at the end they didnt explained the kid well enough , he never called her mom , they have zero bonding and zero efforts , the evil mothers evil deeds are forgiven because her memory is sinking , friend lifetime betrayal is also forgiven like wtf .. fl didnt took stand for herself even in single point nor ml , and evil mother doesnt deserve that much happiness at the end .. personally if it wouldve been i would never let my son grow up in that enviornment
That’s such a surface-level take. She’s not forcing him to get back together or begging for attention.. she’s…
Yeah but that’s the thing, if “leaving it in the past” was working for him, he wouldn’t be acting weird every time she’s around. He says he’s done but his behavior screams otherwise. She’s not trying to “loophole” anything, she’s literally trying to have a two-minute conversation after being ignored for days. That’s not manipulation, that’s desperation for basic decency.
And comparing it to WJ and JY doesn’t even make sense. WJ is pushing when she’s made her boundaries clear. MK just wants to clear the air after eight years. You can’t compare a long-term relationship with a few-month or a year connection. If he’s really over it, he can open his mouth, say what he needs to, and end it properly instead of running away like a coward.
That’s such a surface-level take. She’s not forcing him to get back together or begging for attention.. she’s…
Exactly. If she really doesn’t mean anything to him, then having one normal conversation shouldn’t be that hard, right? But nah... he goes around saying in interviews, “She’s moving on, so I’m not making any move ,” and then does the complete opposite in the house. It’s all talk, no consistency. He assumes everything and thought she is having time of her life when we and other ppl in the show can see she is having the hard time but not only her ex cant able to see or care
She’s his ex.. of course there are unresolved feelings, that’s literally the whole point of the show. She has every right to talk and express herself, but he’s the one shutting her out while acting chill and living his best life. It’s not about her not moving on, it’s about him avoiding basic communication while pretending he’s being respectful.
If he was truly over it, he could’ve handled things maturely... had one calm conversation, cleared the air, and moved on. But instead, he keeps dodging her and then plays victim. It’s honestly funny how people call her emotional when he’s the one creating the mess by refusing to face anything.
for me we go to transit love because there are unresolved feelings or lingering feelings resentment left and to get a closure with ex and have a transit love or get back together... So if he doesn’t want to see his ex or have a single conversation, maybe he should’ve gone to Singles Inferno or Heart Signal, not Transit Love.
That’s such a surface-level take. She’s not forcing him to get back together or begging for attention.. she’s…
See, but that’s exactly the problem... people are so quick to label her as “controlling” or “whiny” without actually looking at why she’s reacting that way. She’s not trying to control him; she’s trying to communicate after being constantly avoided. When someone keeps shutting you down, your tone naturally turns defensive or frustrated. That’s not control.... that’s emotional exhaustion. and he is plane rudeaf with her too like bffr
" Am I supposed to care about you?" Yoo Sik has been avoiding her because he doesn't want to talk, how…
That’s such a surface-level take. She’s not forcing him to get back together or begging for attention.. she’s asking for basic respect and closure. Imagine being with someone for eight years, and the moment you try to talk, they avoid you like you don’t even exist. Yoo Sik isn’t being “calm,” he’s being emotionally avoidant. There’s a big difference.
She’s irritated because he’s completely indifferent... not because she “wants” something from him, but because he refuses to even acknowledge her presence. That’s not easy to deal with, especially when you’re stuck in the same house, surrounded by memories, and everyone else gets to at least talk things out.
And no, her lack of sleep and emotional struggle aren’t “her fault.” That’s what emotional suppression and avoidance do... she’s trying to process something deeply painful while being shut down at every turn. You can’t blame her for being human.
She’s going on dates because thats wht they supposed to do and she’s trying to move on, but you can tell her heart’s still heavy.. that doesn’t make her annoying, it makes her real. She’s not perfect, but she’s trying to communicate, while he’s hiding behind silence and pretending that’s maturity.
You’re supporting a guy who says one thing in interviews and does another in reality, who can’t even have a basic, decent conversation with his ex, and treats her like an eyesore after eight years together. If that’s your idea of maturity, fine... but let’s be real, he’s no saint.
I honestly thought MK was very valid for wanting to talk. Adjusting for her has been very hard, she even speaks…
MK is so valid for wanting to talk. People forget that communication isn’t about clinging to the past; it’s about finding closure. She’s been trying for days to express herself, and it’s clear how hard it’s been for her to adjust. You can literally feel her exhaustion... she’s so bottled up that she even talks about it in her sleep. That’s not drama, that’s emotional exhaustion.
She feels alienated in that house. Everyone else at least had the chance to clear things up with their ex, but she’s been completely shut out. All she wants is a simple conversation, just to release what’s been weighing on her for so long. People act like she’s being dramatic, but in reality, she’s just trying to process years of love, pain, and confusion in an environment where the person she once trusted won’t even look her in the eye.
And Yoo Jung’s point from Season 3 hits perfectly... Yoo Sik uses MK’s actions as an excuse to justify his coldness. He’s like, “Oh, she’s moving on, she’s going on dates, so I’ll just leave her alone.” But that’s not maturity... that’s avoidance. He’s making himself look noble when in reality, he’s just avoiding accountability and basic communication. anyway she deserves someone better
I don’t think so. I think she’s more frustrated, and she still has lingering feelings for him. Imagine...…
Now this is pure projection. Firstly, he clearly doesn’t respect her — he doesn’t even care enough to have one proper conversation with her. It’s not about things “going well for him and not for her,” because honestly, things are going fine for her too. It’s about her lingering emotions — walking into that house and seeing someone she thought she’d completely moved on from, only to realize she still has resentment and unresolved feelings. That’s not easy to deal with, especially when the other person acts cold and distant.
She’s not mad that he’s doing well; she’s struggling with how indifferent he’s become. Imagine being with someone for almost eight years, and now he acts like you’re invisible. She can’t just “switch off” those emotions. She’s trying to process everything, but he’s not giving her any space or comfort to do so. Instead, he avoids her, shuts her down, and plays the victim in front of others.
Everyone else in the house has managed to talk things out with their exes.. except her. Despite sharing such a long relationship, he can’t even treat her with basic respect. He says one thing in interviews, pretending to be composed and kind, but his actions inside the house tell a completely different story. That’s manipulative.
People keep labeling her frustration as “anger,” but that’s such a shallow take. She’s not angry.. she’s helpless. She’s trying to cope with a situation where the person who once knew her best now treats her like she’s a problem. If anything, he’s the toxic one.. rude, dismissive, and emotionally unavailable.. while she’s just being honest about what she feels, even if it doesn’t come out perfectly.
Exactly, she doesn’t even get the chance to talk because he doesn’t let her, simple as that. Every time she tries to approach him, he shuts her down or walks away. How is she supposed to have a calm conversation when the other person keeps creating distance? It’s not that she isn’t trying .. it’s that he’s not allowing any space for communication.
People keep saying she goes straight to anger, but they ignore why. When you’re constantly met with coldness and avoidance, frustration is the only emotion left. She’s not angry for no reason.. she’s reacting to being dismissed again and again. You can literally see her trying to hold back, but he gives her nothing to work with.. no response, no acknowledgment, no effort.
She’s stuck in a loop of wanting closure or resolving her feelings but hitting a wall every time she reaches out. So yeah, she doesn’t talk because he doesn’t let her, and at that point, who wouldn’t get frustrated?
I don’t think so. I think she’s more frustrated, and she still has lingering feelings for him. Imagine...…
he didn’t even give her a chance first. Every time she tried to talk, he avoided her, shutting her down before she could even say a word. When she approached him, he put on that cold, unreadable face... and honestly, if it were me, I’d never want to see his face again after that.
She’s not “whining”... she’s struggling to express herself. She’s emotional because she’s not getting the comfort or space she needs to open up. When someone you loved for years suddenly feels like a stranger, it’s hard to act composed. She’s trying to talk, trying to bridge that gap, but how can you express yourself when the other person’s walls are so high?
Her emotions come out as frustration and whining because she’s emotionally blocked... she doesn’t feel safe enough to be vulnerable. She’s not dramatic, she’s just hurt. She wants to be understood, not dismissed. He’s the one acting indifferent, and that makes her pain look one-sided, even though she’s the only one brave enough to show it.
I’ve not even finished ep 9 yet but wtf. Minkyung “needing” to talk to her ex was so silly??? I get she’s…
I don’t think so. I think she’s more frustrated, and she still has lingering feelings for him. Imagine... your ex, the person you dated for almost eight years, doesn’t even care about you or have one decent conversation with you. That kind of indifference hurts more than anything. All her emotions are a mix of frustration, regret, hate, and leftover feelings she’s trying so hard to suppress but can’t.
I think she’s being honest with her emotions and showing them, while it’s YS who isn’t showing anything, who says one thing in interviews but does another. She’s not pretending to be okay or emotionless for the sake of image; she’s being real. as for me.. She still feels hurt because, deep down, she once believed their bond was special. When someone you shared years with acts like you’re just another person, it breaks something inside you.
And comparing it to WJ and JY doesn’t even make sense. WJ is pushing when she’s made her boundaries clear. MK just wants to clear the air after eight years. You can’t compare a long-term relationship with a few-month or a year connection. If he’s really over it, he can open his mouth, say what he needs to, and end it properly instead of running away like a coward.
She’s his ex.. of course there are unresolved feelings, that’s literally the whole point of the show. She has every right to talk and express herself, but he’s the one shutting her out while acting chill and living his best life. It’s not about her not moving on, it’s about him avoiding basic communication while pretending he’s being respectful.
If he was truly over it, he could’ve handled things maturely... had one calm conversation, cleared the air, and moved on. But instead, he keeps dodging her and then plays victim. It’s honestly funny how people call her emotional when he’s the one creating the mess by refusing to face anything.
for me we go to transit love because there are unresolved feelings or lingering feelings resentment left and to get a closure with ex and have a transit love or get back together... So if he doesn’t want to see his ex or have a single conversation, maybe he should’ve gone to Singles Inferno or Heart Signal, not Transit Love.
She’s irritated because he’s completely indifferent... not because she “wants” something from him, but because he refuses to even acknowledge her presence. That’s not easy to deal with, especially when you’re stuck in the same house, surrounded by memories, and everyone else gets to at least talk things out.
And no, her lack of sleep and emotional struggle aren’t “her fault.” That’s what emotional suppression and avoidance do... she’s trying to process something deeply painful while being shut down at every turn. You can’t blame her for being human.
She’s going on dates because thats wht they supposed to do and she’s trying to move on, but you can tell her heart’s still heavy.. that doesn’t make her annoying, it makes her real. She’s not perfect, but she’s trying to communicate, while he’s hiding behind silence and pretending that’s maturity.
You’re supporting a guy who says one thing in interviews and does another in reality, who can’t even have a basic, decent conversation with his ex, and treats her like an eyesore after eight years together. If that’s your idea of maturity, fine... but let’s be real, he’s no saint.
She feels alienated in that house. Everyone else at least had the chance to clear things up with their ex, but she’s been completely shut out. All she wants is a simple conversation, just to release what’s been weighing on her for so long. People act like she’s being dramatic, but in reality, she’s just trying to process years of love, pain, and confusion in an environment where the person she once trusted won’t even look her in the eye.
And Yoo Jung’s point from Season 3 hits perfectly... Yoo Sik uses MK’s actions as an excuse to justify his coldness. He’s like, “Oh, she’s moving on, she’s going on dates, so I’ll just leave her alone.” But that’s not maturity... that’s avoidance. He’s making himself look noble when in reality, he’s just avoiding accountability and basic communication. anyway she deserves someone better
She’s not mad that he’s doing well; she’s struggling with how indifferent he’s become. Imagine being with someone for almost eight years, and now he acts like you’re invisible. She can’t just “switch off” those emotions. She’s trying to process everything, but he’s not giving her any space or comfort to do so. Instead, he avoids her, shuts her down, and plays the victim in front of others.
Everyone else in the house has managed to talk things out with their exes.. except her. Despite sharing such a long relationship, he can’t even treat her with basic respect. He says one thing in interviews, pretending to be composed and kind, but his actions inside the house tell a completely different story. That’s manipulative.
People keep labeling her frustration as “anger,” but that’s such a shallow take. She’s not angry.. she’s helpless. She’s trying to cope with a situation where the person who once knew her best now treats her like she’s a problem. If anything, he’s the toxic one.. rude, dismissive, and emotionally unavailable.. while she’s just being honest about what she feels, even if it doesn’t come out perfectly.
Exactly, she doesn’t even get the chance to talk because he doesn’t let her, simple as that. Every time she tries to approach him, he shuts her down or walks away. How is she supposed to have a calm conversation when the other person keeps creating distance? It’s not that she isn’t trying .. it’s that he’s not allowing any space for communication.
People keep saying she goes straight to anger, but they ignore why. When you’re constantly met with coldness and avoidance, frustration is the only emotion left. She’s not angry for no reason.. she’s reacting to being dismissed again and again. You can literally see her trying to hold back, but he gives her nothing to work with.. no response, no acknowledgment, no effort.
She’s stuck in a loop of wanting closure or resolving her feelings but hitting a wall every time she reaches out. So yeah, she doesn’t talk because he doesn’t let her, and at that point, who wouldn’t get frustrated?
She’s not “whining”... she’s struggling to express herself. She’s emotional because she’s not getting the comfort or space she needs to open up. When someone you loved for years suddenly feels like a stranger, it’s hard to act composed. She’s trying to talk, trying to bridge that gap, but how can you express yourself when the other person’s walls are so high?
Her emotions come out as frustration and whining because she’s emotionally blocked... she doesn’t feel safe enough to be vulnerable. She’s not dramatic, she’s just hurt. She wants to be understood, not dismissed. He’s the one acting indifferent, and that makes her pain look one-sided, even though she’s the only one brave enough to show it.
I think she’s being honest with her emotions and showing them, while it’s YS who isn’t showing anything, who says one thing in interviews but does another. She’s not pretending to be okay or emotionless for the sake of image; she’s being real. as for me.. She still feels hurt because, deep down, she once believed their bond was special. When someone you shared years with acts like you’re just another person, it breaks something inside you.