finally confessed his feelings, even though it was late.
They got together, and now they've been married for almost eight years. It just goes to show it's never too late. That's why I don't criticize Zhuang Xu like many people here. Even though Yusen is perfect, and I'm happy that he's ending up with the FL,
I can't bring myself to hate Zhuang Xu because I know we're not all good at love, but that doesn't mean anything.