No I don’t think anyone is enjoying that part of the story but it is pretty realistic. I think all parties should…
Sorry but these are not excuses, it’s how I see his point of views. No willingness to adapt, I don’t think so. He quit his dream job that he worked so hard for and moved back to China to pursue a relationship or family life with the girl he thought had the same feelings for him. Yes its not reciprocated because ZZ does not feel the same way. Like I said, this is his point of view, what he wants in a partner NOT what ZZ wants. I have already agreed that what he has done is wrong. Not saying at all that his actions are right, what I’m trying to say again is I can understand why he did it as I’ve mentioned before. I also see ZZ point of view. It is too soon for her, I agree, but she needs to say that straight up to him. She doesn’t feel the same as him and he should stop trying to decide her life for her. So far all I can see from SPC is how he has been scheming and sabotaging this couple to break up since day one. Like it or not but he is also a contributing factor for JR doing what he did. This is not an excuse but a factor. Never as a friend has he supported her decision to be with JR or respected that and kept his distance. Please don’t use work as them having to be close, that’s just an excuse as well. Now is that also a healthy friendship. NO it isn’t but no one says anything. In reality we might not want a boyfriend like JR but I definitely not want a friend like SPC if I knew he was manipulative like that. Everyone’s relationship is different and it portrays it in this drama. Healthy or not, it’s up to the individual as a couple to work it out. No ones relationship is perfect because as a human we all have our own thoughts and dreams and view things differently. Sometimes we meet that person with the same path we seek and walk it together. But when we don’t it doesn’t mean you can’t walk it together but it’s how you get through it together as a couple. And if you think you can’t walk it together because it’s not the person you want to walk it with then don’t walk through it together. Simple. All I can say is I don’t see them on the same path together as well and there is definitely no future for this couple. Plus he’s second lead so he won’t get the girl if that that makes you happy. NOT giving excuses here but just stating the facts. This will be my last post because everyone is team SPC and I don’t really wanna upset anyone. I just state things as I view it, how I see characters. Its a shame really because I actually like all the actors and it saddens me to see any of them suffer. This drama is just to much and most the time just miserable. I haven’t watch it today but as of now I’ve decided to stop watching it. Hopefully everyone with get their happy ending.
Do people actually enjoy watching a miserable couple with a shitty boyfriend that doesn't respect any of his partner's…
No I don’t think anyone is enjoying that part of the story but it is pretty realistic. I think all parties should take responsibility not just the boyfriend. It’s a bit bias to say he’s a shitty boyfriend just because of what he did. You would have to try and see it in his point of view but I guess you don’t. He just wants to be able to provide, protect and have his loved ones by his side. He grew up without a father and had a hard working strict single mother raised him up by herself. He himself work hard to get to where he is and so he doesn’t want that life for his wife. He wants to give her a good life and not work hard or work at all since he is able to provide that lifestyle for her. Nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is him deciding this for her but in his defence it’s not entirely his fault. I also think he felt quite threaten as well between ZZ and SPC being so close at work everyday and in love with his girlfriend. If he didn’t have that scheming SPC trying to sabotage his relationship with ZZ all the time I’m sure he could have given her all the time she wants to think things through and decide what’s right for her. However, ZZ seems to put work life more important than family life. I don’t know about everyone but in reality I would love to have a man that can provide and protect me and our family. Not to the extent of what JR did but I would understand why he did it but unlike ZZ I think I can come to a compromise when it comes to balancing work and family. Also I have never met anyone that have ever said “I wanna work hard and have no life, or I wanna marry a poor man that can’t provide for me” Like I said many times, the writers are to be blamed for this awful story line and character personal. Viewers are just so quick to criticise JR but never see it from his point of view.
Yes you are right in a way but SPC always does what ever he wants to all the time and everyone thinks it’s ok.…
I get what you’re saying and I too am glad that she didn’t accept JR marriage proposal because it’s way too soon plus they haven’t even kiss yet or really had a adequate relationship. I’m also glad that she values her work/career and not wanna give it up to be a house wife too. It’s just I don’t like the way she’s portraying everything. Maybe I’m just getting tired of her looking sad and innocent all the time. The writers sucks. But I still stick by what I said about SPC and her being at fault for a lot of the problems. No matter how I look at it, bottom line is, SPC is still trying to manipulative and steal another mans girlfriend and ZZ is stupid to allow it to happen. Nothing against Deng Lun fans because I like him too, I just don’t like his character. Also all the other characters have their own flaws too, no ones perfect and it should be that way. Like I said I’m just stating the facts about SPC character because I’m sick of everyone criticising JR. JR has a lot of flaws too and resigning for her is wrong. But I can sympathise with what he does more because after all she is still his girlfriend and he is afraid of losing her to the guy she works with all day knowing he likes her too. I feel like everything is so rush rush and playing with everyones/characters emotions including us viewers. There’s just to many angst and side stories and not much of a plot. It’s an emotional roller coaster ride with this drama and not much feel good viewing, no matter how it ends I don’t think it will leave us feeling satisfied.
omg ... I really can't stand the aunty bai attitude, she really sometimes looks like a dictator, sensitive and…
Yes you are right in a way but SPC always does what ever he wants to all the time and everyone thinks it’s ok. I think the one to blame the most is ZZ. She allows everyone to do whatever they want around her and goes around looking sad and playing victim. If she don’t want to be with JR because she doesn’t love him or his controlling mum then leave. Stop stringing JR along and giving his mother false hope. She needs to draw a firm line when it comes to SPC because he is also the cause of her problems. I’m sick of her playing innocent, sad and dumb. SPC is just a silent controlling so call friend that is trying to steal another mans girlfriend. You might not like what I have to say about him but sorry it’s the truth.
By only reading the comments here, it almost looks like JR is the bad, domineering guy who wants to change ZZ…
OMG! Finally someone else that sees and think the same way as I do. Totally on point. I just said all that in my post before. So glad someone agrees with me.
True. there's also a huge difference for me, between someone who's been living in luxury thanks to his father…
Like I said, even though JR is a mommy’s boy it’s because he has way more respect towards his mother and other people than SPC will ever have. And in many times he’s the one that’s in the middle hurting because of his love for his mother and ZZ. He worked hard to get to where he is now and gave it all up for the woman he loved. Also having to see her working with a guy he knows is in love with her as well and is trying secretively to break them up is a place no one wants to be in. As a partner that would be so hard on anyone’s feelings. But he just have to deal with it painfully by himself because he respects and knows that his girlfriend loves her job and he is willing to wait for her.
On the other hand, SPC grew up in a privileged life and has no respect for his father who pays for his luxuries. He thinks he’s so entitled to everything and just barges into his father office when ever he wants in front of everyone and throw tantrums all the time. No respect for anyone like a spoilt rich brat. I understand he is starting to change and will try help his fathers company but come on, he can do it without ZZ. Why can’t he just let them work out their own life without him interfering in it all the time. He knows JR knows how he feels about ZZ but as a man have some respect for the bro code. He wouldn’t like it if it was him in that situation. That’s why I just don’t like SPC character. I just don’t get it because everyone is so quick to judge JR but turn a blind eye towards SPC.
Since everyone is team SPC, I thought I’ll put my 2cents into. Lol Though I agree that JR is a mommy’s boy and his mum is a bit controlling I just can’t see what everyone sees in SPC. I don’t think he deserves or truely loves ZZ. He is just as manipulative and controlling but just in a more subtle way. How many times does he just shows up when she didn’t want him too or does something he shouldn’t. If he did truely love ZZ, he should’ve been more respectable and supportive of her decision to be with JR in the first place and given them time to grow their relationship. If it didn’t work out between them, then he can be there for her and help her pick up the pieces. I feel that he also contributed to their demise. He knew that she had always had a big crush on him and wanted to be with him but SPC never supported her decision but instead he always discredit JR. He didn’t even respect JR asking him not to be to close to his girlfriend. Really he has no respect for anyone but himself, even when ZZ brother zoned him. He seems to be everywhere conspiring and sabotaging their relationship at just about every chance he gets. For example, when JR came to get ZZ for the house warming dinner SPC made her felt obliged and almost guilty if she didn’t go if him to resolve clients problems, even taking her bag with him. JR was right, really some else could have went with SPC or SPC could’ve offered to do it by himself knowing this was an important dinner for them as a future family. ZZ is to be blamed as well for allowing it to happen all the time. It wasn’t nice or fair that SPC interfered and jumped in when it came to ZZ parents. He should have allowed JR to get to know and impress ZZ parents but then again he was there left right and centre sabotaging it and making JR look bad. How was JR to know what ZZ likes when he never gets a chance to take ZZ out anywhere and get to know her likes or dislikes when SPC is always in the way. Being a true friend is not like that and truely loving some one is not like that. I’ve never seen him truely happy for her when she’s with JR since the start. If he really loved her, no matter how much it hurt him to see ZZ with JR he should of been happy for her and supported her being with him. Love is letting go because if it is yours, it will come back to you.
Because SPC is the main lead and is played by Deng Lun everyone is in awe of him. But I can’t see it in him (SPC) I know they will make his character better than JR and get the girl, but come on, they totally made both JR and his mother become villains because of this. It was good earlier in the drama but everything is just a dragging bore now. The character change was basically a landslide from realistic to unrealistic. It’s like the writers are trying to fit so much everyday side stories into this drama intertwined with a messy love triangle. I feel as though I’m watching mini episodes of everyday life all mashed into one drama instead of a single story drama. There’s just to many things going on that it’s dragging the drama and killing the characters. Also, there is literally zero kissing so far or romance apart from the brief get together of ZZ and JR. No matter how it ends, it’s lost it’s charm with me now. I was hoping this was gonna be a feel good drama since all three leads are all good looking and the drama looks quite promising. But so far since episode 20 it’s been going down hill, just another predictable ending with no enjoyment in the middle. Sorry but not sorry, don’t think I can watch no more. Rant over!
Not saying at all that his actions are right, what I’m trying to say again is I can understand why he did it as I’ve mentioned before. I also see ZZ point of view. It is too soon for her, I agree, but she needs to say that straight up to him. She doesn’t feel the same as him and he should stop trying to decide her life for her.
So far all I can see from SPC is how he has been scheming and sabotaging this couple to break up since day one. Like it or not but he is also a contributing factor for JR doing what he did. This is not an excuse but a factor. Never as a friend has he supported her decision to be with JR or respected that and kept his distance. Please don’t use work as them having to be close, that’s just an excuse as well.
Now is that also a healthy friendship. NO it isn’t but no one says anything. In reality we might not want a boyfriend like JR but I definitely not want a friend like SPC if I knew he was manipulative like that.
Everyone’s relationship is different and it portrays it in this drama. Healthy or not, it’s up to the individual as a couple to work it out. No ones relationship is perfect because as a human we all have our own thoughts and dreams and view things differently. Sometimes we meet that person with the same path we seek and walk it together. But when we don’t it doesn’t mean you can’t walk it together but it’s how you get through it together as a couple. And if you think you can’t walk it together because it’s not the person you want to walk it with then don’t walk through it together. Simple. All I can say is I don’t see them on the same path together as well and there is definitely no future for this couple. Plus he’s second lead so he won’t get the girl if that that makes you happy.
NOT giving excuses here but just stating the facts.
This will be my last post because everyone is team SPC and I don’t really wanna upset anyone. I just state things as I view it, how I see characters. Its a shame really because I actually like all the actors and it saddens me to see any of them suffer. This drama is just to much and most the time just miserable. I haven’t watch it today but as of now I’ve decided to stop watching it. Hopefully everyone with get their happy ending.
It’s a bit bias to say he’s a shitty boyfriend just because of what he did. You would have to try and see it in his point of view but I guess you don’t. He just wants to be able to provide, protect and have his loved ones by his side. He grew up without a father and had a hard working strict single mother raised him up by herself. He himself work hard to get to where he is and so he doesn’t want that life for his wife. He wants to give her a good life and not work hard or work at all since he is able to provide that lifestyle for her. Nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is him deciding this for her but in his defence it’s not entirely his fault.
I also think he felt quite threaten as well between ZZ and SPC being so close at work everyday and in love with his girlfriend.
If he didn’t have that scheming SPC trying to sabotage his relationship with ZZ all the time I’m sure he could have given her all the time she wants to think things through and decide what’s right for her. However, ZZ seems to put work life more important than family life.
I don’t know about everyone but in reality I would love to have a man that can provide and protect me and our family. Not to the extent of what JR did but I would understand why he did it but unlike ZZ I think I can come to a compromise when it comes to balancing work and family.
Also I have never met anyone that have ever said “I wanna work hard and have no life, or I wanna marry a poor man that can’t provide for me”
Like I said many times, the writers are to be blamed for this awful story line and character personal. Viewers are just so quick to criticise JR but never see it from his point of view.
I think the one to blame the most is ZZ. She allows everyone to do whatever they want around her and goes around looking sad and playing victim. If she don’t want to be with JR because she doesn’t love him or his controlling mum then leave. Stop stringing JR along and giving his mother false hope. She needs to draw a firm line when it comes to SPC because he is also the cause of her problems. I’m sick of her playing innocent, sad and dumb.
SPC is just a silent controlling so call friend that is trying to steal another mans girlfriend. You might not like what I have to say about him but sorry it’s the truth.
On the other hand, SPC grew up in a privileged life and has no respect for his father who pays for his luxuries. He thinks he’s so entitled to everything and just barges into his father office when ever he wants in front of everyone and throw tantrums all the time. No respect for anyone like a spoilt rich brat. I understand he is starting to change and will try help his fathers company but come on, he can do it without ZZ. Why can’t he just let them work out their own life without him interfering in it all the time. He knows JR knows how he feels about ZZ but as a man have some respect for the bro code. He wouldn’t like it if it was him in that situation. That’s why I just don’t like SPC character. I just don’t get it because everyone is so quick to judge JR but turn a blind eye towards SPC.
Though I agree that JR is a mommy’s boy and his mum is a bit controlling I just can’t see what everyone sees in SPC. I don’t think he deserves or truely loves ZZ. He is just as manipulative and controlling but just in a more subtle way. How many times does he just shows up when she didn’t want him too or does something he shouldn’t. If he did truely love ZZ, he should’ve been more respectable and supportive of her decision to be with JR in the first place and given them time to grow their relationship. If it didn’t work out between them, then he can be there for her and help her pick up the pieces.
I feel that he also contributed to their demise. He knew that she had always had a big crush on him and wanted to be with him but SPC never supported her decision but instead he always discredit JR. He didn’t even respect JR asking him not to be to close to his girlfriend. Really he has no respect for anyone but himself, even when ZZ brother zoned him. He seems to be everywhere conspiring and sabotaging their relationship at just about every chance he gets. For example, when JR came to get ZZ for the house warming dinner SPC made her felt obliged and almost guilty if she didn’t go if him to resolve clients problems, even taking her bag with him. JR was right, really some else could have went with SPC or SPC could’ve offered to do it by himself knowing this was an important dinner for them as a future family. ZZ is to be blamed as well for allowing it to happen all the time.
It wasn’t nice or fair that SPC interfered and jumped in when it came to ZZ parents. He should have allowed JR to get to know and impress ZZ parents but then again he was there left right and centre sabotaging it and making JR look bad. How was JR to know what ZZ likes when he never gets a chance to take ZZ out anywhere and get to know her likes or dislikes when SPC is always in the way. Being a true friend is not like that and truely loving some one is not like that. I’ve never seen him truely happy for her when she’s with JR since the start. If he really loved her, no matter how much it hurt him to see ZZ with JR he should of been happy for her and supported her being with him. Love is letting go because if it is yours, it will come back to you.
Because SPC is the main lead and is played by Deng Lun everyone is in awe of him. But I can’t see it in him (SPC) I know they will make his character better than JR and get the girl, but come on, they totally made both JR and his mother become villains because of this. It was good earlier in the drama but everything is just a dragging bore now. The character change was basically a landslide from realistic to unrealistic. It’s like the writers are trying to fit so much everyday side stories into this drama intertwined with a messy love triangle.
I feel as though I’m watching mini episodes of everyday life all mashed into one drama instead of a single story drama. There’s just to many things going on that it’s dragging the drama and killing the characters. Also, there is literally zero kissing so far or romance apart from the brief get together of ZZ and JR. No matter how it ends, it’s lost it’s charm with me now. I was hoping this was gonna be a feel good drama since all three leads are all good looking and the drama looks quite promising. But so far since episode 20 it’s been going down hill, just another predictable ending with no enjoyment in the middle. Sorry but not sorry, don’t think I can watch no more. Rant over!