I don’t think so. I think she’s more frustrated, and she still has lingering feelings for him. Imagine...…
Now this is pure projection. Firstly, he clearly doesn’t respect her — he doesn’t even care enough to have one proper conversation with her. It’s not about things “going well for him and not for her,” because honestly, things are going fine for her too. It’s about her lingering emotions — walking into that house and seeing someone she thought she’d completely moved on from, only to realize she still has resentment and unresolved feelings. That’s not easy to deal with, especially when the other person acts cold and distant.
She’s not mad that he’s doing well; she’s struggling with how indifferent he’s become. Imagine being with someone for almost eight years, and now he acts like you’re invisible. She can’t just “switch off” those emotions. She’s trying to process everything, but he’s not giving her any space or comfort to do so. Instead, he avoids her, shuts her down, and plays the victim in front of others.
Everyone else in the house has managed to talk things out with their exes.. except her. Despite sharing such a long relationship, he can’t even treat her with basic respect. He says one thing in interviews, pretending to be composed and kind, but his actions inside the house tell a completely different story. That’s manipulative.
People keep labeling her frustration as “anger,” but that’s such a shallow take. She’s not angry.. she’s helpless. She’s trying to cope with a situation where the person who once knew her best now treats her like she’s a problem. If anything, he’s the toxic one.. rude, dismissive, and emotionally unavailable.. while she’s just being honest about what she feels, even if it doesn’t come out perfectly.
Exactly, she doesn’t even get the chance to talk because he doesn’t let her, simple as that. Every time she tries to approach him, he shuts her down or walks away. How is she supposed to have a calm conversation when the other person keeps creating distance? It’s not that she isn’t trying .. it’s that he’s not allowing any space for communication.
People keep saying she goes straight to anger, but they ignore why. When you’re constantly met with coldness and avoidance, frustration is the only emotion left. She’s not angry for no reason.. she’s reacting to being dismissed again and again. You can literally see her trying to hold back, but he gives her nothing to work with.. no response, no acknowledgment, no effort.
She’s stuck in a loop of wanting closure or resolving her feelings but hitting a wall every time she reaches out. So yeah, she doesn’t talk because he doesn’t let her, and at that point, who wouldn’t get frustrated?
I don’t think so. I think she’s more frustrated, and she still has lingering feelings for him. Imagine...…
he didn’t even give her a chance first. Every time she tried to talk, he avoided her, shutting her down before she could even say a word. When she approached him, he put on that cold, unreadable face... and honestly, if it were me, I’d never want to see his face again after that.
She’s not “whining”... she’s struggling to express herself. She’s emotional because she’s not getting the comfort or space she needs to open up. When someone you loved for years suddenly feels like a stranger, it’s hard to act composed. She’s trying to talk, trying to bridge that gap, but how can you express yourself when the other person’s walls are so high?
Her emotions come out as frustration and whining because she’s emotionally blocked... she doesn’t feel safe enough to be vulnerable. She’s not dramatic, she’s just hurt. She wants to be understood, not dismissed. He’s the one acting indifferent, and that makes her pain look one-sided, even though she’s the only one brave enough to show it.
I’ve not even finished ep 9 yet but wtf. Minkyung “needing” to talk to her ex was so silly??? I get she’s…
I don’t think so. I think she’s more frustrated, and she still has lingering feelings for him. Imagine... your ex, the person you dated for almost eight years, doesn’t even care about you or have one decent conversation with you. That kind of indifference hurts more than anything. All her emotions are a mix of frustration, regret, hate, and leftover feelings she’s trying so hard to suppress but can’t.
I think she’s being honest with her emotions and showing them, while it’s YS who isn’t showing anything, who says one thing in interviews but does another. She’s not pretending to be okay or emotionless for the sake of image; she’s being real. as for me.. She still feels hurt because, deep down, she once believed their bond was special. When someone you shared years with acts like you’re just another person, it breaks something inside you.
I’m rooting for lan lan and xiao jiao because episode 4 he setting up fabulous date and really get her emotional…
Exactly, you get me. Grand gestures feel exciting on day one or two, but they can’t carry a whole life. What actually lasts is someone steady..... subtle, firm, and present. A person who doesn’t just dazzle you with moments, but quietly shapes you with consistency. Someone you can learn from, someone who challenges you, not with pressure, but with growth.
That’s why Dr. Fang and Lan Lan stand out. Their connection isn’t about fireworks or flashy romance, it’s about balance, respect, and this steady rhythm that feels real. They show us that love doesn’t always need to be loud... it can be thoughtful, grounding, and quiet.
Ending it like that is honestly the worst way possible. I’m extremely disappointed—it feels so disrespectful to viewers who already connected with every character, saw their growth, and invested their feelings into the story. And all of that just to reveal it was a dream? Seriously? On top of that, they gave so much importance to the second couple, even though she’s still a b*tch in the real timeline and hasn’t changed from the past. The story had so much potential, but it ended up feeling flat.
She’s not mad that he’s doing well; she’s struggling with how indifferent he’s become. Imagine being with someone for almost eight years, and now he acts like you’re invisible. She can’t just “switch off” those emotions. She’s trying to process everything, but he’s not giving her any space or comfort to do so. Instead, he avoids her, shuts her down, and plays the victim in front of others.
Everyone else in the house has managed to talk things out with their exes.. except her. Despite sharing such a long relationship, he can’t even treat her with basic respect. He says one thing in interviews, pretending to be composed and kind, but his actions inside the house tell a completely different story. That’s manipulative.
People keep labeling her frustration as “anger,” but that’s such a shallow take. She’s not angry.. she’s helpless. She’s trying to cope with a situation where the person who once knew her best now treats her like she’s a problem. If anything, he’s the toxic one.. rude, dismissive, and emotionally unavailable.. while she’s just being honest about what she feels, even if it doesn’t come out perfectly.
Exactly, she doesn’t even get the chance to talk because he doesn’t let her, simple as that. Every time she tries to approach him, he shuts her down or walks away. How is she supposed to have a calm conversation when the other person keeps creating distance? It’s not that she isn’t trying .. it’s that he’s not allowing any space for communication.
People keep saying she goes straight to anger, but they ignore why. When you’re constantly met with coldness and avoidance, frustration is the only emotion left. She’s not angry for no reason.. she’s reacting to being dismissed again and again. You can literally see her trying to hold back, but he gives her nothing to work with.. no response, no acknowledgment, no effort.
She’s stuck in a loop of wanting closure or resolving her feelings but hitting a wall every time she reaches out. So yeah, she doesn’t talk because he doesn’t let her, and at that point, who wouldn’t get frustrated?
She’s not “whining”... she’s struggling to express herself. She’s emotional because she’s not getting the comfort or space she needs to open up. When someone you loved for years suddenly feels like a stranger, it’s hard to act composed. She’s trying to talk, trying to bridge that gap, but how can you express yourself when the other person’s walls are so high?
Her emotions come out as frustration and whining because she’s emotionally blocked... she doesn’t feel safe enough to be vulnerable. She’s not dramatic, she’s just hurt. She wants to be understood, not dismissed. He’s the one acting indifferent, and that makes her pain look one-sided, even though she’s the only one brave enough to show it.
I think she’s being honest with her emotions and showing them, while it’s YS who isn’t showing anything, who says one thing in interviews but does another. She’s not pretending to be okay or emotionless for the sake of image; she’s being real. as for me.. She still feels hurt because, deep down, she once believed their bond was special. When someone you shared years with acts like you’re just another person, it breaks something inside you.
That’s why Dr. Fang and Lan Lan stand out. Their connection isn’t about fireworks or flashy romance, it’s about balance, respect, and this steady rhythm that feels real. They show us that love doesn’t always need to be loud... it can be thoughtful, grounding, and quiet.
i am counting on viki and gaga
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