They can be too, also disrespectful. One experience isn't another...For instance when I was in Japan, the ones being disrespectful were white Americans. From smooking on the streets in Kyoto, to cut in line & speak louder on public transports. We all should educate ourselves & learn to respect each other
Not everyone has the same level of maturity. If you prefer a place where hate is normal, then X is that way. This…
Imagine some people accepting being toxic, bullies & haters over what should be the most beautiful & positive thing in the world: love. And even feeling uneasy on spaces that are safer/healthier to discuss abt the sad situation & wanting to normalize hatred over constestants from a dating show like they were some criminals :o Are they alright?
I feel some of you are uptset & frustrated for subjective reasons & it's sad, considering His man's production did their best despite the incident from the previous shoot.
"The reshoot was a bad idea". If they didn't reshoot it, you wouldn't had been able to watch his man this year or even the next years, keep that in mind. The producers had valid reasons to not broadcast the first attempt. Do you really think they were happy abt the reshoot or losing money ?? They know their country better than you & whats is better for them, the cast & the future of the show. "they should have brought new cast". Why? This would have been so unfair for the previous one...They had done nothing wrong, they were casted & willing to come back, but then had to leave bc some of you had no desire to know them (based on nothing??) & preferred to be entertained by new fresh meat? This is so egoistical & mean. But what could I expect from BL fans after all...This how the community has evolved sadly. They've been working months to find the cast, finding new ones would not only be challenging in such a short period of time but also need money they may not have.
The show isn't perfect ofc & would need to improve on some points but let's keep in mind, they didn't have it easy, not only because of the mess from the previous shoot but also bc airing a LGBTQ show can be very challenging in a not so opened country...
Once again, harsly criticizing & spreading hate would only lead to one direction : losing this program. Maybe it's what the BL communicty deserves after all? Focusing on fictional characters & stories as they can"t handle humans & real relationships
Whatever the LGBTQ show I'm watching, toxic fans are ruining it....When all these shows will be cancelled or only fake people will dare to join, don't cry bc it might highly happen in the future. More scrips to please the viewers & so more success/money. I even wonder if most viewers wouldn't be enjoying more if it was all fake... We can actually discuss about the boys & their relationships in a healthy way though unfortunetly some deciding it's ok to spread toxicity & hatred to some contestants... They're not some characters only existing to entertain us. They're like all of us, trying to navitage through their feelings, struggles, traumas, so let's try to be considerate & nicer :(
Back to the show: Hyeong Jun has been hurting so much during the show, so seeing him smile the past eps make me happy. I hope he will be able to find someone that trully loves & cares abt him! He is slowy opening up to Minseong so I wonder how it will go between these two. I haven't seen enough of M to fully grasp his persona & real intentions. He seems interested in HJ but as it's been just some days, I wonder
Taichi seems lost but it was nice he could be straightforward towards Han Gyeol. I really like Han Gyeol's persona! He is mature & sincere, that's why I wish to see more of him & Hyeok Jin, as their characters seem to click well even as friends.
HJ, YJ, SW...I don't feel any sparks in HJ's eyes. He doesn't seem that interested in any of the boys the time being. But one week is so short :/
I wonder why Su Min hasn't more success with the boys? I find him charming & sincere
People only believe what is spoken loudly, not what is endured silently. Hyeongjun chose silence over chaos and…
I could feel he was on the verge on breaking... I feel so sad for him. I just hope whatever his decision is, he will find his happiness We need more understanding & mature fans like you... Toxic BL fans are everywhere nowadays, it's so exhausting
Focusing mainly on one couple doesn’t always work it’s either a hit or a miss, and they kept taking that risk.The…
I don't think it's the only reasons. I can't imagine if they had given more screentime to HB, leading the viewers to think they were fondly in love & boyfriends (I still remember the imapcting "Would you become my first bf?"), to end it with some cryptic situationship (I don't blame them, their life, their choice). The deception would have been even more unbearable & the hatred would have been directed to the production (manipulating their "story" for clout) & to HB. Frustration leads to hatred. Hb fans've already been throwing lots of hate to William/Izaya but not only, some casts have received it, like Hiroya, Ryuki, Dai/Shun & even HB themselves were blamed (even for dumb things like liking posts from other casts). And it's not some isolated individuals... Fans nowadays are way too addicted to fw, competition & violence, they're the problems
HB could have confessed in the igloo, the sauna, or the downstairs corner bench...Why would the cp in love should…
They would have a moment between only the two of them but it would have changed nothing, as they had many after & also for one year....So whats the point of being angry knowing that fact. Blaming a real cp for the failure is wild
Late to the game and binge watching. Understand the need for drama and ratings, but don’t like the reunion couples…
HB could have confessed in the igloo, the sauna, or the downstairs corner bench...Why would the cp in love should have let go of an opportunity to another that isn't? Also the idea of confessing at the lake was William's idea. Other cps would only go to work uh Remind me, isn't it Bomi that confessed later & H didn't answer?? Another confession earlier would have changed nothing...Bomi has always been sincere with his feelings, what's the point of forcing them everyday when the other is barely responding? It's been 1 month that some of you trying to seek for excuses for their indecisive relationship. Maybe it's time to accept they're going their own pace & are not here to entertain you
please someone explain to me the whole misunderstanding between hiroya and tomoaki
To simplify, Tomoaki felt rejected when Hiroya said he won't never go to some lgbtq places where Tomoaki often went (& so he would have never met him if not for the boyfriend)
To be fair, I don’t think these are crocodile tears. He appears to be truly devastated and he is going through…
He was being egoistical... If I remember his words correctly, he said he chose the show over HJ. His words were so hurtful besides his will to reshoot :/ Anyone would have been deeply hurt if they had feelings. And he hasn't even contacted him for those two weeks before the reshoot, He is actually tasting his own medecine : seeing someone he likes flirting while he can't do much. It's a pity he didn't even try before to communicate properly with hj, at least to apease the situation. Now it's too late
To give production the benefit of the doubt, I alway assumed the eliminations were there because, since like 3/4…
I don't think it was a good idea, whatever the reason bc the period is way too short & viewers want to see "interactions, cute moments & flirt", not them being anxious bc they might be eliminated in the span of 3 days They should have letting them focus on bonding genuinely as the period is so limited. Now instead of being excited to see what will happen between the love interests, I'm only stressed abt who will be eliminated & the consequences on everyone's mood
I also feel like 7 days is waaay too short.. in The Boyfriend it was 2 months right? They need to give them at…
Yeah it's two months. They even went on a trip together, had time to bond, grow & enjoy their their days together at their own pace. And ofc for the viewers, it was so heartwarming to follow them >3
Fans of dating shows/BL fans should reflect on their behavior for real...From The boyfriend to his man, I see so much toxicity. I feel like these have become a place where everyone gather to throw hate for literally everything & enjoy it?! Finding love is hard, keeping it even more...Also they're humans & so flawed like all of us. And obviously it will reach the contestants, they will read your comments bc they're curious as William & Izaya told in an interview. We are responsible for building a nice place for everyone. You can share your opinion in a healthy way, while being decent & respectful. Also let's not forget they are humans with feelings, not some characters & in countries like SK & Japan, coming out is still perceived very negatively.
Time to go back to the show: One week is really too short & I hope they'll adapt if there is another season. Contestants have to "rush" to flirt & there is less room for real bonding. 3 weeks would have been nice!
I don't grasp the purpose of the elimination from the producers' pov. Entertainment? Creating discourses among fans? Buzz? The envirronement is becoming unhealthy... Voting for your friends though you're just here for such a short period of time & to find love. As for me, I find it cruel:/ I can't imagine the mental state of the eliminated contestant.
Min sung and Hyeong Jun seem to go on the right direction? It's nice to see them enjoying talking to each other & Hyeong Jun finally smile. Jae Ha seems to really suffer but I got a hard time cheering on him. I mean he wanted to go back to a dating show though he had HJ, said it in such a harsh way & didn't try to understand his pains/struggles back then or even contact him. He has made a big mistake if he was really in love. Yj & Sunwook are cute, I wish them to find a caring bf (don't know if there is actually someone that will match?) I'm actually interested in Han Gyeol. I hope he won't shut doors & will choose someone he has chemistry with :) I can sense a lil one with hyeok Jin, but let's see! I like Su min, he seems mature & serious. I hope he will find love >3 Waiting for more eps to get an opinion for the others.
WilliamIzaya togetherJobuTaeheon broke upHuweiBomi arent dating
They are not just friends & keep seeing each others here & there but it's been one year until the show & nothing really has changed. The same impression from when I was watching the tbf : Bomi is trying hard while Huwei just going with the flow. He has shared many excuses on "why" their relationship is like that (busy, focusing on their lives, bad at romance) but maybe he just hasn't found his ideal type & so love yet.
I skipped most scenes with will and izaya not to be a hater but it was so boring it seemed like they were going…
It's the lack of communication that leads to break up or uncertain relationships . They were seeking for something serious, so those were necessary to get a healthy future.
Also that's why it's the only couple to have confirmed their relationship, live tgt & have met each other family. Dai/shun just said they were fighting a lot in their first year too, it was like judo xD It's realistic portrayal of couples :) I guess many viewers don't want to see this side of the relationship.
We all should educate ourselves & learn to respect each other
And even feeling uneasy on spaces that are safer/healthier to discuss abt the sad situation & wanting to normalize hatred over constestants from a dating show like they were some criminals :o
Are they alright?
"The reshoot was a bad idea". If they didn't reshoot it, you wouldn't had been able to watch his man this year or even the next years, keep that in mind. The producers had valid reasons to not broadcast the first attempt. Do you really think they were happy abt the reshoot or losing money ?? They know their country better than you & whats is better for them, the cast & the future of the show.
"they should have brought new cast". Why? This would have been so unfair for the previous one...They had done nothing wrong, they were casted & willing to come back, but then had to leave bc some of you had no desire to know them (based on nothing??) & preferred to be entertained by new fresh meat? This is so egoistical & mean. But what could I expect from BL fans after all...This how the community has evolved sadly.
They've been working months to find the cast, finding new ones would not only be challenging in such a short period of time but also need money they may not have.
The show isn't perfect ofc & would need to improve on some points but let's keep in mind, they didn't have it easy, not only because of the mess from the previous shoot but also bc airing a LGBTQ show can be very challenging in a not so opened country...
Once again, harsly criticizing & spreading hate would only lead to one direction : losing this program. Maybe it's what the BL communicty deserves after all? Focusing on fictional characters & stories as they can"t handle humans & real relationships
I even wonder if most viewers wouldn't be enjoying more if it was all fake...
We can actually discuss about the boys & their relationships in a healthy way though unfortunetly some deciding it's ok to spread toxicity & hatred to some contestants... They're not some characters only existing to entertain us. They're like all of us, trying to navitage through their feelings, struggles, traumas, so let's try to be considerate & nicer :(
Back to the show:
Hyeong Jun has been hurting so much during the show, so seeing him smile the past eps make me happy. I hope he will be able to find someone that trully loves & cares abt him! He is slowy opening up to Minseong so I wonder how it will go between these two. I haven't seen enough of M to fully grasp his persona & real intentions. He seems interested in HJ but as it's been just some days, I wonder
Taichi seems lost but it was nice he could be straightforward towards Han Gyeol.
I really like Han Gyeol's persona! He is mature & sincere, that's why I wish to see more of him & Hyeok Jin, as their characters seem to click well even as friends.
HJ, YJ, SW...I don't feel any sparks in HJ's eyes. He doesn't seem that interested in any of the boys the time being. But one week is so short :/
I wonder why Su Min hasn't more success with the boys? I find him charming & sincere
We need more understanding & mature fans like you... Toxic BL fans are everywhere nowadays, it's so exhausting
Frustration leads to hatred.
Hb fans've already been throwing lots of hate to William/Izaya but not only, some casts have received it, like Hiroya, Ryuki, Dai/Shun & even HB themselves were blamed (even for dumb things like liking posts from other casts). And it's not some isolated individuals... Fans nowadays are way too addicted to fw, competition & violence, they're the problems
Remind me, isn't it Bomi that confessed later & H didn't answer?? Another confession earlier would have changed nothing...Bomi has always been sincere with his feelings, what's the point of forcing them everyday when the other is barely responding?
It's been 1 month that some of you trying to seek for excuses for their indecisive relationship. Maybe it's time to accept they're going their own pace & are not here to entertain you
where Tomoaki often went (& so he would have never met him if not for the boyfriend)
And he hasn't even contacted him for those two weeks before the reshoot, He is actually tasting his own medecine : seeing someone he likes flirting while he can't do much. It's a pity he didn't even try before to communicate properly with hj, at least to apease the situation. Now it's too late
So other Asian dating shows are only one week too
They should have letting them focus on bonding genuinely as the period is so limited. Now instead of being excited to see what will happen between the love interests, I'm only stressed abt who will be eliminated & the consequences on everyone's mood
Fans of dating shows/BL fans should reflect on their behavior for real...From The boyfriend to his man, I see so much toxicity. I feel like these have become a place where everyone gather to throw hate for literally everything & enjoy it?! Finding love is hard, keeping it even more...Also they're humans & so flawed like all of us. And obviously it will reach the contestants, they will read your comments bc they're curious as William & Izaya told in an interview. We are responsible for building a nice place for everyone. You can share your opinion in a healthy way, while being decent & respectful. Also let's not forget they are humans with feelings, not some characters & in countries like SK & Japan, coming out is still perceived very negatively.
Time to go back to the show: One week is really too short & I hope they'll adapt if there is another season. Contestants have to "rush" to flirt & there is less room for real bonding. 3 weeks would have been nice!
I don't grasp the purpose of the elimination from the producers' pov. Entertainment? Creating discourses among fans? Buzz? The envirronement is becoming unhealthy... Voting for your friends though you're just here for such a short period of time & to find love.
As for me, I find it cruel:/ I can't imagine the mental state of the eliminated contestant.
Min sung and Hyeong Jun seem to go on the right direction? It's nice to see them enjoying talking to each other & Hyeong Jun finally smile.
Jae Ha seems to really suffer but I got a hard time cheering on him. I mean he wanted to go back to a dating show though he had HJ, said it in such a harsh way & didn't try to understand his pains/struggles back then or even contact him. He has made a big mistake if he was really in love.
Yj & Sunwook are cute, I wish them to find a caring bf (don't know if there is actually someone that will match?)
I'm actually interested in Han Gyeol. I hope he won't shut doors & will choose someone he has chemistry with :) I can sense a lil one with hyeok Jin, but let's see!
I like Su min, he seems mature & serious. I hope he will find love >3
Waiting for more eps to get an opinion for the others.
The same impression from when I was watching the tbf : Bomi is trying hard while Huwei just going with the flow. He has shared many excuses on "why" their relationship is like that (busy, focusing on their lives, bad at romance) but maybe he just hasn't found his ideal type & so love yet.
Also that's why it's the only couple to have confirmed their relationship, live tgt & have met each other family. Dai/shun just said they were fighting a lot in their first year too, it was like judo xD It's realistic portrayal of couples :) I guess many viewers don't want to see this side of the relationship.