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Like, even the prince who’s literally written as a fool can tell someone’s pulling the strings behind all this mess

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Omg, I seriously can’t with him anymore—he’s getting downright unsettling to watch. Every scene he’s in has me side-eyeing my screen like, “Sir, are you okay?”

At this point, I’m starting to believe Chu Gui Hong is the emperor, because the way he walks around with zero respect for anyone—including the actual emperor—is insane. He’s got more say and freedom than the princes themselves, like who gave this man a free pass to do whatever he wants?

I honestly can’t stand him anymore. Every time he shows up on screen, I just want to reach in, snatch him out, knock some sense into him, and toss him back in like, “Try again. But this time with brain cells.”

That’s why it was so satisfying when Duan Shan Hu said, “Those 20,000 dead Quanyu soldiers had the worst luck having a treacherous person like you as their general.” I was screaming “Exactly!” at my screen, because I’ve been saying the same thing since day one. He’s not just treacherous—he’s dumb and dangerous, and that combo is exhausting to watch.

Give me delusional, give me petty, but this level of audacity with zero competence? Absolutely not.

I completely relate to your analysis I’ve been sitting with many of the same thoughts. Song Yi Meng’s emotional delivery does often feel performative, and while I can understand that as part of her survival mode, it’s tough to stay emotionally connected when you don’t know what’s real. The inconsistency between her words and actions (especially around Nan Heng) creates this emotional distance that makes it hard to root for her, even if we want to.

Nan Heng, for all his flaws, feels emotionally transparent. He’s done terrible things, yes, but we see him struggle with them. SYM, on the other hand, rarely allows us into her inner world, and when she does, it often feels too little, too late — or buried under another defensive maneuver.

I agree that both leads are flawed and reactive their relationship is toxic on both sides but what makes SYM’s arc particularly frustrating is the lack of visible growth. Like you said, she’s still clinging to this idea that the script is fixed, even when things around her are clearly shifting.

And that’s where I wanted to add I actually do think the script has changed. The problem is, she hasn’t seen it yet. She’s still operating based on fear and the old version of events, so from her perspective, she has to keep her guard up. But Nan Heng has changed you can see it in the way he responds to her now, in his restraint, in his pain. The tragedy is that she might not realize it until it’s too late.

I think the biggest question is whether the writer is going to force them into yet another destructive arc like before or if SYM will finally break the cycle by choosing to see what’s right in front of her instead of what she’s afraid to relive.

I’m with you I’ve come too far to quit, and despite the messy pacing and missed opportunities, I’m still hoping for that one moment that snaps her out of it. Something’s got to give.

You're not the only one he’s always given off weird vibes to me. I don’t know if it’s because he’s genuinely clueless, or if it’s the fact that the emperor still wants to pass the throne to him despite that. Either way, it’s frustrating especially since he also gives off the vibe that he knows more than he lets on

Honestly, I’ve been feeling the same way it’s getting more and more disappointing with each new episode, especially when it comes to Song Yimeng’s character. She’s supposed to be the only variable in this world, the one person who can actually think beyond the script. And yet, we’re more than two-thirds into the drama and there’s been barely any real growth or inner reflection from her.
I keep telling myself, “Maybe next episode things will turn around,” because I don’t like dropping shows. Even when I do, I almost always go back to finish them eventually. But at this point, it’s honestly my curiosity and the main leads — that are keeping me watching. I want to see how the writers will try to make up for all these missed opportunities.
What really frustrates me is how SYM’s “inner struggle” seems to only revolve around the idea that she can’t change the script but she doesn’t even try to explore other options. Beyond trying (and failing) to kill Nan Heng, there’s been very little strategic thinking or emotional evolution. She hasn’t paused to question things from a different perspective, or asked herself whether she might have misunderstood something. That lack of introspection is exhausting especially when Nan Heng has been allowed room to reflect, change, and reveal deeper layers of himself.
And the tragic part? This drama had all the ingredients to make that arc powerful. The marketing promised romance, depth, and emotional healing but we’re deep into the story and SYM has barely taken one step toward change. Even the IRL backstory with her parents dying in the fire came way too late in episode 27. It felt like a last-minute sympathy insert that should have been woven in earlier, especially during the Lantern Festival arc as mentioned. And then when Nan Heng doesn’t even ask questions about her dad still being alive in this world… it just breaks the immersion.
As for Chu Guihong… It’s like his character arc is moving in reverse. I don’t know if “stupid” is the right word either, but his logic is definitely getting weaker and more frustrating. The way he blindly spirals deeper into ‘villainy’ even when there’s clear doubt and gaps in the so-called evidence — just feels forced. And don’t get me started on the mandarin orange cloth scene 😩… Like, really? That’s the best the writers could come up with to move the plot forward?
It also makes me a little sad that every time someone points out these flaws in the comment section, they’re often dismissed or shamed as being “haters” or “missing the point.” Constructive feedback is necessary if we want to grow in how we engage with storytelling and everyone is allowed to have a different interpretation. That doesn’t mean we’re not enjoying parts of the show; it just means we care enough to want it to reach its full potential
At the end of the day, like you said I do think this drama has value. It’s sparked a lot of passionate conversations, and it’s made people reflect, even if it hasn’t landed perfectly in its execution. But growth and emotional storytelling can’t just come from one character and right now, it feels like SYM is the one being left behind in her own story.
Let’s hope the final episodes give her the clarity, growth, and agency she deserves. But if they don’t… at least we’ll have had the conversations that matter. 💬✨

Thank you! I'm really glad you said that. Yi Meng's pain is just as real, even if it’s shown more quietly. A lot of it gets overshadowed by Nan Heng’s more obvious struggles, which definitely creates an imbalance in how we connect with them. It’s not about blaming anyone both of their stories deserve to be seen and felt. The way the story is told really shapes how we empathize, and when it’s uneven, it changes the whole emotional experience.

Despite all this deep discussion, I hope you're having a relaxing and lovely weekend! 💛

Exactly! The slow pace might drive us a little crazy at times, but it actually makes everything feel more grounded and human. Real relationships especially complicated ones don’t always move in straight lines. I think the writers are being intentional with the slow burn, even if it tests our patience 😅. Let’s hang in there and trust the process… grey hairs and all 😂

I’m not against either character I just think their relationship, as portrayed, is emotionally unhealthy and at times frustrating to watch. I’ve tried to approach both Song Yimeng and Nan Heng with empathy, acknowledging that their actions come from fear, trauma, and the roles they were written into. That said, the emotional logic in the storytelling sometimes feels inconsistent, which makes it hard to root for them as a couple. I respect what the show is trying to explore identity, trust, fate, and growth but the execution doesn’t always support that depth in a way that feels satisfying. My critiques are about the portrayal, not the concept.

Just to clarify, when I referred to the relationship as toxic, I wasn’t placing the blame solely on Song Yimeng. I actually meant it from both sides. Based on the widely accepted definitions of a toxic relationship where there’s emotional harm, miscommunication, lack of trust, and repeated cycles of hurt their dynamic checks a lot of those boxes. And I think it’s fair to call that out, while still recognizing that toxicity doesn’t always stem from malice. Sometimes it comes from fear, trauma, or two people trapped in survival mode.

I completely agree that SYM’s actions are rooted in deep emotional conflict. She’s navigating a world that’s both scripted and unpredictable, with everyone around her either warning her or betraying her. It makes sense that her instinct would be self-protection. I actually respect the way the show portrays her emotional turmoil and the slow progress of her growth especially in the moments when she chooses empathy despite fear.

That said, narrative framing plays a huge role in shaping how we experience these characters. As viewers, we’re seeing a broader picture so we notice the emotional inconsistencies and feel the weight of every painful interaction. While the show is trying to build toward healing, it can sometimes feel like one character’s growth is undercut or overshadowed by the other’s regression. That imbalance, I think, is what causes a lot of the frustration.

Still, I love that this story invites us to sit with discomfort to ask what love really looks like when it’s complicated by trauma, fear, and mistrust. It’s not a clean arc, and it’s not meant to be. But like you said, growth often starts in the mess, and watching two people try (and fail, and try again) is part of what makes the story worth analyzing.

Personally, I think that’s the beauty of stories like this: there’s no single right answer. Everyone will walk away with different interpretations based on what resonates most with them and that’s exactly why these conversations matter.

Yes, I completely agree you brought up such an important point. As viewers, we often forget that we have the luxury of seeing both sides, while SYM and NH are still operating with limited information. SYM only knows what the script told her that NH was a monster who destroyed everything she loved. And while we've seen his humanity and inner struggle, she hasn’t been fully exposed to that side of him yet or she doubts it because her world keeps reinforcing the original narrative.

It’s true that she’s made misjudgments, but given how the script keeps pulling her back into those familiar plotlines, her fear of trusting him feels realistic. From her perspective, falling for him could mean repeating the same tragedy. So her hesitation isn’t just emotional it’s rooted in survival.

That said, I also think part of the issue lies in how she continues to view everything strictly through the lens of the script, instead of trying to form her own perspective. Even when she started having doubts about Nan Heng’s supposed “evil,” she never truly allowed herself to step back and see him for who he really is beyond the version the script painted. That lack of curiosity or empathy toward his point of view has been frustrating to watch.

Ultimately, I think the drama wants us to explore how difficult it is to rewrite your understanding of someone especially when you're trapped in a world that keeps trying to prove your fears right. But I do hope, moving forward, we’ll see SYM not only trust her heart, but also question the lens she’s been using to judge Nan Heng. That’s where real growth and deeper connection could begin.

I really appreciate your response — you made some great points. You're absolutely right that Song Yimeng knows she’s inside a script, and that looming fear of becoming a “human corpse” or being trapped in a doomed fate explains a lot of her actions. The pressure she’s under, constantly being pushed into a role by the system, is a terrifying and layered concept. It makes sense that she acts from a place of self-preservation.

I also agree that the love story is toxic — and intentionally so. The drama is clearly exploring how fear, fate, and trauma affect a person’s ability to love and trust. SYM isn’t meant to be a perfect heroine, and I do appreciate that complexity.

That said, I think where the disconnect happens for a lot of viewers (myself included) is in the execution. When a character is deeply flawed, we still need to see emotional consistency or growth for that arc to feel meaningful. Right now, SYM often repeats the same patterns of distrust and aggression without much reflection or development, and that’s what creates the frustration. It's not about blaming her — it’s about wanting to see those internal conflicts lead somewhere.

And of course, Nan Heng isn’t innocent either. I just wish the writing gave both characters more space to process their pain with each other, rather than always putting one in defense mode and the other on the offensive. There's so much potential for emotional depth — it just feels underused.

So yes, the toxic dynamic is part of the design, but when it becomes emotionally exhausting to watch, it’s hard to stay invested in their relationship, even if the narrative is pushing us to root for them. I’m still hoping the ending brings satisfying growth for both characters.

There’s honestly so much more I could say — I could write a whole essay at this point 😅 — but what makes this story fascinating and frustrating is that there’s no single way to interpret either character. That’s part of what makes it worth discussing.

As I’ve said elsewhere, it’s not entirely Nan Heng’s fault that he started the way he did — he was written into that role. Just like SYM, he’s trying to escape a fate that was forced on him. So if we’re going to unpack her trauma and choices, we should do the same for him — and acknowledge the pain he’s carried alone for so long.

That’s why I don’t think this conversation should be about “picking sides.” It should be about understanding that both of these characters are deeply flawed, deeply trapped, and trying to rewrite their own stories. For me, SYM still has more room for growth. Her actions often come across as reactionary and emotionally closed off — which naturally divides the audience depending on how they interpret her.

And that’s okay! These kinds of stories should stir different reactions — that’s part of what makes them powerful. I just wish the writing gave us more emotional clarity so we could fully connect with both characters on their journeys.

I truly respect your passion and commitment to calling out bias this kind of critical lens is essential, especially when discussing media and gender dynamics. However, meaningful discourse also requires space for reflection, empathy, and genuine understanding not just accusation.

If we’re going to point out bias or a lack of awareness in others, we must also take responsibility to examine our own assumptions. Accusing someone without solid evidence or without trying to understand their perspective only deepens divisions. Reactions like these especially in spaces designed for open discussion can unfortunately lead to unnecessary conflict.

Challenging male-centered narratives is powerful and necessary, and I wholeheartedly agree that harmful tropes deserve to be addressed. But real growth emerges from dialogue, not from shaming. Progress happens when we build bridges between perspectives, not burn them down.

I also want to add that I don’t think the person who made the original comment is entirely wrong. She’s speaking from what she saw and how the story was portrayed. From her perspective, it didn’t feel male-centered it just felt like flawed characters struggling with trust and past wounds.

That’s why I think it’s so important we respect different viewpoints. Everyone interprets the story through their own lens, and that’s okay. The key is to engage with each other’s opinions thoughtfully and without assumptions, so we can have richer, more meaningful conversations about the characters and themes. At the end of the day, we all want better storytelling, richer representation, and a more equitable culture. That journey begins with the willingness to truly listen to one another even when we disagree.

Wow, that escalated quickly. Let’s take a breath this is a drama discussion, not a personal attack forum.

No one’s saying the female lead should blindly trust someone who tried to hurt her. The point people are making is that both characters are flawed and complicated. The criticism isn’t about her being a woman it’s about her choices as a character, just like people critique male leads all the time. That’s how discussion works.

We can acknowledge that Nan Heng did terrible things early on and that he’s grown and shown remorse. We can also acknowledge that the FL has made questionable choices, especially when she refuses to reflect on her own actions. It’s not about defending one or tearing the other down it’s about wanting better storytelling and character growth for both.

Also… no need to project real-life assumptions about people based on a drama opinion. Let’s keep the conversation focused and respectful. We're all just fans sharing different perspectives no need to sound the alarm 🚨 over that.

LOL I wish I could find your comment again, but I just wanted to say I completely agree with your view — I don’t ship them as a couple either. They’ve both hurt each other, but honestly, she’s done far more damage to him emotionally and physically. Their relationship feels more toxic than complex at this point. I get that the writers are trying to frame it as a "love-hate" or "tragic fate" kind of dynamic, but it just doesn’t land that way for me.

Some people in the comments keep saying we “don’t understand the script” or “don’t get the deeper meaning,” but honestly, everyone is allowed to interpret what they see. It’s not about missing the writer’s intention — it’s about responding to what’s actually being shown on screen.

After reading the director’s message, I do see what they were trying to explore — themes like breaking labels, overcoming prejudice, and reclaiming your fate. It’s a powerful message on paper. I can respect that and appreciate the ambition behind it.

But with that said… the execution still matters. No matter how deep the intended symbolism is, if the characters come across as selfish, irrational, or inconsistent, then viewers are going to react to that. For example, Song Yimeng constantly acts like the only victim while denying her own harmful actions — and that's what most of us are responding to. Yes, the script frames her inner struggle, but that doesn’t excuse the fact that she repeatedly hurts Nan Heng without fully taking accountability.

As for Nan Heng, I genuinely feel for him. The contrast between his “labeled” self and his real self is beautiful in theory, and Li Shiliu as a metaphor for hope and healing is compelling. But watching him suffer endlessly for someone who won’t even try to understand him? That’s hard to swallow.

So yes — I get the deeper message. But that doesn’t erase how frustrating the characters’ behavior is at times. I’m here for meaningful storytelling, but I also need the emotional logic and character development to actually support that vision. And right now, the relationship between FL and ML just feels unhealthy, no matter how poetic the framing may be.

I totally get where you're coming from — no one’s denying that Nan Heng was awful in the beginning. Yes, he tried to use her, and yes, if the script hadn’t interfered, he probably would’ve killed her. I don’t think anyone’s saying she should’ve fallen in love with him instantly or blindly trusted him just because he had a tragic backstory. That’s not realistic, and I agree — trust doesn’t work that way.

But I think what’s frustrating for a lot of viewers (including me) is that even after seeing his growth, his vulnerability, and the fact that he stopped trying to hurt her long ago, she still acts like he’s the root of all evil while completely overlooking her own actions. It’s not about excusing Nan Heng’s past, it’s about recognizing that both of them have made hurtful choices, and she’s not completely innocent either.

And honestly, it’s not even Nan Heng’s fault that he started out that way he’s a character written into a story with that role. The whole point is that he's trying to break free from the path that was written for him. If we're considering what Song Yimeng went through, we also have to take into account what Nan Heng was forced to become. That’s where some empathy from her side could have made the story feel more balanced.

You're right they’re both complex characters. But if we're being asked to believe in a meaningful slow-burn romance, there needs to be clear emotional growth on both sides. So far, it feels like Nan Heng is the only one doing the emotional labor, and that makes the dynamic feel one-sided.

I respect different interpretations, but it's not fair to say people “don’t have the patience.” Many of us do we’re just responding honestly to what we’re seeing in the writing and character development right now.

Ugh, Chu is beyond annoying at this point. He’s so unreasonable that I’ve just started skipping all his scenes I already know he’s going to do or say something senseless. If the writers actually try to reconcile him with Nan Heng, I’ll honestly regret sticking with this drama. He’s clearly not a good friend. Like, how many signs do you need to realize Nan Heng isn’t the murderer? Not to mention, Nan Heng was a child back then! Chu’s behavior isn’t just frustrating it’s flat-out stupid and irrational. Honestly, the only characters I still care about is the Nightwalker's. If it weren’t for them, I would’ve dropped this drama ages ago. The writing just isn’t strong enough to carry all these forced misunderstandings and repetitive drama.I don’t think any kind of redemption arc can save this for me and honestly, I already know whatever the writers come up with won’t be good enough.

Omg no cap, her whole idea of good and evil is so contradicting. If I didn’t already know what was really going on, I’d honestly think she’s the villain.

This drama is seriously testing my patience. I actually liked it in the beginning the first few episodes had promise. But now? It’s just plain annoying. All she ever talks about is that script she didn’t even bother to read properly, and then she turns around and accuses Nan Heng of all these crimes even though she suspects he might not be guilty, and clearly sees he’s being treated unfairly. And then she has the audacity to cry when she finds out Li Shi Liu and Nan Heng are the same person, like she’s the one who’s been wronged. Girl, you literally tried to kill him. Multiple times. Not once did she try to see things from his perspective, or even acknowledge the painfully obvious facts right in front of her. It’s exhausting. I had such high hopes for this drama, but now I’m just skipping through episodes to see what happens because let’s be honest, I can already predict the plot at this point. And don’t even get me started on that shady uncle I don’t trust him at all. Always slinking around with his fake concern and clearly hiding an agenda behind every word.And that incompetent emperor? He seriously needs to sit down and reflect. Even wolves don’t turn on their own cubs. The way he’s handling things is not just weak, it’s downright cruel.

You can try Kisskh.co I watch most of my C-dramas there when I’m not using iQiyi, Tencent, or other official sites. They usually update on time, and the subs aren’t bad. That’s just my opinion though I understand the language, so I mostly glance at the subs for parts I don’t get or for learning purposes.