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I really appreciate your response — you made some great points. You're absolutely right that Song Yimeng knows she’s inside a script, and that looming fear of becoming a “human corpse” or being trapped in a doomed fate explains a lot of her actions. The pressure she’s under, constantly being pushed into a role by the system, is a terrifying and layered concept. It makes sense that she acts from a place of self-preservation.

I also agree that the love story is toxic — and intentionally so. The drama is clearly exploring how fear, fate, and trauma affect a person’s ability to love and trust. SYM isn’t meant to be a perfect heroine, and I do appreciate that complexity.

That said, I think where the disconnect happens for a lot of viewers (myself included) is in the execution. When a character is deeply flawed, we still need to see emotional consistency or growth for that arc to feel meaningful. Right now, SYM often repeats the same patterns of distrust and aggression without much reflection or development, and that’s what creates the frustration. It's not about blaming her — it’s about wanting to see those internal conflicts lead somewhere.

And of course, Nan Heng isn’t innocent either. I just wish the writing gave both characters more space to process their pain with each other, rather than always putting one in defense mode and the other on the offensive. There's so much potential for emotional depth — it just feels underused.

So yes, the toxic dynamic is part of the design, but when it becomes emotionally exhausting to watch, it’s hard to stay invested in their relationship, even if the narrative is pushing us to root for them. I’m still hoping the ending brings satisfying growth for both characters.

There’s honestly so much more I could say — I could write a whole essay at this point 😅 — but what makes this story fascinating and frustrating is that there’s no single way to interpret either character. That’s part of what makes it worth discussing.

As I’ve said elsewhere, it’s not entirely Nan Heng’s fault that he started the way he did — he was written into that role. Just like SYM, he’s trying to escape a fate that was forced on him. So if we’re going to unpack her trauma and choices, we should do the same for him — and acknowledge the pain he’s carried alone for so long.

That’s why I don’t think this conversation should be about “picking sides.” It should be about understanding that both of these characters are deeply flawed, deeply trapped, and trying to rewrite their own stories. For me, SYM still has more room for growth. Her actions often come across as reactionary and emotionally closed off — which naturally divides the audience depending on how they interpret her.

And that’s okay! These kinds of stories should stir different reactions — that’s part of what makes them powerful. I just wish the writing gave us more emotional clarity so we could fully connect with both characters on their journeys.

I truly respect your passion and commitment to calling out bias this kind of critical lens is essential, especially when discussing media and gender dynamics. However, meaningful discourse also requires space for reflection, empathy, and genuine understanding not just accusation.

If we’re going to point out bias or a lack of awareness in others, we must also take responsibility to examine our own assumptions. Accusing someone without solid evidence or without trying to understand their perspective only deepens divisions. Reactions like these especially in spaces designed for open discussion can unfortunately lead to unnecessary conflict.

Challenging male-centered narratives is powerful and necessary, and I wholeheartedly agree that harmful tropes deserve to be addressed. But real growth emerges from dialogue, not from shaming. Progress happens when we build bridges between perspectives, not burn them down.

I also want to add that I don’t think the person who made the original comment is entirely wrong. She’s speaking from what she saw and how the story was portrayed. From her perspective, it didn’t feel male-centered it just felt like flawed characters struggling with trust and past wounds.

That’s why I think it’s so important we respect different viewpoints. Everyone interprets the story through their own lens, and that’s okay. The key is to engage with each other’s opinions thoughtfully and without assumptions, so we can have richer, more meaningful conversations about the characters and themes. At the end of the day, we all want better storytelling, richer representation, and a more equitable culture. That journey begins with the willingness to truly listen to one another even when we disagree.

Wow, that escalated quickly. Let’s take a breath this is a drama discussion, not a personal attack forum.

No one’s saying the female lead should blindly trust someone who tried to hurt her. The point people are making is that both characters are flawed and complicated. The criticism isn’t about her being a woman it’s about her choices as a character, just like people critique male leads all the time. That’s how discussion works.

We can acknowledge that Nan Heng did terrible things early on and that he’s grown and shown remorse. We can also acknowledge that the FL has made questionable choices, especially when she refuses to reflect on her own actions. It’s not about defending one or tearing the other down it’s about wanting better storytelling and character growth for both.

Also… no need to project real-life assumptions about people based on a drama opinion. Let’s keep the conversation focused and respectful. We're all just fans sharing different perspectives no need to sound the alarm 🚨 over that.

LOL I wish I could find your comment again, but I just wanted to say I completely agree with your view — I don’t ship them as a couple either. They’ve both hurt each other, but honestly, she’s done far more damage to him emotionally and physically. Their relationship feels more toxic than complex at this point. I get that the writers are trying to frame it as a "love-hate" or "tragic fate" kind of dynamic, but it just doesn’t land that way for me.

Some people in the comments keep saying we “don’t understand the script” or “don’t get the deeper meaning,” but honestly, everyone is allowed to interpret what they see. It’s not about missing the writer’s intention — it’s about responding to what’s actually being shown on screen.

After reading the director’s message, I do see what they were trying to explore — themes like breaking labels, overcoming prejudice, and reclaiming your fate. It’s a powerful message on paper. I can respect that and appreciate the ambition behind it.

But with that said… the execution still matters. No matter how deep the intended symbolism is, if the characters come across as selfish, irrational, or inconsistent, then viewers are going to react to that. For example, Song Yimeng constantly acts like the only victim while denying her own harmful actions — and that's what most of us are responding to. Yes, the script frames her inner struggle, but that doesn’t excuse the fact that she repeatedly hurts Nan Heng without fully taking accountability.

As for Nan Heng, I genuinely feel for him. The contrast between his “labeled” self and his real self is beautiful in theory, and Li Shiliu as a metaphor for hope and healing is compelling. But watching him suffer endlessly for someone who won’t even try to understand him? That’s hard to swallow.

So yes — I get the deeper message. But that doesn’t erase how frustrating the characters’ behavior is at times. I’m here for meaningful storytelling, but I also need the emotional logic and character development to actually support that vision. And right now, the relationship between FL and ML just feels unhealthy, no matter how poetic the framing may be.

I totally get where you're coming from — no one’s denying that Nan Heng was awful in the beginning. Yes, he tried to use her, and yes, if the script hadn’t interfered, he probably would’ve killed her. I don’t think anyone’s saying she should’ve fallen in love with him instantly or blindly trusted him just because he had a tragic backstory. That’s not realistic, and I agree — trust doesn’t work that way.

But I think what’s frustrating for a lot of viewers (including me) is that even after seeing his growth, his vulnerability, and the fact that he stopped trying to hurt her long ago, she still acts like he’s the root of all evil while completely overlooking her own actions. It’s not about excusing Nan Heng’s past, it’s about recognizing that both of them have made hurtful choices, and she’s not completely innocent either.

And honestly, it’s not even Nan Heng’s fault that he started out that way he’s a character written into a story with that role. The whole point is that he's trying to break free from the path that was written for him. If we're considering what Song Yimeng went through, we also have to take into account what Nan Heng was forced to become. That’s where some empathy from her side could have made the story feel more balanced.

You're right they’re both complex characters. But if we're being asked to believe in a meaningful slow-burn romance, there needs to be clear emotional growth on both sides. So far, it feels like Nan Heng is the only one doing the emotional labor, and that makes the dynamic feel one-sided.

I respect different interpretations, but it's not fair to say people “don’t have the patience.” Many of us do we’re just responding honestly to what we’re seeing in the writing and character development right now.

Ugh, Chu is beyond annoying at this point. He’s so unreasonable that I’ve just started skipping all his scenes I already know he’s going to do or say something senseless. If the writers actually try to reconcile him with Nan Heng, I’ll honestly regret sticking with this drama. He’s clearly not a good friend. Like, how many signs do you need to realize Nan Heng isn’t the murderer? Not to mention, Nan Heng was a child back then! Chu’s behavior isn’t just frustrating it’s flat-out stupid and irrational. Honestly, the only characters I still care about is the Nightwalker's. If it weren’t for them, I would’ve dropped this drama ages ago. The writing just isn’t strong enough to carry all these forced misunderstandings and repetitive drama.I don’t think any kind of redemption arc can save this for me and honestly, I already know whatever the writers come up with won’t be good enough.

Omg no cap, her whole idea of good and evil is so contradicting. If I didn’t already know what was really going on, I’d honestly think she’s the villain.

This drama is seriously testing my patience. I actually liked it in the beginning the first few episodes had promise. But now? It’s just plain annoying. All she ever talks about is that script she didn’t even bother to read properly, and then she turns around and accuses Nan Heng of all these crimes even though she suspects he might not be guilty, and clearly sees he’s being treated unfairly. And then she has the audacity to cry when she finds out Li Shi Liu and Nan Heng are the same person, like she’s the one who’s been wronged. Girl, you literally tried to kill him. Multiple times. Not once did she try to see things from his perspective, or even acknowledge the painfully obvious facts right in front of her. It’s exhausting. I had such high hopes for this drama, but now I’m just skipping through episodes to see what happens because let’s be honest, I can already predict the plot at this point. And don’t even get me started on that shady uncle I don’t trust him at all. Always slinking around with his fake concern and clearly hiding an agenda behind every word.And that incompetent emperor? He seriously needs to sit down and reflect. Even wolves don’t turn on their own cubs. The way he’s handling things is not just weak, it’s downright cruel.

You can try Kisskh.co I watch most of my C-dramas there when I’m not using iQiyi, Tencent, or other official sites. They usually update on time, and the subs aren’t bad. That’s just my opinion though I understand the language, so I mostly glance at the subs for parts I don’t get or for learning purposes.

Omg right?! We’re nearly halfway through the drama and sis is still M.I.A. Not even a shadow! 😭 I’m really enjoying the show, but let’s be real she was one of the main reasons I was hyped in the first place. They better stop playing and drop her in tomorrow’s episodes. Fingers crossed and eyes peeled! 👀✨

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That’s what I was thinking too!
There are different forms of love and like, and the way they portrayed it between Zhang Suan and Si Ling didn’t really feel romantic to me. It didn’t come across as the kind of “like” between a man and a woman — it felt more complex, almost like admiration, or even a kind of emotional dependency.

Plus, the way Si Ling treats him sometimes feels more maternal, like she’s looking out for a younger sibling or even a child. And let’s not forget his hatred for BJS — that kind of rage doesn’t come from some forbidden love triangle, especially since nothing inappropriate ever happened between them. to me his feelings for Si Ling remain rooted in admiration and attachment, not love

And based on how he described his feelings, it really didn’t sound romantic to me either.
But hey, maybe that’s just my crazy theory 😅

Am I the only one going crazy thinking that Zhang Suan might actually be the son of BJS and Si Ling?

You read my mind — Everything you said tracks, and honestly, that whole theory about them secretly working together or him suffering for her is one of the only ways this plot could redeem itself at this point.

The drama thinks it’s clever, but it’s just messy. Like—give us one coherent motivation! We’re 20+ episodes deep and still don’t fully know what BJS did to deserve 300 years of emotional warfare. And you’re so right—the forced twists are exhausting. They act like they’re delivering Shakespeare-level betrayals, but it’s just plot holes wrapped in dramatic music.

BJS’s whiplash behavior makes NO sense unless he’s been undercover/sacrificing himself the whole time. Otherwise, it’s straight-up emotional manipulation, and not in a good, morally gray antihero way......

And yeah… the OTP dynamic is toxic right now. If they do end up together, the only way it works is if we get a huge explanation flashback dump to justify everything—because right now it’s giving “Boy, RUN.”........

That’s a really good point. I do get that her pain runs deep, and you’re right, both of them are hurting but refusing to break first. I think what’s frustrating for me is that I want to root for them, but the way it’s being written just feels like emotional circles instead of actual growth sometimes.

And I totally agree — he’s not innocent in this either. He’s terrible at communicating, which makes things worse. I just wish the writing gave us more layered conversations or emotional beats instead of constant dragging.

I’m hanging in though 🤍 I hope you’re right about the next few episodes. Fingers crossed it finally breaks through all the buildup!

I really want to stay positive, but I’m also trying to stop having expectations because I keep feeling disappointed. The script isn’t making sense, and certain things just aren’t adding up.

Her hatred for him is also getting annoying — there’s no clear story or event explaining it properly. Every time it feels like we’re getting closer to the cause of the misunderstanding, it just gets dragged out even more. And with all the pranks and fake reconciliations, it’s really starting to get on my nerves because none of it is making sense anymore.

I was actually liking the drama up until she killed him and they got sent back to where they first stayed in the mortal realm. I get what the writer is trying to do — probably letting him experience the hardship of the mortal realm the way she did — but honestly, I think they should’ve changed their approach. The story needs a different strategy because this one isn’t hitting like it should.

It’s honestly frustrating when a drama starts off strong, builds up good momentum, and then starts spiraling with weak writing, dragging misunderstandings, or repetitive tropes. That endless loop of “almost clearing up the misunderstanding, but nope, here’s another fake reconciliation or prank” — kills emotional investment. It starts feeling like the plot is delaying on purpose instead of progressing naturally.

And yes — her hatred for him not having a solid foundation or clear backstory makes it even worse. Like… how am I supposed to stay emotionally attached if I don’t even fully understand why she’s this mad? Especially when you can tell the drama is dragging things for “angst points,” but not really earning it with good storytelling.

That whole “sending them back to the mortal realm” twist could have been brilliant — like, showing growth, showing that he finally experiences her pain, flipping their dynamic. But the execution feels messy. Like… we get the idea, but the execution is tiring. I think a different strategy would’ve been way more satisfying than just another cycle of fake reconciliation or misunderstandings.

I also don’t get the whole angle of her hatred reaching the point of self-destruction and involving innocent people... It’s like they’re pushing it too far without a proper buildup. It’s frustrating because this drama could have been so much better with tighter writing and more emotional depth.

I also feel like through all this fake makeup and fake reconciliation, she’s trying to relay a message to him — almost like a reflection of her past and what she went through. It’s just that the way they’re going about it makes it feel a little boring, dull, repetitive, and never-ending. I get what they’re trying to do, but it’s being dragged so much that the emotional weight is starting to fade.

I’m going to keep watching to see if it improves, but right now it’s not living up to its potential. Hopefully, it turns around, because I wanted to love this drama.

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RIGHT?! I would devour that fanfic like I’ve been fasting for three days — because the way the writers left us starving for common sense? Criminal. 😂

NO CAP for real how did the Queen Mother survive palace life that long with the IQ of a decorative pillow? Sis couldn’t see through the simplest schemes or a fake smile to save her life. But sure, let’s blame everyone else while she sips tea like they aint all apart of the problem. The math is not mathing.

And don’t even get me started on the ending — they really had the nerve to roll credits without anyone realizing the ex-Crown Princess was the real villain. LIKE??? It was right there. Peak clownery. 🤡

And that whole mess with the King acting like a discount villain — sir, you’ve got the audacity to point fingers when you’re out here doing dirt yourself? They really missed a moment to humble him properly. All that wasted potential makes me want to sue.

Chaotic. Unhinged. But I’d be first in line for that fanfic. Somebody’s gotta fill the void, and clearly it’s not gonna be the writers.

Whew… where do I even start?

This drama had potential — I’m talking serve me royal romance on a silver platter potential. The first few episodes? Cute. Promising. And then? It tripped, stumbled, and face-planted into messy plots, childish schemes, and characters making decisions like their brains were on airplane mode.

Let’s break it down:

First up, the Crown Princess. I don’t even know where to begin with her. She’s out here acting like the world’s against her, crying in corners, yet REFUSING to help herself. Girl, it’s not character development if you just stay stupid the whole show. Not once did she think, “Maybe I should speak up for myself.” Nope. Just tears, whining, and questionable choices.

And the Crown Prince? He’s emotionally constipated, sure, but he at least tries in his cold, awkward way. I’ll give him half a star for effort. But she? She’s busy emotionally bonding with the OTHER prince like she’s not a whole married woman. And then has the nerve to get upset when the Crown Prince breathes near another woman. The math ain’t mathing.

Don’t even get me started on Second Female Lead Syndrome. This girl is the president of Delusion Nation. If you wanted the man, SAY YES the first time. But no, you chased status and now you’re salty because someone else has what you didn’t want when it was offered. Girl. Heal.

And the palace schemes? Please. I’ve seen elementary school drama with more depth. How are the royal adults THIS clueless? I’m embarrassed for them.

Now, for the fun part:

Kokowa Drama Starter Pack Checklist:

✅ Doormat Female Lead with Negative Self-Esteem

✅ Emotionally Damaged, Cold Male Lead with Hidden Feelings

✅ Clingy, Whiny Second Male Lead who needs to sit down

✅ Delusional Second Female Lead living in her own K-Drama fantasy

✅ 99 Misunderstandings for absolutely no reason

✅ Love Confessions happening at the worst possible moments

✅ Passive-aggressive tea drinking scenes

✅ Dramatic wrist grabs (because apparently words don’t work)

✅ “I heard half the conversation and now I’m mad” plot devices

✅ Rich people making poor decisions with royal-sized egos

✅ Female lead tripping over air and falling into someone’s arms (mandatory scene)

✅ A random fever to force an emotional bonding moment

✅ Schemes so obvious even a goldfish could connect the dots

✅ Second Female Lead blaming everyone but herself for her poor life choices

✅ Petty jealousy as a full-time job

✅ Parents ruining everything just for fun

✅ THAT ONE CHARACTER who exists only to deliver bad news dramatically

I finished it, but only because of the actors and my pride that refused to let me be defeated by bad writing. It’s camp, it’s chaos, it’s Goong — a drama that could’ve been iconic but instead said, “Let’s drown in stupidity for 24 episodes straight.”

The actors were good — they did what they could with that chaotic script — but they deserved better. Honestly, I stayed for the cast and the aesthetics, but the writing? Maximum drama with minimum sense .

i don't think its the same dubber.....