I think it's more of being an inconsiderate friend. If you know your friend has a crush on somebody, most friends…
Pod flirting with Dunk constantly, did he discuss it with Bumm first? Again, these three are all friends and ultimately aside from Pod feeling hurt, the other two don't need to consult him before dating. It's literally their business and they can tell him when they're ready. Just not on his birthday. That's where they messed up.
You're not missing anything. Either the subs in some language other than English tricked those commenters, or…
Thank you😂😂 Because I was literally speechless reading some of the comments... I had to rewind many times just to see if I was the problem. I feel like they're insistent on making Bumm out to be the bad guy hence the wrong interpretation 😂😂
I think it's more of being an inconsiderate friend. If you know your friend has a crush on somebody, most friends…
Pod likes Dunk and Dunk likes Bumm and Bumm likes Dunk back. I guess my question is, why is Pod's feelings more important or above the other two?😂
So, according to you, Pod knowing Dunk has feelings for Bumm is not enough for him to give up, but Bumm knowing Pod likes Dunk should be enough for her to not consider Dunk even though Dunk likes her back? Do you see the hypocrisy in that logic? In the end, y'all are demanding from Bumm what you won't demand from Pod. Very interesting! I rest my case!!!
Happens a lot. Just look at MewTul. He got hated from his previous cp fandom and now when his new bl was announced…
OMG! Yes, MewTul is a great example and it's so sad to see. I've seen similar plots in recent BLs, yet every one of them feels like a punch in the guts... Especially seeing how much Anda is hurting.... knowing there's a probability he'll commit soon😞😞
After rewatching this episode, I'm confused about something. Where exactly did Bumm say she doesn't like Dunk like that? Bcos i saw that statement in this comment section.
All she said is that "they're getting used to each other, they're more like friends than anything and that it's hard to explain"- meaning, it's weird for them bcos they've been friends for so long, so for them transitioning from friends to lovers isn't as easy as you'd expect. Not every friends can suddenly smoothly transition from friends to lovers without feeling akward.
Then she asked Pod, "when did you start liking Dunk?" - Pod responded with "Dunk has liked you (Bumm) since freshman year". He ultimately did not give Bumm a response about when he started having feelings for Dunk, even though the viewers saw it play out.
Next, she said if Pod wasn't okay with them, she'll rather break up with Dunk. She never said she doesn't like Dunk. Instead, she'll rather give up on the relationship if it means she'll lose her friends. This is a valid concern, one that many friends have when they're contemplating dating themselves or amongst themselves.
So how on earth did this become, "Bumm doesn't even like Dunk but she decided to date Pod even though Pod likes Dunk?
I think it's more of being an inconsiderate friend. If you know your friend has a crush on somebody, most friends…
Yes, i acknowledged the birthday thing in my writeup.
However, regarding not dating the person her friend likes, what do you think would have changed? Technically , Pod knows Dunk has feelings for Bumm right from freshman year, so he should have given up and moved on by now bcos that was already a sign that Dunk will never reciprocate his feelings. Doesn't that make him an inconsiderate friend too? Bcos Dunk's feelings matters as much as his.
Imagine shipping two male characters in a romance show on screen so intensely but then turning around to become so homophobic when a male actor come out. I feel so bad for Anda. It's one thing to see a portion of his fans turn against him, to see the internet drag him and then come home to face such an uncomfortable environment. Poor guy! If only his parents would hug him and tell him it's okay.... at least, he would have found acceptance and comfort with them... But alas! Wishes are not horses...
What do you mean by "their friend's crush?" They all became friends the same day and at the same time.…
Home wrecker for people who aren't dating? Who hurt you? Bcos you're projecting heavily on both me and Bumm. But don't worry. Keep ranting... i won't reply you anymore bcos I'm worried I'll be infested with stupidity. Bye!
What do you mean by "their friend's crush?" They all became friends the same day and at the same time.…
Idiot! Since you resorted to name calling, I'll stoop down to your level. I don't blame you. Afterall, you don't know the difference between a friend going behind their friend's back to go date their man, AND 3 friends in a 3-way friendship having a crush on each other leading to a love triangle. Mumu!
I was trying to like this Bumm girl but now it's not possible, what kind of friend dates their friend's crush…
What do you mean by "their friend's crush?" They all became friends the same day and at the same time. It's a 3-way friendship. Pod doesn't own Dunk, so Dunk is not off limit to Bumm. The fuck! Dunk is as much of a friend to Bumm as he is to Pod.
Reading some of these comments, all I can say is, some of you are never beating certain allegations.
Pod, Bumm and Dunk are in a 3-way friendship... Pod's feelings aren't more important than Dunk's and Bumm's, even though this is a BL and you can't call dips on a whole human, especially not in a 3-way friendship. ***That line of thought is giving loser Mochi from Unlucky Bae.**
Pod has a right to like Dunk. His feelings are his right and also his responsibility. Dunk doesn't have to reciprocate if he doesn't feel the same. The same way Pod likes Dunk is the same way Bumm and Dunk both like and choose each other. Sometimes, friends can mistake affection for one another as romantic love and they might get together and if it doesn't work out, they can separate and remain friends. It ain't nothing new. So I don't know why y'all are acting like Pod owns Dunk and Bumm shouldn't have chosen to date Dunk. Acting like Bumm is a bad friend. Nonsense!
Bumm and Dunk are great friends to Pod and I have yet to see anything they've done that's so horrible to say Pod deserves better friends. Yes, they shouldn't have chosen his birthday to announce getting together but I'd imagine that the reason they specifically chose to tell Pod on his birthday is bcos that day happens to be the day they both formally got together. I actually appreciate them not keeping it from him only for him to hear from someone else.
In the flashback, we all saw Dunk affectionately thought Bumm was cute and he verbalised this to Pod. So, Pod also knows Dunk likes Bumm and he's seen them flirting several times. This love triangle is making them walk on egg shells around each other. I'm not surprised. This happens a lot in a 3-way friendship.
Just to recap, Pod doesn't own Dunk and cannot call dips on Dunk bcos Dunk is a grown man who can decide who he wants to date of his two friends and Pod's feelings is not more important than Bumm's. Yet, I'm sure some are gonna treat the woman like the problem. As usual...nothing new.
Bumm literally bared her soul to Pod who is her "friend." She's got her own fears and insecurity too. Her fear is normal, and is often seen when friends choose to date each other bcos there's always a hidden fear that it'll ruin their friendship. Also, Bumm and Dunk are scared that Pod will be upset with them and again, it'll ruin the friendship between them all. The main character isn't the only one who deserves good friend. Their friends do too.
He even had the guts to tell him to “relax” how?! Just how’s he gonna relax when it’s his first time and…
When I heard him say that, I was like, "yeah it's easy to say. Why don't you turn around and give him your ass to fuck without any prep. Let's see how well relaxed you'll be"
So Pheem does not believe in the spiritual arts but she's there for some magic bullets? To stop a criminal who dabbles in the spiritual arts? Why would you waste your time, even move to a village to meet a spiritual master for something you don't believe in? She did not believe the girl was possessed, stated that she is convulsing but she took off her necklace, prayed on it and gave it to the girl's mom to put on her? How does this work? Why pray on a necklace to stop convulsion if you do not believe in the spiritual? How would a necklace stop a medical condition? Seems pretty inconsistent to me. She literally witness someone she shot get up and literally saw bullets rebounds of a human, yet she's insisting on not believing? Her own brother is at death's door due to that criminal. Lol. This is no longer stubbornness. It's stupidity.
Because I was literally speechless reading some of the comments... I had to rewind many times just to see if I was the problem. I feel like they're insistent on making Bumm out to be the bad guy hence the wrong interpretation 😂😂
I guess my question is, why is Pod's feelings more important or above the other two?😂
So, according to you, Pod knowing Dunk has feelings for Bumm is not enough for him to give up, but Bumm knowing Pod likes Dunk should be enough for her to not consider Dunk even though Dunk likes her back? Do you see the hypocrisy in that logic? In the end, y'all are demanding from Bumm what you won't demand from Pod. Very interesting!
I rest my case!!!
Especially seeing how much Anda is hurting.... knowing there's a probability he'll commit soon😞😞
Where exactly did Bumm say she doesn't like Dunk like that? Bcos i saw that statement in this comment section.
All she said is that "they're getting used to each other, they're more like friends than anything and that it's hard to explain"- meaning, it's weird for them bcos they've been friends for so long, so for them transitioning from friends to lovers isn't as easy as you'd expect. Not every friends can suddenly smoothly transition from friends to lovers without feeling akward.
Then she asked Pod, "when did you start liking Dunk?" - Pod responded with "Dunk has liked you (Bumm) since freshman year". He ultimately did not give Bumm a response about when he started having feelings for Dunk, even though the viewers saw it play out.
Next, she said if Pod wasn't okay with them, she'll rather break up with Dunk. She never said she doesn't like Dunk. Instead, she'll rather give up on the relationship if it means she'll lose her friends.
This is a valid concern, one that many friends have when they're contemplating dating themselves or amongst themselves.
So how on earth did this become, "Bumm doesn't even like Dunk but she decided to date Pod even though Pod likes Dunk?
Or am I missing a scene?
However, regarding not dating the person her friend likes, what do you think would have changed? Technically , Pod knows Dunk has feelings for Bumm right from freshman year, so he should have given up and moved on by now bcos that was already a sign that Dunk will never reciprocate his feelings. Doesn't that make him an inconsiderate friend too? Bcos Dunk's feelings matters as much as his.
I feel so bad for Anda. It's one thing to see a portion of his fans turn against him, to see the internet drag him and then come home to face such an uncomfortable environment.
Poor guy! If only his parents would hug him and tell him it's okay.... at least, he would have found acceptance and comfort with them...
But alas! Wishes are not horses...
Since you resorted to name calling, I'll stoop down to your level.
I don't blame you.
Afterall, you don't know the difference between a friend going behind their friend's back to go date their man, AND 3 friends in a 3-way friendship having a crush on each other leading to a love triangle.
Mumu!
Dunk is as much of a friend to Bumm as he is to Pod.
Pod, Bumm and Dunk are in a 3-way friendship... Pod's feelings aren't more important than Dunk's and Bumm's, even though this is a BL and you can't call dips on a whole human, especially not in a 3-way friendship. ***That line of thought is giving loser Mochi from Unlucky Bae.**
Pod has a right to like Dunk. His feelings are his right and also his responsibility. Dunk doesn't have to reciprocate if he doesn't feel the same.
The same way Pod likes Dunk is the same way Bumm and Dunk both like and choose each other.
Sometimes, friends can mistake affection for one another as romantic love and they might get together and if it doesn't work out, they can separate and remain friends. It ain't nothing new.
So I don't know why y'all are acting like Pod owns Dunk and Bumm shouldn't have chosen to date Dunk. Acting like Bumm is a bad friend. Nonsense!
Bumm and Dunk are great friends to Pod and I have yet to see anything they've done that's so horrible to say Pod deserves better friends.
Yes, they shouldn't have chosen his birthday to announce getting together but I'd imagine that the reason they specifically chose to tell Pod on his birthday is bcos that day happens to be the day they both formally got together.
I actually appreciate them not keeping it from him only for him to hear from someone else.
In the flashback, we all saw Dunk affectionately thought Bumm was cute and he verbalised this to Pod. So, Pod also knows Dunk likes Bumm and he's seen them flirting several times.
This love triangle is making them walk on egg shells around each other. I'm not surprised. This happens a lot in a 3-way friendship.
Just to recap, Pod doesn't own Dunk and cannot call dips on Dunk bcos Dunk is a grown man who can decide who he wants to date of his two friends and Pod's feelings is not more important than Bumm's. Yet, I'm sure some are gonna treat the woman like the problem. As usual...nothing new.
Bumm literally bared her soul to Pod who is her "friend." She's got her own fears and insecurity too. Her fear is normal, and is often seen when friends choose to date each other bcos there's always a hidden fear that it'll ruin their friendship. Also, Bumm and Dunk are scared that Pod will be upset with them and again, it'll ruin the friendship between them all. The main character isn't the only one who deserves good friend. Their friends do too.
Such natural comedians😂😂
Or you only prefer to see 100% gay men on your screen?
Why would you waste your time, even move to a village to meet a spiritual master for something you don't believe in?
She did not believe the girl was possessed, stated that she is convulsing but she took off her necklace, prayed on it and gave it to the girl's mom to put on her?
How does this work?
Why pray on a necklace to stop convulsion if you do not believe in the spiritual? How would a necklace stop a medical condition?
Seems pretty inconsistent to me.
She literally witness someone she shot get up and literally saw bullets rebounds of a human, yet she's insisting on not believing? Her own brother is at death's door due to that criminal. Lol.
This is no longer stubbornness. It's stupidity.