Beetslover

Without a doubt! 100%!

I am not offended.

Yes SJ is a caring person but in reality, no one who has been bullied and burned every single time you see them would continue to trust someone as heinous as NY or even let them within 50 feet. Yes. NY is responsible for her own actions and choices whether she kills someone or rob a bank.

I never said SJ was an awful person but niceness only takes you so far. Whether we agree or not SJ is hiding things from HW that shouldn’t be kept from him. He has a right to know that she is or is not in danger but she blocks his knowledge because she says she wants to protect him . Let me ask you this, if HW knows all the crazy cruel ugly things NY has said to her since his identity came to light, do you think he would have trusted NY and moved into the same house with her? Absolutely NOT!

In the beginning SJ continued to make excuses for NY’s behavior time and time again saying NY was not dangerous but HW saw something different altogether. She has become even more dangerous since then. NY’s words have become sinister when talking to her and she looks at SJ with murder in her eyes. SJ just continues to think of it as innocent sister rivalry. When people mean you harm, you can sense it.

My point is why hide every bad deed from your family? If you don’t think it is bad, you wouldn’t need to hide it right? MR has a right to know the lies that she is being told but SJ stays mum. She is lying to MR and HW by omission. What if by her omission, MR or HW gets majorly hurt because they trusted what NY said at face value but because SJ omitted her past lies to protect her they were never given the chance to protect themselves . Everyone in that house needs to know who they are sleeping next to at night.

In my opinion by keeping silent when you see the snake is about to strike, you are helping that snake to strike that individual. SJ gains strength to fight but she slips back into a pattern of the old SJ and continues her childhood job of bending to NY’s whims.

However, SJ is still protecting NY. SJ still takes on NY’s mistakes as her own and hide it for NY. SJ even lies to her husband about their conversations and continued bullying. How is going to protect SJ when she is not honest with him of what NY said to her.

I believe NY will weasel her way back into the house using SJ’s mouth. She again will ignore the warning signs of NY’s character because she will be tricked again believing NY’s false friendship.

I so want this drama over with so I can focus on new ones!

Yes. She has demons of her own, I am not disputing the trauma and the abuse she suffered or YJ lack of good parenting.

One of SJ’s biggest demons, is NY! She was a big huge part of SJ’s traumatized childhood. However, she is an adult now who is letting her abuser continues harm her because when in trouble she releases the little scared girl with tears act to beg her for forgiveness but hurt her in the next breath. SJ has seen the two faced NY her whole life and knows the ugliness she spews but she still lives as if YJ is forcing her to continue to help NY and trust her. My question is how am I going to get over my rape for an example, if I continue to put myself in the rapist hands to be raped again just because he told me he wouldn’t do it again?

This is the writer’s fault in a big way because realism has been lock outside when they produced this series. When people hurt you, I mean soul crushing never want get out the bed hurt, it sickens you to be near or see them. Your gut cliches and twist with painful heavy resentment that they are near the same air you breathing. It doesn’t go away no matter how in love or happy you are because you remember their selfish betrayal.

NY has done numerous hateful downright kick dirty knockdown deeds to SJ but she continues to make excuses or help her to hide what should be honestly shown to her family. I just feel with her constant coddling in letting everyone believe NY is good including herself, she causes more harm than good because NY is a predator on the hunt. She has graduated from smaller devious acts and has felt the rush of high from those victorious conquest but it will never be enough to satisfy her greed for riches and power. NY will get worst to achieve her goals. She has never been burned for her actions except the tape and the DNA samples but she is not sorry for it but angry because she was caught and SJ did not turn a blind eye. Since she will most likely weasel her way out of this trouble again by using SJ to get to HS, she will return to that house by pretending she made peace with SJ..

Watch and wait and see how NY will fool SJ again and again! NY personality is like a stalker who doesn’t see her way of obtaining her goals as being wrong but an opportunity to take what she wants before someone else gets it even if she has no legal rights to it. I see a jail cell with her name on it because her criminal activity will grow bigger and bigger. If you haven’t be held accountable for your past crimes only a pat on the head telling you to be good or it is wipe clean, you have no fear of testing it to the limits for bigger better loot.

We have to wait to see what SJ ‘s breaking point is but something tells me SJ will continue down the same trajectory and will have sacrificed more than she bargained for in gaining NY’s worthless love.

Yes. She was a child afraid of disappointing YJ and getting kicked out but she is still a part of the problem because NY learned that this a normal to cry and scream to get or take what she wanted. Although SJ was a scared child doing what YJ demanded her to do, it still was implemented by SJ.

However, this same behavior has went into adulthood and NY knows exactly how to push SJ buttons to get what she wants. After all SJ has suffered through NY’s hands, all she has to do is to play the scared little girl act and SJ will fall for it hook, lined and sinker. Maybe on her knees with tears flowing but it is the same exact pattern she uses every time! Everything always comes back to NY’s feelings and not others who had suffered because of her. Meaning just because she takes NY abuse and let her walk all over her repeatedly, other members will never take the crap NY she dishes out.

For instance, when HS got hurt, the first thing she thought about was NY and her feelings not how the family was going to emotionally react to NY being there and the anger it would ensue. SJ should have respected her husband’s family first and ask how they would feel if she informed NY about it and not for her to decide based on her guilty conscience .

Even HW has warned her repeatedly to be careful and not trust her but she always takes things at face value no matter how many lies NY has told. She always hide NY’s dirty evil deeds and not let her be held accountable for her actions. She doesn’t reveal NY’s true character to the public who has to deal with her or to MR. She constantly tries to protect her when NY is spitting venom at her. If this is not enabling, then what is it? When will she take the blinders off and see the awful cruelty NY has exhibited? If this was a patient, would she do the same as she did for NY or would the safety of the people come first? SJ at one point, told someone that once NY has the baby, she will change. How having a baby will change meanness and cruelty in manipulating people? Or pushing people down the stairs or becoming violent when angry? It didn’t help YJ so how is NY going to change?

Every time I think SJ has changed and becomes wiser, she right back falling for NY’s tricks even when she sees the false front she puts on for others. For example: NY poured tears and acted pitifully in front of MR and HW but as soon as she go in SJ’s office, she dropped the act and blames her for ruining the family. She even let NY guilt her in feeling sorry for her instead of feeling anger for pretend slander. If she really thought about it, it was YJ’s big mouth who screwed her over but NY knew that. If SJ really stop being a door mat and call her out in front of others, then I could say she is not enabling bad behavior. No, she hides every bad deed NY has done other than the tape but that was to get her job back. She takes all the nastiest from her and I bet she will expect MR to forgive her to help NY to return back into that house while still hiding all NY lies .

SJ is as much to blame for NY’s bad behavior because she enabled it when growing up. She was the person who took care of NY and DY while the adults worked. All she had to do was cry for the attention and demand what she wanted. Remember when SJ was upset and waiting for her mom when she was little? NY as a little girl wanted SJ’s attention, when she didn’t get it, she ran away from home. SJ got in trouble for NY’s bad actions and made to give NY the attention she wanted from the beginning. If NY wanted something, her mother always came through for her. SJ helped create NY along with the rest of the family.

YJ added more to the mix through her jealousy of SY’s daughter’s intelligence and talents. She would berate NY for not having SJ’s luck and she needed to be more like SJ. Not only that but NY learned to abuse and build hatred for SJ from YJ and the family followed her example. NY will never give SJ what she wants which is acceptance and a strong sister relationship.

SJ is still that young girl trying to gain and save a relationship that has been long ago dead. Her innocent belief that with encouragement, patience and support NY will grow up and change to her version of NY and they will be able to coexist in the Hans’ family. Little does she know of the true hatred that is bubbling over for her that may destroy an important part of her life. That important part will be her baby’s life or all her potential babies because when NY finds out of a rival heir, she will advance towards an unknown territory of attempted murder. Based on NY scary actions when she is desperate and mad, she is clearly capable of it when someone or SJ steps in her way.

We will see how this writer spin the next scheme for NY but so far, she had this character do some wild crazy things to beat her sister.

Since there aren’t many episodes left, I don’t think this amnesia will last long and may make things worse for her in the long run. So she may confuse him for a bit until he sees how others behaved around her and he will become suspicious. As SJ and his past relationship, we will have to wait and see how confused he will be.

I don’t know if it will be in that way but I know she will do something drastic but hidden like poisoning her secretly while pretending to bury the hatchet.

This will be the only way for SJ to learn that NY is a lost cause and dangerous. I think once NY takes something she deeply loves from her, she will never look at her the same again.

She will probably continue trying to meet him alone even when he has issues with her. Her nice loving personality makes it way back to manipulate him that they are in love and having a baby. He will resist because I think he is going to be confused thinking SJ and him are still together. It is like his mind remembers only good things like HW being his brother but other traumatic things he has shut it out. What do you think?

Well this news of SJ being pregnant with bring desperation from NY. She will be terrified that SJ is pregnant with the Hans’ heir. She will most certainly try to manipulate SJ to step aside claiming her child will be the oldest grandchild. NY is built that way to see the world as hers to control according to her wishes even when she has no rights to it.

No. You are not a bad person. I am a softie when I see men cry. I cry at funeral processions feeding off the sad grieving faces not knowing anyone.

Yes. JT should have never let his FIL make him give in to revenge. If he hated him that bad, he should’ve done what miss Sealy did on The Color Purple to his FIL as she did to hers. It released her pent up rage against her FIL. It is disgustingly sick method instead abandoning an innocent child and destroying his marriage. I believe JT is going to find out he hurt himself more than anyone. He has a tremendous amount more of suffering coming his way if MR and HW has anything to say about it.

Exciting reveals to come!

Oh, I think that there’s much more to come for JT. This is way too easy.

Today my heart broke for JT. Even though he did a horrible thing, he was retaliating for the inhumane treatment he received by his FIL. He is showing remorse for what he did and does not want forgiveness. JT is so cold and doesn’t show his emotions to much but today was heartbreaking watching him cry for HS. His fear for HS was so palpable and moving. If MR forgive him after divorce, I will ok with it since he is remorseful.

NY is another whole ballgame! She is resentful that she has been told on and continues to move forward with her plans by lying through her teeth all the way. No one has done anything to her other than what her delusional mind made up. From the beginning, she has always had this plan when she went after HS. She has plans set to steal and gain MR’s position in and out of the mansion. She told her mother that she doesn’t know what she had to do to get in that house. What was her reason wanting to get in that house so bad if not this? The Hans never met NY before she pushed herself into their lives. She went after HS just because he was connected to SJ. No forgiveness for her at all and her karma should be a dark isolated cell for at least 15 years!

HW should have pointed out SJ mental illness of people pleasing to SJ. She always wants everyone happy or taken care of by her. She is stuck in her past of trying to gain love by sacrificing her own happiness.

Why wouldn’t he remember he saved his father from the accident? Why would he ask if father knew he was in an accident? Weird right?

If that is the case that he doesn’t remember her, NY will blow a gasket! Hahaha! I can’t even imagine the look on her face if it is true!

Except something seems off with HS’s memory according to the preview. Does he remember NY or that he broke up with SJ?

Yes. I agree. There seems to be something wrong with his memory. I wondering if he will remember NY or that SJ and him broke up?

The same with me regarding SJ wanting acceptance from NY. She has not figured out just how dangerous NY is to her and I am sick of it. No way will anybody either a sister, family or friend would in reality put up with this type of emotionally detached person. There comes a point when you realize you are dealing with a lost soul and you need to cut off contact before you get physically hurt. When you are dealing with someone who has such animosity towards you when you have invested so much energy on them, you have to know that they mean harm to you. I am so tired of the one comeback that SJ gives NY by calling her name when she scolding her. Why not call out every nasty single deed she has done and explicitly give her breakdowns of why she is losing her husband and custody of her child is because she is a crazy selfish SOB! When will she realize she is dealing with an emotionally detached brick who only sees her as an enemy.

NY does not love anyone but her ambition to rise higher than SJ. She uses and discards people to gain power and money. Remember, the family doesn’t know all the facts of why she switched the DNA samples and her desire to overthrow them for money and power. Those are crocodile tears she is shedding for HS to gain access to the Hans inner loop and a connection to continue her ambition. If you noticed, those tears dried up quickly when it is SJ around. NY is always acting to con people to get what she wants because she was taught to cry was to gain attention and anything she wanted .

The writer really made the most idiotic mistake with SI’s character in not seeing the danger or warning signs of what type of person NY and what she is capable of doing to her. For NY to have done so many awful deeds to SJ, it has shown that she has no love for SI. Any normal sane person would dropped kick NY to the curb by now! I have a feeling that this writer will have NY cause physical irreversible trauma to SJ before she finally wakes up to the monster that is hidden behind NY’s facade and the massive hatred surrounding her heart for SJ.

Wouldn’t it be funny if his karma be in the form of DY is her ex-husband’s child and she knew it from the beginning?

It is still early in the game. Those two will do anything and everything for money alongside status. They will always go for most outrageous solutions. Especially when they feel slighted in any way possible. Let’s see what they will do in the next episodes because MR and HW may block her from getting near HS.