Ah! Cher-aim realises her dad actually really likes that person and she has accepted him already even though she thinks her dad's lover is Mo.
Totally love Cher-aim's reaction when found out the man her dad loves is Hengπππ Like, duh.... Heng totally led her on a wild goose chaseππ
Boss is more delulu than BL fans. I feel like he lives in his own lalalala land. The fact that he thinks he's in a relationship with Heng even though he's notππ
Lol. Cher-aim is as cray cray as everyone else in this show.π I first thought she was smart but then she started linking nearly every name in the office to honey. The fact that she knows Heng's name but failed to link it with Honey. She didn't even consider the possibility or even try to connect his name to honey since she did it with most people in the office. Too many coincidences that she ignoredππ I understand her, though. Her concerns about being kicked out of the home if her dad gets a new wife is valid. I think all she need is reassurances from her dad and a little time to come to terms with the fact that her dad might eventually get a new partner. At least, she ain't homophobic.
The things we do for friends or our crush. The fact that Mo showed up to receive the birthday cake meant for Hengππ.
No man is worth your tears.//Lol.A daily mantra. Feels like you read my mind. I laugh coz it feels like these…
Like I said below, they're young and will figure it out with time. That will be their valuable life experiences and hopefully grow mentally. They can also chose to remain broken people.
Ladies and gentlemen. No man is worth your tears. Its very sad to me that people are excusing yotha's behaviour…
No man is worth your tears.// Lol. A daily mantra. Feels like you read my mind. I laugh coz it feels like these shows keep conditioning people to make excuses for awful characters (men). Not that I'm not guilty of it too. If it's not based on trauma, it's some tragic backstory to make us pity them. While these are fictions and we can enjoy them, my advise to anyone is always, "know what you can tolerate and accept from life. Don't put up with things that'll break your soul and your spirit thereby reducing you to a shadow of yourself". If there's anything I've learnt from my past relationships, it's that there are things I absolutely cannot tolerate and would never accept for myself". Those are my standards of how I want to be treated and I won't accept anything less. That's the mentality I want many people to have. Let hurt and broken people work on themselves, heal and mend, instead of going on a toxic circle to hurt others and the circle goes on and on. Zero accountability and responsibility.
I'm not sure how I feel about the family drama in this. I keep stopping myself from telling Cir's mom to shove it up her a**. Cos tell me why she's trying hard to restrict an adult. It's not his fault that she separated from her husband and he's definitely not a replacement for her ex-husband. What can she do to him anyway? Cancel his cards if he defiles her? Lol. He's an adult now and after graduation, he should be ready to fend for himself. Sometimes, I feel like shows do forget that times are changing and that certain things becomes harder and harder as time changes.
Arm definitely has a drinking problem, he's been getting drunk for like 10 episodes in a row now
Or maybe he has poor alcohol tolerance and thus gets drunk easily. Notice how he only drinks with Arc around? Cos he trusts Arc to keep him safe and of course, is extra clingy to Arc when drunk.
I can understand Yotha's need to figure out his feelings. It's important in the long run. He's asked Gun to wait for him and Gun agreed even with the possibility that he'll end up being hurt. Since he asked Gun to wait, I'd expect him to treat Gun decently, cos to me, that's like the bare minimum. What I find hard to accept is how he's actively hurting Gun in the process of figuring out his feelings. How can you be all in Gun's mouth and business every chance you get, but the next day, you give him the cold shoulder? How can you cuddle and hug him to sleep every night and then claim you don't believe in love, proceeding to treat him so coldly? Gun is naive/innocent and bubbly. Poor guy isn't ready for the world of hurt that's coming for him. It's a lot for him to handle. I felt like throwing my hands at Yotha this episode, even though I understand him. The beauty of being 18 years old is that one still have all the time in the world to hurt, be hurt, to mend, heal and try again. He's gonna learn the hard way that love is beautiful, yet can be deadly, toxic and destructive.
Wa and Klao are stuck in a toxic loop of constant jealousy, possessiveness and reassurances. I won't continue dating someone that insecure to the extent he's that jealous and possessive, who always goes caveman on me all the time. But then again, I would not date a man who still has his ex in his life unless I have no idea about it. If I find out, I'll chose to leave the relationship if him and his ex are very very close, and if I choose to remain in that relationship, I need to learn to trust him. Without trust, a relationship is pointless. Wa has explained his situation to Klao and Klao choose to remain in that relationship. Wa has told him that he choose Klao over all others. He's constantly tried to reassure him that he loves him. Wa was the one who broke up with Yotha because his heart isnt in the relationship and that his feelings for Yotha are brotherly affection. Unpopular opinion- I respect Wa for this. I'll rather a lover breaks come clean, be honest with me and break up with me if his heart is not in the relationship than have him continue dating me despite knowing this, then he'll go and fall for someone else thereby cheating on me which makes it 10X worse.
We can see that Yotha is very important to Wa, and Wa is equally important to Yotha that despite the fact that they broke up and don't have feelings for each other anymore, Yotha still considers Wa as someone who made him safe. Wa must have created a secure and safe space for Yotha when they were together. Somewhat like a sibling bond. Thus, I understand why Wa is always ready to offer a shoulder to Yotha whenever Yotha is down. Personally, I don't remain friends with my ex, but it doesn't mean I can't understand others who do. We are all different. For some people, their ex became their family in a pure platonic way.
To end the long story, they both need to sit down and talk about their relationship, their boundaries and what they want from it.
In reality, Thai fans are more respectful than Koreans and don't tend to chase their faves outside of their events.…
That's what I'm saying. Thai actors and Idols are very much like regular people in Thailand. They actually tend to get harassed by interfans when they travel outside Thailand for fanmeets.
A company full of celebrities would know how to portray them in a show. Even Thai actors and Idols do go shopping…
He's already recorded all the members. If there's anything outstanding, It'll be impossible to record because MARS isn't ending anytime soon. Just because he was asked to record MARS' ending when he was hired doesn't mean that would be his only job responsibilities, otherwise, doesn't that mean he'll be layed off the moment MARS successfully disbanded?
Totally love Cher-aim's reaction when found out the man her dad loves is Hengπππ
Like, duh....
Heng totally led her on a wild goose chaseππ
I first thought she was smart but then she started linking nearly every name in the office to honey.
The fact that she knows Heng's name but failed to link it with Honey. She didn't even consider the possibility or even try to connect his name to honey since she did it with most people in the office. Too many coincidences that she ignoredππ
I understand her, though. Her concerns about being kicked out of the home if her dad gets a new wife is valid. I think all she need is reassurances from her dad and a little time to come to terms with the fact that her dad might eventually get a new partner. At least, she ain't homophobic.
The things we do for friends or our crush. The fact that Mo showed up to receive the birthday cake meant for Hengππ.
i wanna smack Yotha's face right now//
I wanna smack him tooππ
Well, they're young. They'll figure it out.
Lol.
A daily mantra. Feels like you read my mind.
I laugh coz it feels like these shows keep conditioning people to make excuses for awful characters (men).
Not that I'm not guilty of it too.
If it's not based on trauma, it's some tragic backstory to make us pity them.
While these are fictions and we can enjoy them, my advise to anyone is always, "know what you can tolerate and accept from life. Don't put up with things that'll break your soul and your spirit thereby reducing you to a shadow of yourself".
If there's anything I've learnt from my past relationships, it's that there are things I absolutely cannot tolerate and would never accept for myself". Those are my standards of how I want to be treated and I won't accept anything less.
That's the mentality I want many people to have.
Let hurt and broken people work on themselves, heal and mend, instead of going on a toxic circle to hurt others and the circle goes on and on. Zero accountability and responsibility.
I keep stopping myself from telling Cir's mom to shove it up her a**.
Cos tell me why she's trying hard to restrict an adult. It's not his fault that she separated from her husband and he's definitely not a replacement for her ex-husband.
What can she do to him anyway? Cancel his cards if he defiles her? Lol. He's an adult now and after graduation, he should be ready to fend for himself.
Sometimes, I feel like shows do forget that times are changing and that certain things becomes harder and harder as time changes.
He's asked Gun to wait for him and Gun agreed even with the possibility that he'll end up being hurt.
Since he asked Gun to wait, I'd expect him to treat Gun decently, cos to me, that's like the bare minimum.
What I find hard to accept is how he's actively hurting Gun in the process of figuring out his feelings.
How can you be all in Gun's mouth and business every chance you get, but the next day, you give him the cold shoulder?
How can you cuddle and hug him to sleep every night and then claim you don't believe in love, proceeding to treat him so coldly?
Gun is naive/innocent and bubbly. Poor guy isn't ready for the world of hurt that's coming for him. It's a lot for him to handle.
I felt like throwing my hands at Yotha this episode, even though I understand him.
The beauty of being 18 years old is that one still have all the time in the world to hurt, be hurt, to mend, heal and try again.
He's gonna learn the hard way that love is beautiful, yet can be deadly, toxic and destructive.
I won't continue dating someone that insecure to the extent he's that jealous and possessive, who always goes caveman on me all the time.
But then again, I would not date a man who still has his ex in his life unless I have no idea about it. If I find out, I'll chose to leave the relationship if him and his ex are very very close, and if I choose to remain in that relationship, I need to learn to trust him.
Without trust, a relationship is pointless.
Wa has explained his situation to Klao and Klao choose to remain in that relationship. Wa has told him that he choose Klao over all others. He's constantly tried to reassure him that he loves him.
Wa was the one who broke up with Yotha because his heart isnt in the relationship and that his feelings for Yotha are brotherly affection.
Unpopular opinion- I respect Wa for this. I'll rather a lover breaks come clean, be honest with me and break up with me if his heart is not in the relationship than have him continue dating me despite knowing this, then he'll go and fall for someone else thereby cheating on me which makes it 10X worse.
We can see that Yotha is very important to Wa, and Wa is equally important to Yotha that despite the fact that they broke up and don't have feelings for each other anymore, Yotha still considers Wa as someone who made him safe. Wa must have created a secure and safe space for Yotha when they were together. Somewhat like a sibling bond.
Thus, I understand why Wa is always ready to offer a shoulder to Yotha whenever Yotha is down.
Personally, I don't remain friends with my ex, but it doesn't mean I can't understand others who do. We are all different. For some people, their ex became their family in a pure platonic way.
To end the long story, they both need to sit down and talk about their relationship, their boundaries and what they want from it.
https://x.com/ChenRcj/status/1883116760288923873?s=19
You can thank me laterπ