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It was the same for me. Now? There is no crescendo or revel. It is such a letdown of an ending with no substance or purpose.

Someone said in a form website that postpartum depression is serious and a very real issue but blame HS for still wanting a divorce. The commenter stated that HS should have supported NY and try to work it out for the baby. However, the viewer failed to realize that NY didn’t get nasty because of the postpartum and that victim mentality had nothing to do with it nor does it excuses her actions. HS was tortured emotionally and betrayed by NY plus she trapped him with deception. He repeatedly tried to make it work but she refused and made up every lie she could think of to get her way.

Since postpartum depression has nothing to do with all her destructive behavior, why does this writer expect the viewers to fall for the weak excuse of why NY just fizzled and became nice? Even if the writer revealed everything she had done in an earlier episode but she still hadn’t repented until the fear of losing her child made her really seek help, then I could accept this ending.

So, needless to say, there is no use of forcing myself to finish it. Having everyone communicate their thoughts on it is enough for me. I enjoyed chatting with all of you which made it fun and enjoyable while it lasted. If there any dramas out there that is worth watching, I am sure I will find it. If the series have you on the edge of your seat or you can’t wait for the next episode—then you know you have a live one! Wait! As long as it is not this writer! Happy hunting and may the odds be forever in your favor.

This drama should have never been produced without some heavy rewriting. It seems like it is two different writers on this drama. Someone wrote the first 120 episodes and 8 are by a different writer. The styles just doest’t match. NY has been doing awful things beforehand but now she is supposed to be cured from her jealousy because she is depressed? Wow! Now that is a big jump from victim mentality! A big waste of money, effort and time.

You’re right. He has a beautiful and powerful voice.
This is the only good thing that came from this drama. A big disappointment!

Okay. This is going down the drain as the worst show I ever watched. There is no rhyme or reason in this writing. I know everyone wants this forgiveness and hugging of family returning to one another’s bosoms but really? This was one show either you come early on with a character change or you continue with repercussions for their evil behavior. But this was so odd and a waste of time.

The only two good things that came of this is that at least we know SY gain a decent supportive man who really loved her. The next is there are very good actors and actress who held onto the end even when they saw that the series became a flop. Kudos to you all for holding on and I will not blame you for this mockery of a show. You came out fighting strong with some great twisted plot ideas but your writer failed in giving you justice and realism in the ending of this series. This series was like a tornado. It destroyed our minds and hearts with constant beating and twisting our souls with ugly horrible torture that left a path of destruction for 120 some episodes of evil. It gave us a beat down of emotional turmoil of never ending hate and misery watching the SFL tear us into bits and pieces to the end. Then in the last couple of episodes you turn on us and say pretend the destruction never took place and it was just imaginary or forgivable destructions. There are no teaching tools in this series to help it along but a map to disastrous behavior with no consequences.. What a mess of wasted time and effort for a show that started out so promising!

Wow! This writer is doing a great job trying to make us feel sorry for NY. NOT! I can’t and I won’t feel sorry for character who only spewed hate, stalking, abuse, tampering, lying snd manipulation through out 120 something episodes. This writer has no sense to the human mind and heart to know you can’t redeem a person in a couple of episodes or gain the audience empathy after same has never showed any hint of the love or sympathy.

I know the writer is going for a wholesome forgiveness loving family theme. It is not working! She made NY too horrible of a person to go for this ending. It makes the show imbalanced and inconsistent leaving a lot of loose ends dangling without a full reveal of who is the real NY. There seems to be more to this story to finish it correctly but with wasted screen time on trivial matters, it can’t be completely told in the manner it was written. It has turn into a rushed ending that has become a wasted mess and screen time. The writer does have some talent in imagination but unorganized in plots by spending too much time on the evil villains and not enough on true fact finding research to gain realism towards the story. Also, the writer wasted to much on giving the viewers every single detail of he said this but I said that to her that the full story can’t be told completely. Why do I think there’s more? The whole list of characters shown have not shown up yet. We only have three episodes left and nothing has been revealed yet regarding NY other than the DNA tampering or why she has done so many evil deeds.

On an another note JS and YJ told NY she can no longer play the victim mentality with SJ? Okay, this has to be a mistake because who spoke to them about her victim mentality? Is there a scene or episode I missed? Are they no longer talking about doing the other five special episodes?

I agree with you on SJ. SJ has so many wounds of abuse from YJ and NY that she reverses from the semi strong SJ to weak accepting SJ. Semi strong because she has never been fully confident and decisive when handling NY manipulation or evil deeds. For once, I want to see SJ say to her “Hey NY, don’t put your choices or BS on me. If you do the crime, you do the time.”and walk away and eliminate NY her from all contact. SJ should always talk with NY when others are around her to run interference. NY ensure that SJ is isolated from hearing ears or seeing eyes. She is semi strong because she still lets NY treat her as a slave being talked down to by her master to demand or push her to hide NY’s evil ways.

If SJ was ever fully strong, she wouldn’t be keeping NY lies and evil deeds a secret from the rest of world who lives are endangered with NY presence. Even with HW, why not tell him what NY has been saying to her when he knows the damage that NY can cause? Why block the family from knowing the truth so that they can be aware of how her mind is not trustworthy? It is because SJ is still the little girl waiting for acceptance and love from NY and SJ so she continues to protect her waiting for reward that will never come.

She will never fully be honest with herself or HW about NY because he would have completely made some different decisions and blocked NY permanently. He would have definitely never moved into the mansion unless NY moved out. He would have immediately told the family why and NY’s past including what she was capable of doing to anyone. He would have cut off all communication between them unless other members of the family were involved. HW wouldn’t play NY’s game of always getting SJ alone to abuse her again and again.

So SJ has never really been strong or broken free from NY manipulation and abuse. SJ repeatedly say the same thing of “No.”, she will not help or “NaYoung”, when she scolding her but she continuously caves to NY’s manipulation of guilt. Both of them told her in anger previously that she needed to fix things due to her sense of justice and get NY forgiveness but she said no. She told them to face the consequences of their actions. Look at how she reacted and is falling for their gentle voice and smile with a few sweet words of approval. She is already feeling sorry for her and will eventually use her degree in psychology against MR and HS. She knows HW will go along with her and give way because he is unaware of what NY is doing to her.

NY’s behavior towards the baby and SJ could be all a ruse because we never know what NY and her mother is plotting to gain control over SJ mind in changing MR’s decision or HS to stop the divorce. If she is genuinely being nice to SJ, I say it is just temporary feelings due emotional trauma of giving birth. So many say that there is not many episodes left for NY to cause more havoc in the Hans family, I say time jumping could be used for the writer’s advantage. NY could do her worst ever with the writer leaving us hanging. However, the five special episodes could be a final ending of each couples life and then show what resulted of NY’s life.

We will see what the future will hold soon and I can’t wait!😛

I feel the baby’s birth has put her meanness on pause for now. I believe she is finally figuring out something is wrong with her but is very confused at the moment.

I said meanness not scheming. It is full speed ahead! She is pretending about signing the divorce agreement again as she done when HS was manipulated when she told him that the baby was only hers. She told him to walk away and she would raise the baby alone. She is only using SJ to speak for her to MR.

Isn’t it funny how she can make SJ do exactly as demanded the first day MR became aware of NY DNA tampering? She told SJ it was her fault that the family is ruin because of her so needed to fix it so she can return home. So angrily demanding her to fix it didn’t work now she will do it with kindness of sisterly love to get her to do it. We will see soon.

I look up narcissistic behavior for new moms. It seems to fit NY’s behavior of fear of the baby and fear that the child take all the attention above her. They do not love and if they do, the child has to meet their high expectations to gain the mother’s respect and love because they feel superior. What do you think?

So she is faking postpartum depression?

Amen! 200% Agreed!

Wow! You don’t hold back when you are annoyed. Hahaha!

I thought we all were expressing ourselves in anger, happiness or excitement throughout this series. The whole point of a writer is to pull out our emotions to embrace the journey he is trying to express through his words. I analyze a character and I see what I see—nothing else. I see how it will play out in my mind just you as have a different perspective and I respect that. I have never criticized you or anyone else for having different views or theories about this series because that would be disrespectful. We all have a right to disagree or express our opinions without bullying or getting offended that another’s views is different because that would be foolish.

Yes. You may have heard anger expressed from me but I don’t think no more or less than any other viewer who is watching this series. Many times, my words were to encourage laughter and fun to enjoy each other’s reactions and comments.

You have to admit that this has been a wild ride of show. It has taken us over 120 episodes and we as still dealing with the same villain with no new material or adventures but around and around in circles. It is not only me who is dissatisfied of the time and energy we’ve spent on a show that holds us hostage waiting for the ending. I am sorry to say,’my curiosity will nag me to hold on to a show even when it is bad. I like to finish what I started. Don’t get me wrong this series started as a strong show but fizzle out when the same cycle or people was repeated like a broken record . If I had known the show had this much of a negative influence, I know I would have crossed it off my list. However, through comments about others opinions and ideas made it more enjoyable and entertaining to watch and has kept me to the end exploring and enjoying it with strangers all over the world. This is my first experience and it has been fun.

In the future, I will be mindful and try not encroach on you with my opinions any dislike of NY. This show will dissolve and will have no importance to any of us by next Friday. I enjoyed discussing this series with you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. Only good thoughts and many blessings in your life.🙂

How much softer has SJ become with NY since the revaluation of the sample swap and her guilty conscience?

NY is not good. She may try but her evil ways will always win. She is still scheming and have not let go yet. She needs SJ desperately to save her marriage and get back in the mansion. She will start hiding her thoughts to SJ to make her dance to her tune to gain access to HS and the mansion. If she has amnesia, it will be fake.

No. NY will always ruin her chances at redemption due to her overwhelming selfish greed to conquer all of the Han’s empire as the madam of the organization. However, NY wants it all and she will try the loving sister act to gain what she wants.

Remember, NY knows SJ will give into her whims and wants almost every time. Who’s to say that her plan now is to build a false facade of loving sisters to get SJ to let her child inherit because he or she is the oldest? NY knows SJ is the biggest sucker ever known to mankind when it comes to NY with a little whining and crying SJ always cave.

Those who may say no she doesn’t . I ask you to name one time SJ really won against NY without sacrificing something in the end in favor of NY’s interest? SJ has many ex-fans who believed in NY more because SJ didn’t release the tape so her reputation is still tainted. She is still have a big X across her face because she didn’t clean up NY’s lie to MR about cheating on HS. SJ have several bruises and dents from NY’s constantly lying about her but SJ just keep accepting the punches and help her get out of trouble each time.

Thank God in Heaven that we have one more week of this roller coaster of ride series. I don’t know about of you but I am sick of NY and the wimpy SJ. Throughout the progression of the series, the characters usually gain strength and growth through the hardships and endurance of their trials. They become wiser and stronger but none of the characters have changed from the beginning.

At times, I thought SJ would be the saving grace for this show but she seems to be going backwards by falling into NY traps. This time, I feel her trusting and needy soul for NY is going to send her in a deeper despair than when she lost her job. My theory is that SJ’s blinders will not only put her in danger but her baby or maybe even lose more than she can handle . She stubbornly thinks she has all the answers that even she ignored the danger HW is constantly warning her to be always disciplined and diligent when dealing with NY. However, even when the danger is staring her in the face she pushes full throttle ahead until it’s too late. Will this be enough for SJ to snap out of it or will she continue to seek someone that was never worthy of her love or time from the beginning ?

Fake amnesia? Leaving the hospital and going to the apartment instead? She knew SJ would follow and she needed to gain that sisterly bond to use it for the connection to the mansion and HS. Remember, HS does not want anything to do with her amnesia or not. She is definitely desperate for path through SJ. She even use the sweetest of SJ’s desire d to hear “Unnie”. NY is always thinking and manipulating to gain a leverage on the situation and she knew SJ would fall for it and HS will listen to her.

Let’s wait and see how NY will con again to make people do what she wants.

NY is too nasty of a species to hold herself from spitting venom out at SJ. Her brain will go in shutdown mode flipping on her crazy eyes because her hatred and jealousy for SJ will switch on uncontrollably. Since she can’t help herself from being nasty to SJ, HS will catch her in a lie regarding the fake amnesia.

Has anyone thought that NY wanted SJ to follow her back to the apartment and not the hospital because she wanted her to deliver the baby whether it lived or died, so she could blame SJ? Plus she could work on SJ to gain sympathy to get her help in getting back into the house?

NY is desperate and she would use any means to win what she wants!

She only calls her that when she is desperate and wants SJ’s help. Watch she will return to her normal self soon.

Nope. Now that baby is the real and she will get even nastier.

Same here. I think I have been traumatized myself watching this series. There is no relief from ever going torture this writer has given us through SJ. There is no release from the Snake NY who just keeps regenerating after one chop.

This is one show I will gladly say goodbye to and try not to think about it anymore!

NY gave birth? HS in tears just for remembering? Wow! The writer is all over the place with this drama, it doesn’t make sense. NY said she had two months before birth? Premature baby or something different?

NY knows exactly what she is doing and SJ falls for it every single time. She is like an abused woman who has been beaten by her husband, she just can’t help herself. It is the same pattern she falls in to protect her every time. NY expect for SJ to cave and help. her because she knows how to make the strong SJ to the weak one and get what she wants from her. It is a never ending cycle of her protecting NY from facing her responsibilities and she grows stronger each time in her own self worth and confidence to push the envelope further. NY will never stop her shenanigans when she has a sucker like SJ who caves to her whims when she is trapped or she in trouble. She always feels sorry for her and hide things for her making a cushion to catch her fall so she doesn’t have face her lies head on.