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People dont realise how abortion or being a single mother is a huge thing. She would have suffered either way. She made the right decision to reveal what he did. No one should be putting the blame on the victim.

Same but I'm heartbroken thinking that I can never rewatch it again now. I loved it so much.

They have one of the healthiest relationships I have been in asian dramas.

Honestly same at the start I loved it but now its just repetitive and feels like the story isnt progressing.

The eyeshadow, eyeliner and lipstick were so clear 😭 you could obviously tell she had feminine features

I really hope that she goes abroad instead of them just finding each other at the airport. Yicheng should learn to appreciate her.

Honestly I dont get her obsession with him. If a guy I like treated me so shitty it would take me a second to put him in his place. Just because you like a person doesnt mean they have the right to do and say whatever they want. She forgets and forgives too easily.

Oh wow Bambi Zhu is actually older than Zhao Lin. 5 yrs at that. He looks much older and more mature, I guess its because I have seen multiple of his dramas while its my first time watching one of hers. You cant feel the age gap at all in the drama. She is actually portrayed as I think 6 yrs younger than him.

THIS IS SO ME LITERALLY COUNTING THE SECONDS

This is one of those dramas I watch when I cant get through anything else. I'm only at ep 4. I watched these 4 episodes in the span of around 3 weeks. Something like this is very rare for me, not binging a show I really like. But I think the reason I'm taking my time with this show is because I want to really appreciate it. Its so well done that I dont want to binge it and miss the meaning behind it.

I think they might judging from the drama posters and the press conference 😭

I would say its a bit better as the female lead isnt 19 while the male lead was 30 something in the korean version. The fl in this version is 24 while the ml is 35 so it honestly isnt that bad. But I literally though the ml was like 26 or something but he is 35 actually so you wont feel the age gap much

The story was a big mess tbh. The screenwriter didnt know what to do with Jae Eons character. What frustrated me even more than them glorifying a toxic relationship if that the reasons behind the main leads actions were never justified or explained to us viewers. We didnt even get a back story to how Jae Eon became a fucking manipulative, butterfly obsessed jerk.

It was realistic. Irl we always tend to choose our feelings and the other person over ourselves

I'll agree with you but unfortunately the reasons behind Nabi and Jae Eon action werent justified to us as the viewers. Thats why many people are disappointed. The screen writer messed it up a bit.

Ikr so messy, was expecting for his past to be explained but no. I didnt feel a thing when Nabi and Jae Eon got together in the end but I got butterflies from those little moments between Sol and Jiwan.

I get why she is so shamed of her background. She has trauma from all the bullying and attention she got because of it. Also just her seeing ghosts and her grandma being killed infront of her because of being a shaman just adds to the trauma. But I would love to see her character grow and learn to face these people and stand for herself.

They gotta fit everything in 12 20 mins eps so they kinda rushing the romance part of the drama and will focus more on the actual ghost storyline

Yes after watching ep 9 I also realised that. At the last scene he was trying so hard to make her feel bad and give in. So happy she didnt.

I cant believe people are actually defending Jae Eon and saying he told/showed her what he wanted from the start. No. HE MANIPULATED HER. He took advantage of her being in a terrible state of mind after a toxic relationship and breakup. He made her obsessed with the 'feeling of getting butterflies' then just distanced himself once he thought it was getting too serious for him. He had her believe he had feelings at the start but then just showed his true self and 'cheated' on her. Nabi then began to distance herself. THEN THE MF BECAME A CRAZY STALKER AND BEGAN TO BEG HER FOR LOVE WHILE NOT REALLY CHANGING. He got jealous of her being with Do Hyeok while he didnt even know what he did wrong or even wanted. That scene where he tried to kiss her at Do Hyeok's house we can clearly see she is uncomfortable but she was starving for that 'feeling of butterflies in her stomach' thats why she gave up and just kissed him. Overall I think she should no way end with Jae eon. About Do Hyeok, he deserves better but honestly maybe he can help her heal. But tbh she should end single and take some time for herself to think through everything and tidy her self up.