Stella Ogochukwu

Whatever, you know we can't all be raised in same way right? to each according to his, so pls free me ok? cheers

What you said makes so much sense, am new to this, so I didn't catch up on time, tnk you🙏🥰

If you don't scold him, he might be raped by multiple people next time, you gotta keep preaching Be careful and drink responsibly to your friends, even victims, but still empathize with them aii? cheers

Bcos I scolded them??? No problem, many a times they come back after sulking knowing there are not much people out there who'll tell what they truly think.
I too appreciate such friends, they say what they know I wouldn't like to hear, but it's just what they think. cheers

Am sorry, I didn't finish a paragraph of your write up, empathize only, and let me empathize and scold, to each according to his you know...
You all pretending to be saints, too good, too loving, too understanding of people's trouble, spare me pls, am not asking anyone to scold, why are you all not shameful coming at me when I choose to scold???
Buzz off my thread , and go continue drinking your brains out!🙄😂 cheers

Am sorry, í just read only the first paragraph, it's great you're an adult, but can you be matured enough to understand that people love differently??? All I said and keep saying is that while I empathize with a child like Akin, am still gonna point out that he could have been more careful, you all keep insisting am blaming him even thou he's a victim, why do we all need to keep belabouring this issue???

That someone is a victim, will the warning "Drink responsibly" stop???
Why are you asking me to stop saying he should have been more careful??? Are you encouraging him to do exact same thing he did just to show it wasn't his fault???

You all still at age to think as kids, so it's ok, when you're at that age, you'll know...
There's something called tough love, that's what I got, but I truly don't regret it, I tell my loved ones how it is, I don't sugar-coat it!
They can take it or leave it, we all got choices at the end of the day. Cheers

So in Akin being a victim, there shouldn't be any criticisms or scolding to a victim, that's the point you're making, ok great.
pls allow me mine, with this scenario in this series, I will still empathize and scold him, even if "Akin" is a loved one, I will still put in I told you so somewhere in between the empathy, so either sue me or free me with my old aunty reasoning! cheers!

The misunderstanding part is that you think I approve of the SH, you think that I don't know it's a crime and punishable, you think I don't know that most of these rapists are mentally ill, I know all that, but what you all don't get is that you're going too far ahead of the series...
You can't tell me after seeing what happened to Akin, you wouldn't Try to avoid such scenario happening to you???
You want an award for being a victim right?
I repeat, I empathize with him, but you can't make me believe he wasn't careless, am not saying people should deserve to be raped when they're careless, am saying people should still Try to avoid being careless, Akin was, it's bad enough he's been in this ship before, to be in it again...

If one keep taking light of things, an experience would make sit up, Akin won't take drinking as a fun thing after this, would you? That's the Trying part I kept saying, that's the Trying part you're pretending not to notice about Akin, you keep generalizing SH, try and stick to the series, you won't go wrong, cheers!

I might not have to say anything as such a child already saying it to himself 😥 but wouldn't still stop me from creating awareness to others so that they won't fall victim, they can control themselves more than they can control another, so many sickos out there, how many they wanna control??? cheers

Oh Lord, you all bent on misunderstanding me right?😂
Bcos I've watched enough Chinese shorts, I've seen even family members can spike drinks, so I still warn my family to watch out when they're out with friends...
There's no perfection in watching out for loopholes, so all am saying is still TRYING to watch out! phew😓
In this series, I didn't see enough trying with Akin, as something like this has happened before, you can't deny he was a tad careless even as you empathize with him...

There's no award in being a victim, and some people out there are mentally ill, let's just Try to be in control of our environment is all.

You mean after seeing something like this, you won't teach your kids and love ones to be careful bcos they'll be afraid???
Oh well, people do learn differently...
Just permit me to empathize and still point out wrong moves, this is exactly what I'd say to my loved ones, you don't have to agree, cheers.

Am cool with my words, Let's keep Trying to be safe, so we're not sorry, that's what I'll tell my kids too, I'll empathize with them, I'll still point out how some moves were the wrong ones... Cheers!

Nobody anticipates any kind of assault, but you can't say most people don't know that heavy drinking is very dangerous right?
Following just this series, this exact same thing happened to Akin before, luckily he was with someone like Jin, after that, was he supposed to drink much again???
My original write up is just for us all to TRY in being safe, shit might still go down, but we keep Trying in being safe is the operative word, cheers!

An unpleasant experience induces caution

Better be safe than be sorry

Once bitten, twice shy

These are words we've been hearing, always, and they're really summary of my original comment, nobody deserves to experience anything bad, that doesn't mean we shouldn't encourage each other to try to avoid bad occurrences triggers!
So quit twisting my words.

I know we all want to be blaming Johnny, but we still need to put an effort in trying to protect ourselves from being taken advantage of like Akin was, dude drinks a lot for whatever reason, and he should always have someone with him to take care of him, someone he trusts, let's not forget this already happened with Jin, Rape is a crime, true, but while they're being punished, the victim will be traumatized for long or life!

pls let's try to be as careful and safe as possible to minimize SH, rather than being sorry at the end! Cheers!

tnk you for this, but I prefer the drama for this scene, I think it's more realistic the way Jin reacted given what Johnny said on the phone, the many calls he made that drained the battery, and the hickey on his lovers neck, with no reasonable explanation for all these, it was too much. he needed to be mad first, then cool off later bcos he actually do love Akin...😊

Somehow am still thinking and hoping nothing happened, that that crazy just set up the room to make it look like they actually made out...😥

Yes he is, he can act too, his expression from when he was with that older lady director, to his conversation with Akin at the changing room, and the way he was looking at drunk Akin scolding and mocking him, probably thinking, how to bring this Akin guy down a notch 😭
He's a good actor, but very bad character 😥

I enjoyed reading this, I really cannot wait to watch it! I don't care for all the sanctimonious cronies crying "cheating" I'd like to know about their perfect lives and perfect decisions🙄😅
It's the most imperfect people that are the most judgemental of other's lives and decisions! Kids too who are comfortable and had never made a major decision for themselves 😂😂
Anyway, tnks for this, am enjoying this one a lot!💞