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Fun fact: Although many BL fans treat the tops like big bad wolves, they don't actually hold them accountable when they do something immoral or borderline criminal to their lovers😂

Wow. Thanks for the recommendation. I'll go do that now. I hope I can find them.

I want to say it was as subtle as Payu was with Rain but Payu had a bit more tact and I did feel like Rain was a bit naive in the beginning. //

Yes, I agree. In their case, I think Payu was a bit softer to Rain than Sorn is to Jun cos Sorn is brutal and tactless 😂

I personally cringe when I hear my other BL friends go on and on about “their babies” that they need to protect//

Totally get what you mean. Whilst I might occasionally call my favourite "my baby", it's usually in an affectionate way that doesn't take away their individuality and autonomy regardless of the role they play in their shows but I cringe so hard when I see the creepy way most BL fans calls these passive characters "their babies" because of the way they use it and the statements that usually follows it.

For Yotha and Gun, I can't remember how exactly I felt about the situation when they fought but you're right.
It's the same memo every time.

The saviour complex for BL passive characters and the tendencies to infantilize them is absurd.

I could go and on.
I have a belleful of anger every time I talk about BL fans because of my personal dissatisfaction for majority of them and how they treat BLs, BL actors and BL characters in relation to their fetishes and obsession with Asian gay men.
They don't even care about the LGBTQIA+ community at all.

Now I feel like I need a drink too.😂
Sigh*😂

There are folks, who think that Jun is some naive, innocent young "boy" being gaslit by Sorn.//

BL fans treat every receiver character in BLs like these. They like to treat them like babies and I don't mean this in a good way.
They always act like the receivers are damsels in distress who can't think on their own and they treat the tops like big bad wolves.
This is also why a lot of them prefer the stereotypical BL dynamics of Big/masculine/muscular/bad-attitude/abusers/domineering tops and small/tiny/petite/cutrsy/feminine receivers who they can baby as much as they want. They don't treat these receiver characters like "men. "
Makes me wonder if this is how these BL fans see women too. Like some helpless/docile/weak creatures that can't think on their own.
Sadly, many of these BL fans themselves are women with internalised misogyny which they have carried over into BLs.

Hi,

If someone tells me I'm a bad kisser when I'm actually a bad kisser, does that mean they're trying to manipulate me?

Yes and No.

- No, because telling me I'm a bad kisser when I'm actually bad at it, is a matter-of-fact thingy. A bad kisser is a bad kisser until they learn better kissing techniques.

- Yes, because they could be taking advantage of the situation for their own benefit but to what end?

To get into my pant?
To make me fall for them?
Is that such a bad thing?

Do I mind? Not at all, as long as he doesn't tell anyone we've had our hands down each other's pants multiple times, then I'm okay with it.
Plus, I enjoy this because for now, he's the only one whom I'm comfortable doing this with without any reservation. I enjoy his touch and kisses.

So do I want him to stop? Heck no!
I hope he never stops trying to get handsy with me and I'll try to act like a Tsundere as long as I can.

I might not look it but I know exactly what I'm doing. I'm not stupid after all and I have my own thoughts, so please, don't try to make wrong assumptions on my behalf.

Yours sincerely,
Jun.

Accusing older gay men of grooming younger people is one of the oldest homophobic tropes out there, one that has been used again and again to deny us our rights and to justify societal violence against us//

True while they continuously ignore straight men who time and time again rape their daughters, stepdaughters and even the little children around them.
It's stereotyping, prejudice and homophobia wrapped together in one.
The idea that an older gay is immediately seen as a dangerous villain whose sole purpose of getting g closer to a younger man is to ruin him is just justification for homophobia.

Woah.
This is so creative👏👏👏👏 Absolutely brilliant! Made me cackle so much😂

I just have one question for you.
Were you smoking something questionable when you came up with this? Cos it's almost like this was exactly how they got the idea on how to write this show (no offense intended)

The only issue is the relative power imbalance at work, in which case it doesn't matter if Jun is 50 and Sorn is 21.//

You're right. I only used a bigger age gap as an example due to how ridiculous that accusation sounded.

Yeah, there is a work power imbalance but for some reason, it isn't even as bad as I expected. I don't know if it's just me but Sorn doesn't really seem to have an upper hand over Jun. It feels like he's grasping unto that as the only thing he has to guard against Jun. Not sure if I'm making any sense😂

And like you said, if no one makes a move, how will people ever get together? It's impossible. Nothing immoral or criminal is going on here.
People just like to find a problem with everything.

That's the spirit💪

😂😂😂
When I tell you Im speechless at the way people just throw words around these days, I'm not joking.
That was how I became speechless when someone accused a vampire of being a pdf simply because he's way older than his love interest in the show and he watched him grow up from a distance.
Cos no matter how we look at it, a supernatural being who's been alive for thousands of years is older than every single human on earth. So going by that logic, there shouldn't be any love stories between supernatural beings and humans 😂 But then, they ignore the fact that supernatural beings in fiction usually don't feel anything for humans at all until they get to the point where they actually fall in love...
So yeah, this is one of the many examples of how people throw words.

The most popular words they abuse these days are:
Fetish
queerbaiting
Homophobia
Pdf (pedophile)
Grooming
Porn ( which they call everything sexually intimate in BLs)

While we're playing along with the older man younger man side of this show, I'd like to remind everyone that Sorn isn't that much older than Jun.
From what I know, Sorn is at most 5years older, so if Jun is 21yrs old, Sorn is 26. They are both in their twenties.

This means 2yrs ago when they first kissed, Jun was 19 and Sorn was 24. At that time, Jun was already old enough to go to bars and clubs and pick up ladies. 2yrs later, he's certainly not a baby. So, yeah, no grooming in site.
This isn't a show about a 50years old man trying to get with a 21yr old man.

As for the person shouting grooming, pls look it up. Aside from Sorn occasionally helping Jun get some relief, I'm yet to see him actually try to teach him anything else. Last time I checked, teaching a person how to kiss doesn't even come close to what grooming is.
Who knew young men can no longer get with other young men without being accused of "grooming".

Lol. We need to be careful about how we throw words around and completely distorting their meanings.

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Right.
Oh well, it is what it is

Not the kamasutra😂
Don't mind them. They're using kissing lessons as excuse.

Exactly. You get it😂😂

Aiissshh!
They've gone to ruin the ratings.
I miss the times when we are crazy over a show rated 6.4 here on MDL😂