MR is like a lot of abused women out in the world. They love and become dependent on their abuser. They will cry…
This is based on MRâs almost desperate and chaotic jealous reactions to JT visiting SY and his threats to divorce her. The woman was breaking apart due to her own raging jealousy. MR has the classic case of love/hate relationship with JT. Somewhere along the line, she had been deeply in love with JT until WR disappearance. There has been many occasions where she has suspected that he gaslighted her but still makes excuses of why she hasnât left him. She still calls him honey even when he is abusing her. MR has been manipulated and abused for years but continues to hold on because she wants to make him suffer?
She reminds me of a friend I know who totally hates her emotionally and physically abusive husband and talked bad about him constantly. However. when she asked for help to get away from said husband and delivered to the police station to file charges, she caved. Not only did she caved but she tagged team with her husband against me. She was financially independent but it did not matter. Her love for him and low self esteem was stronger than the terror she was living in daily. I had to distance myself from her to ensure their toxicity didnât threatened my sanity and safety.
In some cases, it is not about being financially independent but rather being chained to an emotional prison or lacking self worth. Some women hold on to a bad partner as a validation that theyâre lovable and valued. The abuser always manipulate them to believe that they are unhinged and unworthy or that the abused person is the destructive one in the relationship. I understand your views on this and respect them. I just see my friendâs behavior in MR. We will find out soon and I am sure that weâll be surprised.
I have beeen meaning to bring this up. Ma Ti mentioned HW had a heart problem. I think the heart problem will…
I think it was the fake momâs real son that had the heart problem. That is why he died and HW was his replacement.
On another note, I think JT may be sick by all the coughing he has be doing lately. HW May be the one to save him and that is how he find out that HW is his son.
I would like to share this thought which just crossed my mind. Initially, without insight into why MR was so hostile…
MR is like a lot of abused women out in the world. They love and become dependent on their abuser. They will cry and tear down their abuser but it is hard for them to walk away.
I beg to differ. I think he never cared to be updated about HW, otherwise he would have known he was transferred…
I think it is all about reputation and status as you stated. He did not intentionally lose HW at first but he admitted in todayâs episode that he intentionally abandoned him the second time. MR and her father had always blamed him for HW disappearance. He is trying to protect himself and cover up his dishonesty to maintain his innocence. Plus JT does not strike us as a person who would like it known that his wife gave birth to another manâs child. He was very offended when NY affirm that he was not HWâs father. He is a stickler for everything in its place.
Judging from Ep92 preview, NY will try to convince JT to have WR transfer, but was overheard by HS. Letâs hope…
I agree. She will try to embarrass them and make trouble to start the gossip mill to pressure WR to transfer. JT will go along with it until MR finds out the truth and block them. However, it may backfire on NY because SJ will not let anyone to hurt WR. The tape may be exposed to the public to knock NY feet from under her.
I beg to differ. I think he never cared to be updated about HW, otherwise he would have known he was transferred…
I agree he is cruel and there is no excuse for what he did. MR should divorce him without question. I just feel there has to be someone helping him when HW became missing and now that we are not aware of yet. I just donât understand how he could not feel any fear for a little child out in the big world without knowing he was okay. He have to had some indication that he was okay and someone reporting to him. If he did as you said, he needs to go to jail!!
It seems that JT did abandoned HW when fake mom died. He may have already known HW was safe and provided for a long time before he saw him at the hospital. He may not have known who or where he was but he had to be kept informed by someone. What do you think?
It is a nonexistent baby that will not see the light of day.
According to HS when talking to his mother, the baby should soon be born. The timeline and reality is all mixed up when it comes to the baby. Since it is low budget, they couldnât afford the baby bump!đ€đ€Łđ€Ș
She wants to be superior to SJ by any means possible. I agree, her downfall has begun. SJ will stop at nothing…
I will like that word for her karma. Then I think about all the horrible things she has done to people. She claims she is alone and no one loves her. However, she isolates and destroys each connection she has with family to satisfy her greed and ego. The only karma for her is jailed and alone. Then she can experience the real pain of no one trusting or wanting her around them.
After watching yesterday episode, I have come to a conclusion. Crazy NY really is fearless now by her belief that she has solidified her place in the Hans household. She doesnât realize the danger or the familyâs trust of her is slowly deteriorating due to her destructive behavior. She doesnât even try to hide things from her FIL now of her ugly personality. Her greed to destroy everyone around her will cause a chain reaction that will possibly alienate all personal connections. I believe that NY will end up divorced and alone after losing the baby.
I feel like we made progress in today's episode. At least MR wants a DNA test, hopefully, she'll get it soon,…
I feel she will attempt to gain back some favor from MR by turning on JT. However she will do it in a method to get MR to not follow through with a DNA test. NY will possibly lie and say she found him but he died. There is one thing for sure that we knowâshe doesnât want WR found. This is where her downfall and lies will start to pop up. It is happening!
No. I am not a writer. I have plans to start writing. I have plot ideas constantly generating through my brain of possibly an amazing storyline . On every drama I watched, I am pretty good on figuring a characterâs emotional make up or guess how they will react or who is the villain/killer. Sometimes the writer will go a different direction than what I envision in my head. Hopefully, I can test my theories soon to see if I am any good.
By far NYâs character is a psycho with narcissistic tendencies, who only thinks how it will affect her. She does have awareness of her bad behavior and fears shame of the consequences if exposed. However, she will sacrifice anyone regardless who, to achieve her desired goal. She has a self inflated ego and worth who doesnât love or trust anyone for fear of betrayal. Her actions influenced us to believe she loves HS and the child but her mental challenges will naturally decimate individuals who outshines or threaten her status. Her whole persona lacks empathy and I believe YunJa will be devastated of this monster she enabled. NY will also possibly sacrifice her soon to protect her own narcissistic entitlement. I fear NY is capable of attempting murder to prevent any of her secrets from being exposed or to protect her status. HS will experience difficulties in divorcing her even if she agrees, she will strategically attempt to trap him until she strangles the illusion of emotions he has for her. She would rather plan HSâs demise than divorce to gain her end goal. His only options maybe jail time and mental health care to achieve his freedom.
As for JT, he is capable of loving but once betrayed, he will become your worst nightmare. In my opinion, I believe he loved MR and her lifestyle she afforded him plenty of opportunities and privileges in power. Either FILlâs prejudices or MRâs need for her fatherâs love and approval destroyed their relationship. A thought popped up that FIL caused this rift by his disapproval. His way of addressing him showed a lack of respect and deep hatred way before HW disappearance. Due to his past atrocities, he seriously thought by eliminating HW everything wouldâve returned to its proper place. MRâs depression was an unexpected consequence but he isolates it to satisfy his own emotional needs and desires. MRâs incoming destruction along with HWâs hostility of coldness will probably shame and shatter his prideful heart. We may yet to see him eating his humble pie.
She reminds me of a friend I know who totally hates her emotionally and physically abusive husband and talked bad about him constantly. However. when she asked for help to get away from said husband and delivered to the police station to file charges, she caved. Not only did she caved but she tagged team with her husband against me. She was financially independent but it did not matter. Her love for him and low self esteem was stronger than the terror she was living in daily. I had to distance myself from her to ensure their toxicity didnât threatened my sanity and safety.
In some cases, it is not about being financially independent but rather being chained to an emotional prison or lacking self worth. Some women hold on to a bad partner as a validation that theyâre lovable and valued. The abuser always manipulate them to believe that they are unhinged and unworthy or that the abused person is the destructive one in the relationship. I understand your views on this and respect them. I just see my friendâs behavior in
MR. We will find out soon and I am sure that weâll be surprised.
On another note, I think JT may be sick by all the coughing he has be doing lately. HW May be the one to save him and that is how he find out that HW is his son.
By far NYâs character is a psycho with narcissistic tendencies, who only thinks how it
will affect her. She does have awareness of her bad behavior and fears shame of the consequences if exposed. However, she will sacrifice anyone regardless who, to achieve her desired goal. She has a self inflated ego and worth who doesnât love or trust anyone for fear of betrayal. Her actions influenced us to believe she loves HS and the child but her mental challenges will naturally decimate individuals who outshines or threaten her status. Her whole persona lacks empathy and I believe YunJa will be devastated of this monster she enabled. NY will also possibly sacrifice her soon to protect her own narcissistic entitlement. I fear NY is capable of attempting murder to prevent any of her secrets from being exposed or to protect her status. HS will experience difficulties in divorcing her even if she agrees, she will strategically attempt to trap him until she strangles the illusion of emotions he has for her. She would rather plan HSâs demise than divorce to gain her end goal. His only options maybe jail time and mental health care to achieve his freedom.
As for JT, he is capable of loving but once betrayed, he will become your worst nightmare. In my opinion, I believe he loved MR and her lifestyle she afforded him plenty of opportunities and privileges in power. Either FILlâs prejudices or MRâs need for her fatherâs love and approval destroyed their relationship. A thought popped up that FIL caused this rift by his disapproval. His way of addressing him showed a lack of respect and deep hatred way before HW disappearance. Due to his past atrocities, he seriously thought by eliminating HW everything wouldâve returned to its proper place. MRâs depression was an unexpected consequence but he isolates it to satisfy his own emotional needs and desires. MRâs incoming destruction along with HWâs hostility of coldness will probably shame and shatter his prideful heart. We may yet to see him eating his humble pie.