Why are the OSTs so good? Ever since last month, all I have been listening to are the OSTs from this series, Clover's Next to you, Fourth's Side to Side and TayNew's A little More Love. Turns Out It's You hits especially hard.
Totally agree and lovely analyze. the dreams is like a new puzzle piece every episode where we together with J…
Exactly!! if not for the buildup, the line would have landed with almost zero impact. It's because the story takes its time, layering the dreams, planting tiny clues, and letting the confusion simmer, that moment hits so hard. We are already as unsettled as J by then, so when he asks "Is this real or a dream?", it hits and then Jinn trying to reassure J, that moment and when secret crush started playing, I was an utter mess.
completely agree with everything you said. it feels like when people complain about the visions or the plot not…
THAT. That that that. Exactly!! I think a lot of the complaints come from people wanting resolution when the story is still clearly in its question phase. The show isn't dragging. It's deliberately sitting in the discomfort because that's where the characters are. The visions, Jinn's dad, all of it are pressures shaping their choices in real time, not plot threads meant to be "cleared."
If they rushed those elements just to get to fluff, the emotional payoff would feel unearned. The tension is what gives later softness meaning. A story with stakes has to earn its calm, not skip straight to it. That's not bad writing, that's restraint.
I really loved this episode. I admit last week left me feeling a little frustrated, but I decided to just let…
I am enjoying it so much too. I honestly don't understand why people keep saying it's going downhill. Maybe every single episode isn't flawless, but the show has been incredibly consistent in what it's trying to do and say. The emotional throughline hasn't wavered at all.
What I especially love is the depth of the characters. Everyone feels thoughtfully written, and their reactions always make sense within who they are. Nothing feels out of character or done just for shock value. The slow pace actually allows their flaws, fears, and growth to feel earned rather than rushed.
Also, the satisfaction I felt when Farm drove off without Van and when he walked away after pushing Van was immense.
I have loved every single episode so far, to the point where each one feels like it ends in a blink. One moment I am settling in, and the next I am staring at the credits, wondering how it went by so fast.
And honestly, I get why some people feel the dreams are repetitive but isn't that the entire point of the series? Every dream sequence builds on the last. They're not just repeating for the sake of it; they're accumulating. Each one adds a new layer, getting heavier, more serious, and disturbingly real.
In the previous episode, we had no idea how long Jinn would disappear for. This episode made it painfully clear: seven years. He is back when they're thirty. This transition absolutely destroyed me- the scene where J is blowing out candles at twenty nine with his parents holding the cake, disturbingly shifting to him turning thirty with Jinn holding it instead. I was squeezing my pillow like my life depended on it. Even though I knew it was a dream, my eyes still welled up.
And then came the hospital dream. Jinn on the bed. Jinn dying. That entire sequence left me in utter ruins. People complain about how often the hospital shows up, and yes, it's frequent but that criticism misses the point. The dreams are about preventing what's coming. When people get hurt, they end up in hospitals. If the dreams were nothing but soft, fluffy moments, they'd be meaningless. The stakes wouldn't exist.
Jerome is clearly unraveling. He's desperate to see the dreams through, no matter the cost. The way he knew he was bleeding, yet instead of getting up, he covered his ears and forced himself back to sleep just to see what would happen next- that says everything. He has zero regard for his own wellbeing. At this point, if given the choice to swap his life for Jinn's, he would do it in a heartbeat.
At the same time, Jinn is terrified. Jerome's increasingly frequent and prolonged nosebleeds are scaring him, and that fear is written all over his face. And that final scene- J almost jumping from the balcony- completely wrecked him. It sent him into absolute chaos.
These dreams aren't just a narrative device. They are the very core of the story. That much was already glaringly clear from the trailer and the pilot trailer.
I’m actually upset at how adorable and wholesome they are, because they keep traumatizing me with those visions…
Van really is a problematic character. The commitment issues are glaring, and every time he pulls something like this, he makes me more frustrated than the last. But honestly? That frustration just proves how much I care about him. If I were indifferent, I wouldn't be this mad. Him spiraling like this only hits harder because I am already emotionally invested.
From a writing standpoint, I actually think it's done very well. The character flaws feel intentional and layered rather than sloppy. Execution wise, I am not a huge fan of the abrupt cuts, they can pull me out of the moment sometimes, but at this point, JeromeJinn completely make me forget about it. Their chemistry and performances are so engaging that I end up overlooking the technical bits and just... enjoying myself.
I’m actually upset at how adorable and wholesome they are, because they keep traumatizing me with those visions…
Yes, absolutely. The way they wrap us in softness and tenderness only to immediately wreck us with those visions is actually cruel.
And I am very invested in both couples. That said, the amount of eyerolls and curse words Van has dragged out of me... unreal. I am still seated for FarmVan, but they test my patience in a completely different way.
Jerome and Jinn, why are they so ridiculously, unbearably adorable!! And at the same time... why is the dream getting scarier and scarier? Every time it comes up, it feels heavier, darker, more ominous. It genuinely terrifies me. With everything we already know, the idea of Jinn disappearing for seven years, coming back, and then dying feels like this looming curse hanging over them. Like all the pieces are there, just waiting to crash together in the worst possible way.
And Jerome please stop lying to Jinn. I get it, the consequences might be worse but if Jinn knows, he won't be walking into it blind. Maybe.... just may be knowing might make it easier to fight back, to prevent it, or at least to face it together instead of alone.
Also, the satisfaction I felt when Farm drove off leaving Van and especially when he pushed Van and walked away was immense. Van better get his act together now. No more excuses, no more running away from accountability.
I miss J and Jinn, I can't wait for the next episode 😭
It's finally D-Day. And please tell me we don't have to wait a whole two weeks for the next episode. With the holidays starting soon, I am already dreading the break.
Van doesn't deserve all the grace in the world right now, and I don't feel any differently about that. Farm is soft, patient, loving and he keeps getting hurt. Watching that happen makes it very easy to paint Van as the villain of the story. But I don't think it's that simple.
Van has always been insecure. From the very beginning, he's been written as someone who sabotages his own relationship because he's terrified of losing it. He doesn't even believe he's capable of being someone's good love. People like that don't magically become healed the moment they fall in love. Loving someone doesn't erase years of fear, self doubt, or unhealthy coping mechanisms. It just brings them to the surface.
That also doesn't mean Farm deserves to be hurt- he absolutely doesn't. Farm deserves honesty, reassurance, and safety. And Van failing to give him that matters. It's valid to be angry at Van. I am angry at him too. But anger doesn't mean the character is badly written or suddenly unworthy of love or that their storyline is ruined. It means the writing is doing exactly what it's supposed to do.
The hardest part is that Van will never notice the small details, like Farm stopping himself from lighting a cigarette…
I completely agree with everything you said- you have captured their dynamic perfectly. The way Farm quietly cares while Van seems oblivious (or maybe deliberately pushing him away) is so heartbreaking but also so real. It makes sense that Van's fear of losing people, especially after losing his parents, bleeds into his actions, even if it's self-sabotaging.
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I think a lot of the complaints come from people wanting resolution when the story is still clearly in its question phase. The show isn't dragging. It's deliberately sitting in the discomfort because that's where the characters are. The visions, Jinn's dad, all of it are pressures shaping their choices in real time, not plot threads meant to be "cleared."
If they rushed those elements just to get to fluff, the emotional payoff would feel unearned. The tension is what gives later softness meaning. A story with stakes has to earn its calm, not skip straight to it. That's not bad writing, that's restraint.
What I especially love is the depth of the characters. Everyone feels thoughtfully written, and their reactions always make sense within who they are. Nothing feels out of character or done just for shock value. The slow pace actually allows their flaws, fears, and growth to feel earned rather than rushed.
Also, the satisfaction I felt when Farm drove off without Van and when he walked away after pushing Van was immense.
And honestly, I get why some people feel the dreams are repetitive but isn't that the entire point of the series? Every dream sequence builds on the last. They're not just repeating for the sake of it; they're accumulating. Each one adds a new layer, getting heavier, more serious, and disturbingly real.
In the previous episode, we had no idea how long Jinn would disappear for. This episode made it painfully clear: seven years. He is back when they're thirty. This transition absolutely destroyed me- the scene where J is blowing out candles at twenty nine with his parents holding the cake, disturbingly shifting to him turning thirty with Jinn holding it instead. I was squeezing my pillow like my life depended on it. Even though I knew it was a dream, my eyes still welled up.
And then came the hospital dream. Jinn on the bed. Jinn dying. That entire sequence left me in utter ruins. People complain about how often the hospital shows up, and yes, it's frequent but that criticism misses the point. The dreams are about preventing what's coming. When people get hurt, they end up in hospitals. If the dreams were nothing but soft, fluffy moments, they'd be meaningless. The stakes wouldn't exist.
Jerome is clearly unraveling. He's desperate to see the dreams through, no matter the cost. The way he knew he was bleeding, yet instead of getting up, he covered his ears and forced himself back to sleep just to see what would happen next- that says everything. He has zero regard for his own wellbeing. At this point, if given the choice to swap his life for Jinn's, he would do it in a heartbeat.
At the same time, Jinn is terrified. Jerome's increasingly frequent and prolonged nosebleeds are scaring him, and that fear is written all over his face. And that final scene- J almost jumping from the balcony- completely wrecked him. It sent him into absolute chaos.
These dreams aren't just a narrative device. They are the very core of the story. That much was already glaringly clear from the trailer and the pilot trailer.
From a writing standpoint, I actually think it's done very well. The character flaws feel intentional and layered rather than sloppy. Execution wise, I am not a huge fan of the abrupt cuts, they can pull me out of the moment sometimes, but at this point, JeromeJinn completely make me forget about it. Their chemistry and performances are so engaging that I end up overlooking the technical bits and just... enjoying myself.
And I am very invested in both couples. That said, the amount of eyerolls and curse words Van has dragged out of me... unreal. I am still seated for FarmVan, but they test my patience in a completely different way.
And Jerome please stop lying to Jinn. I get it, the consequences might be worse but if Jinn knows, he won't be walking into it blind. Maybe.... just may be knowing might make it easier to fight back, to prevent it, or at least to face it together instead of alone.
Also, the satisfaction I felt when Farm drove off leaving Van and especially when he pushed Van and walked away was immense. Van better get his act together now. No more excuses, no more running away from accountability.
No Rome come back. I want more of RomeMok TT^TT
Van has always been insecure. From the very beginning, he's been written as someone who sabotages his own relationship because he's terrified of losing it. He doesn't even believe he's capable of being someone's good love. People like that don't magically become healed the moment they fall in love. Loving someone doesn't erase years of fear, self doubt, or unhealthy coping mechanisms. It just brings them to the surface.
That also doesn't mean Farm deserves to be hurt- he absolutely doesn't. Farm deserves honesty, reassurance, and safety. And Van failing to give him that matters. It's valid to be angry at Van. I am angry at him too. But anger doesn't mean the character is badly written or suddenly unworthy of love or that their storyline is ruined. It means the writing is doing exactly what it's supposed to do.