The only one Trash here is the wife!!! really its all Hyun Woo fault? is that what the writer is trying to prove?…
Wow are you serious? Sooyeon and Yoon Gi aren't even mildly comparable. Yoon Gi is the trash, he keeps searching for more and more women without remorse and doesn't give a rat's ass about his wife's feelings (or the feelings of any woman he seduces for that matter). Yoon Gi's wife has done no wrong, there's no question of that.
Sooyeon on the other hand tried to be the best wife and the best mother and the best employee she possible could because that's what everyone, including Hyunwoo, expected of her, and burned herself out which caused her to resort to cheating with the one person who showed that he cared about how she felt. It was wrong of her, but there was a reason. You can't justify cheating, but you can explain why someone cheats.
Honestly, Hyunwoo is a pathetic excuse of a husband and a pretty lousy dad, too. He barely does any housework, wasn't capable of communication with his wife and constantly forgot about his responsibilities as a father. When he finally managed to show enough patience to listen to his wife and how hard life was for her, his response was "everyone lives like that, you shouldn't complain". He is completely irresponsible and refuses to take any blame. Just like you, he thinks of the world as black and white. If you cheat, you're horrible and if you're cheated on, you have done no wrong. Thank god Boyoung and his ex seem to have slapped some sense into him.
As for Sooyeon trying to make herself feel better... really? She is beating herself up more than anyone. She doesn't complain when people (mainly Hyunwoo), tell her how shitty of a person she is and is doing everything she can to solve the situation in the best way possible for Junsu. She knows she did wrong and constantly asks Hyunwoo how he wants to resolve things. His response each time is "I don't know" and when Sooyeon proposes something he says "Who are you to decide on anything?". He is not receptive, nor proactive.
The truth is, their marriage was done for a long time before she cheated and it's impossible to pinpoint who is the one that's done more damage. It's so easy to blame the cheater for everything and not consider the reasons behind it. Out of curiosity, since we clearly disagree on many things, how would you resolve the situation?
I'm probably the only one who thinks this way, but I do feel bad for Sooyeon. She screwed up, big time. I absolutely would never be able to forgive someone for cheating and I don't expect that Hyunwoo do that either. BUT the way everything is collapsing around her is sad. She had it coming, why would she cheat, she is horrible etc.etc. I get it, I know. And I am in no way defending what she did because cheating is always wrong. I just wish they would explain why she cheated. Considering how guilt-ripped she obviously is, I'm sure there must have been a reason. She listens to all the shit that everyone throws her way without a single tear but breaks down the moment her mother-in-law shows an inch of sympathy. I understand that the producers want to show the horrible repercussions that can come about from cheating and that's good but I'm going to be disappointed if they don't delve deeper into Sooyeon's character. And Hyunwoo is starting to turn almost abusive, I hope he doesn't do anything reckless.
On side note, I love the little romance between Joonyeong and Boyeong, I hope their relationship develops :)
I feel like wherever I go, people are complaining about this drama while I'm just frustrated that I have to, once again, wait another week to see what happens...
A nice, accurate review. I was thinking of writing one myself but you pretty much said everything I wanted to discuss. Joongwon is sooo sexy, yesss!
The main actress' name is Jeon Do Yeon, not Kim, though, you might want to fix that small error :)
I wonder if Jun Do-yeon acts all superior (and/or reserved) on the set because she works with people like Nana…
Yes, that's the one. They filmed in Finland last year so I was able to go. I actually got a picture with Gong Yoo but not one with Jeon Doyeon which is a shame cause I actually like her a lot but it was still amazing to see the both of them in person :)
I wonder if Jun Do-yeon acts all superior (and/or reserved) on the set because she works with people like Nana…
I think she's quite friendly. I met her at the set of a film where I was a background extra and she was really friendly to everybody, even thanked all the extras at the end of the day. It was nice to see someone as big as her being considerate towards others ^^
Gong Yoo oppa <3 how come i can"t find it anywhere -_- what kind of forbidden love -_- pffffff no details…
I know this is a little late for a reply but they filmed this movie in Finland in the beginning of February so I don't think it'll come out until the end of summer, perhaps autumn. If you want to get specifics on the plot, search for the details of the movie on hancinema :)
Sooyeon on the other hand tried to be the best wife and the best mother and the best employee she possible could because that's what everyone, including Hyunwoo, expected of her, and burned herself out which caused her to resort to cheating with the one person who showed that he cared about how she felt. It was wrong of her, but there was a reason. You can't justify cheating, but you can explain why someone cheats.
Honestly, Hyunwoo is a pathetic excuse of a husband and a pretty lousy dad, too. He barely does any housework, wasn't capable of communication with his wife and constantly forgot about his responsibilities as a father. When he finally managed to show enough patience to listen to his wife and how hard life was for her, his response was "everyone lives like that, you shouldn't complain". He is completely irresponsible and refuses to take any blame. Just like you, he thinks of the world as black and white. If you cheat, you're horrible and if you're cheated on, you have done no wrong. Thank god Boyoung and his ex seem to have slapped some sense into him.
As for Sooyeon trying to make herself feel better... really? She is beating herself up more than anyone. She doesn't complain when people (mainly Hyunwoo), tell her how shitty of a person she is and is doing everything she can to solve the situation in the best way possible for Junsu. She knows she did wrong and constantly asks Hyunwoo how he wants to resolve things. His response each time is "I don't know" and when Sooyeon proposes something he says "Who are you to decide on anything?". He is not receptive, nor proactive.
The truth is, their marriage was done for a long time before she cheated and it's impossible to pinpoint who is the one that's done more damage. It's so easy to blame the cheater for everything and not consider the reasons behind it. Out of curiosity, since we clearly disagree on many things, how would you resolve the situation?
On side note, I love the little romance between Joonyeong and Boyeong, I hope their relationship develops :)
The main actress' name is Jeon Do Yeon, not Kim, though, you might want to fix that small error :)