Not for the RayMew ship. Just happy Mew proved me right that he is a decent person. He is not 100% perfect and he's a human with feelings. He didn't betray his conscience even though he could have just said "to hell with it" and complete his revenge. I wanted chaos since last week but I like that I prefer what Mew actually did. This is the best way for someone like Ton to finally reflect on himself. Holy sh't. I have never been a Book fan but he was so hot in this episode. How come Book has chemistry with Ray, Drake and probably others? More than anything, I hope. Mew can survive this period. Lost, confuse, vulnerable with a little self loathing for not reading Top better. I hope he doesn't become a drunk too. Ray knows he's gonna be Mew's rebound and is willing. Ray is smart, he sees this as his chance to have Mew. One thing I'm sure of is, for those claiming Mew ia cruel and selfish because he decided to try with Ray do not understand just how much Mew will grab hold of any hope of love at the moment. Next ep, You're gonna see just how selfish and cruel Ray is.๐
For those claiming Ray's friends did not help enough by dragging Ray for rehab, can you see that his dad has been trying? In BL, it's lazy writing and mighty convenient to always blame the parents, but then the children do not also know their parent's struggles. Parents are human too!. It's genuinely hard to get people with alcohol and drugs problems to stop. I know because I deal with it everyday at work. You just cannot imagine how hard it is for their family members and close friends...
Nick, just won't stop to think and perhaps, love himself more. In a way, he's similar to Ray. Both are too obsessed with the object of their affection. He's too much in Love with Ton. He'll wake up one day I hope.
Ton legit killed me in this episode. I can't believe he told Mew that he "only borrowed Top"๐๐. I didn't know how much of a piece of crap someone can be until today. People like this hurt their friends, drive away all the good people in their lives, then cry to strangers in a bar that they have no friends and no one love them.
I won't say anything about Top. Honestly, i don't care for him, nor his relationship with Mew.
For some reason, the only thing that might survive to the end of this series is the friendship between Ray and Mew. Once Ray realizes that he actually does not love Mew, he'll then see that Mew is like the family he never had.
Well I guess I was wrong about Mew revenge sleeping with Ray.RayMew boyfriends era go!
Lol. I'm happy too, not for the ship though. Just happy Mew proved me right that he is a decent person. He is not 100% perfect and he's human with feelings. He didn't betray his conscience.
Iโm annoyed at Ray for hurting my baby San yet again but everyone knows of his feelings for Mew especially Mew…
Lol. I hate to break it to you but Mew was literally being honest with Ray and about how he felt back then. Mew is in a very vulnerable place right now where he feels lost and confuse. He's bound to grasp hold of a lifeline. Of course, I'm not in support of both of them being together to be honest. I'm more worried about Mew becoming an alcoholic too, due to Ray's influence. You can tell that Mew genuinely does not have any malicious intent for Ray. Ray being obsessed with Mew is just like him being addicted to alcohol and also Sand when necessary. Mew is the regular medication. Sand is PRN.๐
Plus, I think this ark is necessary for Ray to get over Mew. He's been to obsessed for so long. He needs to try before he realizes that it's not love he has for Mew.
To be Honest, I love Perth as an actor, but I'm just not feeling this series. Can't place a finger on why. The first 2 episodes were fire and then......that's the end!!!
I honestly wished they had given them an "adult script "
For me I was suspicious from the beginning because we were shown how each in his friend group had a certain fault..…
Ok. Let me make you understand by stating another scenerio. If when Mew met Ray, Ray already had feelings for him, even way before they became friends, and Mew knew that Ray likes him but chose to be his friend instead, then staying away from Ray or ending the friendship with Ray will be valid.
But here, they were already friends before Ray caught feelings due to Mew's care for him. Mew established boundaries. It's on Ray to manage his feelings. If Mew decides to cast him aside, Ray would probably have ended his life by now. Mew established boundaries and Ray said he understands and they probably agree to remain friends. As time goes by, Mew would have thought Ray has moved on. You should rewatch the scene where Ray kissed Mew without his consent and listen to Mew's response.
For me I was suspicious from the beginning because we were shown how each in his friend group had a certain fault..…
Mew drew boundaries two years ago after kissing Ray and finding out he doesn't feel the same way. He literally reminded Ray when Ray kissed him without his consent again. Why will he stop being close to Ray when Ray is suicidal? He's the only one who cared and was close to Ray. Do you think he will discard his friend just cos his friend has feelings for him? I'm very sure most people have experienced this in real life and never discarded their friends except the said friend becomes toxic or does something harmful to them. Mew accepted Ray's kiss 2yrs ago because he thought there could be something there but there wasn't. If we are being truthful, I'm pretty sure a lot of adults have experienced this. If he didn't try, he would have never known and would have often wonder "what if"....
As for Mew confronting Top immediately, I have already stated my opinion with several comments. Not everyone is wired that way. I can never do that. Even if i catch a lover cheating, at most, I'll stare at you until u see that i saw you, then I'll leave. Public confrontation, heck No. I hate attention being drawn to me the most because I'm an introvert.
At this point, I have rewatched all episodes and have read most of the comments on here. I would really like to…
I feel like people need to read up the meaning of manipulation more. Nowadays, people misuse Manipulation and Toxicity. NB: No shade intended please. I'll put one here.
What Is Manipulation? Manipulation is the exercise of harmful influence over others. People who manipulate others attack their mental and emotional sides to get what they want. The person doing the manipulating, called the manipulator, seeks to create an imbalance of power. They take advantage of you to get power, control, benefits, and/or privileges. Manipulation can happen in close or casual relationships, but they are more common in closely formed relationships. It includes any attempt to sway someoneโs emotions to get them to act or feel a certain way.
Manipulators have common tricks theyโll use to make you feel irrational and more likely to give in to their requests. A few common examples include:
Holy sh't. I have never been a Book fan but he was so hot in this episode. How come Book has chemistry with Ray, Drake and probably others?
More than anything, I hope. Mew can survive this period. Lost, confuse, vulnerable with a little self loathing for not reading Top better. I hope he doesn't become a drunk too.
Ray knows he's gonna be Mew's rebound and is willing. Ray is smart, he sees this as his chance to have Mew.
One thing I'm sure of is, for those claiming Mew ia cruel and selfish because he decided to try with Ray do not understand just how much Mew will grab hold of any hope of love at the moment. Next ep, You're gonna see just how selfish and cruel Ray is.๐
For those claiming Ray's friends did not help enough by dragging Ray for rehab, can you see that his dad has been trying? In BL, it's lazy writing and mighty convenient to always blame the parents, but then the children do not also know their parent's struggles. Parents are human too!. It's genuinely hard to get people with alcohol and drugs problems to stop. I know because I deal with it everyday at work. You just cannot imagine how hard it is for their family members and close friends...
Nick, just won't stop to think and perhaps, love himself more. In a way, he's similar to Ray. Both are too obsessed with the object of their affection. He's too much in Love with Ton. He'll wake up one day I hope.
Ton legit killed me in this episode. I can't believe he told Mew that he "only borrowed Top"๐๐. I didn't know how much of a piece of crap someone can be until today. People like this hurt their friends, drive away all the good people in their lives, then cry to strangers in a bar that they have no friends and no one love them.
I won't say anything about Top. Honestly, i don't care for him, nor his relationship with Mew.
For some reason, the only thing that might survive to the end of this series is the friendship between Ray and Mew. Once Ray realizes that he actually does not love Mew, he'll then see that Mew is like the family he never had.
Mew is in a very vulnerable place right now where he feels lost and confuse. He's bound to grasp hold of a lifeline. Of course, I'm not in support of both of them being together to be honest. I'm more worried about Mew becoming an alcoholic too, due to Ray's influence. You can tell that Mew genuinely does not have any malicious intent for Ray.
Ray being obsessed with Mew is just like him being addicted to alcohol and also Sand when necessary. Mew is the regular medication. Sand is PRN.๐
Plus, I think this ark is necessary for Ray to get over Mew. He's been to obsessed for so long. He needs to try before he realizes that it's not love he has for Mew.
I honestly wished they had given them an "adult script "
Not just Thai though. Kdrama and Thai have got the same script for the rain trope.
If when Mew met Ray, Ray already had feelings for him, even way before they became friends, and Mew knew that Ray likes him but chose to be his friend instead, then staying away from Ray or ending the friendship with Ray will be valid.
But here, they were already friends before Ray caught feelings due to Mew's care for him. Mew established boundaries. It's on Ray to manage his feelings. If Mew decides to cast him aside, Ray would probably have ended his life by now. Mew established boundaries and Ray said he understands and they probably agree to remain friends. As time goes by, Mew would have thought Ray has moved on.
You should rewatch the scene where Ray kissed Mew without his consent and listen to Mew's response.
Mew accepted Ray's kiss 2yrs ago because he thought there could be something there but there wasn't. If we are being truthful, I'm pretty sure a lot of adults have experienced this. If he didn't try, he would have never known and would have often wonder "what if"....
As for Mew confronting Top immediately, I have already stated my opinion with several comments. Not everyone is wired that way. I can never do that. Even if i catch a lover cheating, at most, I'll stare at you until u see that i saw you, then I'll leave. Public confrontation, heck No. I hate attention being drawn to me the most because I'm an introvert.
NB: No shade intended please.
I'll put one here.
What Is Manipulation?
Manipulation is the exercise of harmful influence over others. People who manipulate others attack their mental and emotional sides to get what they want. The person doing the manipulating, called the manipulator, seeks to create an imbalance of power. They take advantage of you to get power, control, benefits, and/or privileges.
Manipulation can happen in close or casual relationships, but they are more common in closely formed relationships. It includes any attempt to sway someoneโs emotions to get them to act or feel a certain way.
Manipulators have common tricks theyโll use to make you feel irrational and more likely to give in to their requests. A few common examples include:
Guilt
Complaining
Comparing
Lying
Denying