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That is maybe a possibility for them because it is a drama after all but normally someone else comes along or you get far away until you forget the feelings you have for the other person and also a lot of things can happen in the meantime. There is so many people in this planet after all and in REAL LIFE you move on, especially after all of that, that has happened even if the other person is your so called first love. Lets not forget she slept with SML because she thought he was in love with her and she with him( that says a lot about her emotional intelligence), she pushed away the ML many times with a lot of different ways because she was pregnant and now she got married to SML because she thinks that will make everybody happy except her and her baby. For someone claiming that she wants what is best for the baby she sure doesn't act like it. Yea, children that grow up with both parents are actually better off in all metrics but that doesn't mean that both of them need to be their biological parents. Do you know who grows up better than that? Children that are raised by parents that love them and love each other. That is what is making me mad. Because what she says and the choices that she makes are the complete opposite. And also the SML is such a crap person. He just wants to win against Dansu, nothing more.

This is the very first time that i am watching a Korean drama that i don't want the ML to get with the FL.I hope he gets in a relationship with someone better or even if he is single until the FL gets a divorce(because that is gonna happen, no doubt), if she comes back that he will say to her that his feelings are not romantic anymore and that he only sees her as a friend. Also, now i see why they gave this drama this title, description and promotional poster because otherwise nobody would want to watch this drama. I am so disappointed and sad that everything about this drama was so misleading before even starting and for me for wasting my time with this sh*t. I will just come back for comments now because otherwise it doesn't worth my time. Just so fck*ng bad. JESUS!!!

For anyone watching this series, just don't. Bad writing,bad acting and bad overall. Go watch the series named Soo Ji & Woo Ri. It has it all. Great acting,great plot and you will get all the feelings. Also the most important thing is that the romance it's there. It's just an amazing series overall. Of course there are the crazy situations and the lost child/children but the plot makes it just a worthy series to watch. I just love this series and so will you,believe me. Have fun! ☺️😊☺️

Ok,i think you have a problem and i hope to God the shit you are saying here doesn't actually hold any meaning in your real life otherwise i hope to God you get some professional help. And like smart people say,remove yourself from a conversation when you talk to someone who is not that.Don't drop to their level. İ wish you well for the remaining of your life with this kind of thinking.İ feel scared and sad for you at the same time. İ am gonna be praying for you. God bless you.

You can say what you want of course. A lot of people say what they want. It's called free speech. That doesn't make you or them right though. Just for your information.

EJ should just go and find someone his age? Are you serious right now? Like,liking or loving someone has something to do with age. If you feel it,you feel it. And because you are thinking that EJ is more like a brother to SJ that doesn't mean that he doesn't have the right to express how he feels. You said it was cringe and maybe it was but i think it was brave too.And other than express how he was feeling,how did he interfere?Your hot WJ, you saw how he slept around,right? And he has a kid. Nice example he is setting for her. Let's not talk about turning the gun on his mother or even tromping the hand of that man. And even his behavior towards EJs mother. Like they say,if you want to see what kind of a man someone is, observe how he treats other people when he has nothing to gain from them.If he wasn't hot like you said you would run for the hills. Now that just sad and makes me scared for the future of our children and our society.

what happened to him? can you explain if you don't mind me asking? still haven't seen the latest episodes and an update on what's going on it would be really appreciated. thank you in advance.

You know it's amazing how every f**king time i say I won't believe another series title or even start it and every f**king time i do exactly the opposite and I am left dumbfounded by exactly that decision. like how the f**k it's ok to show such a toxic mother figure and oppressed father figure and because of that behavior the older sister have the same behavioral habits ( you can see that mother and older sister have the same thoughts and opinions about the standards that someone must have to love somebody else and get married and there are many more examples) but fighting for the one you love it's bad. Like wtf is going on? Is every f**king director nowadays on drugs or something? Or just want heartbreaking moments and bad decisions?I get the whole culture thing
about marriage and standards but you can't have it only one way.you can't try to saw us the "realness" of a relationship but because of culture differences don't saw us the rest of it. I don't think that someone just stops being in love or try everything they can to be with the one they love because mother or sister or both said so and you move on like nothing happened and you have precious and nice moments with other people while you know nothing about what is happening with the person you love. Like come on now. Wtf is this s**t ? -_-

Again thank you very much. Do you also know what the man wrote in the letter that the older sister got the day she was getting married?and if the younger sister in now in a relationship with the other guy that likes her? Thank you again in advance and I am sorry that I am using you like my personal library and translator ☺️☺️☺️

Ohh,thank you again. Also why the younger sister broke up with her boyfriend? Why he got mad and he beat up the other guy? Do you know? And of course again i thank you.

Thank you very much. Also,did I hear them talking about a kid? Was she pregnant or something and she had an abortion when the sisters went to the hospital?thank you again.

Did anyone understand what happened between the older sister and the friend/neighbor guy and why they broke up and she already had a new relationship and got married to another guy?If yes,an explanation as detailed as can be would be very welcome under the spoiler section. Thank you very much in advance.

Unfortunately I agree with what you just said(the unfortunately part had nothing to do with you but with the situations that many people find themselves in without an escape because like you said therapy is frowned upon in multiple cultures). I would like to see a little bit character growth from both of them but more from the Fl. I understand that she was shocked when she learnt that he never had an affair and the reason he asked for a divorce was because he got tired of her. That's a huge blow on your self esteem and I get it but she never got him(she thought that was a stupid reason to get a divorce). I thought she did when she spoke with her best friend about what had happened but still nothing. And when he asked her why she wants a baby she just said because they are cute. Like come on now. It's not a f**king doll. And you are supposed to be an intelligent individual. Also he is not a f**king mind reader plus his trauma then bye bye. I can see how the writers wanted to link every episode with a case that had something to do with what they were going through but come on now. She did not ask him why he wanted a divorce or even "cheated", she did not ask him why he wanted to break up or even stop him because she can relate with the couple that is gonna get a divorce for the third time and they think that enough is enough. He made the first move. He talked about his f**king trauma and what he was going through while he was married with her and why he did not want any kids. I am like screaming at my screen to the FL "JUST DO SOMETHING INSTEAD OF JUST SAYING I LOVE YOU". TRY AND HELP HIM. CAN YOU NOT SEE THAT HE IS DROWNING ALL THESE YEARS BECAUSE NOBODY HELPED HIM?COME ON. USE THIS BIG BRAIN OF YOURS FOR OTHER THINGS THAN WINNING DIVORCE CASES OR HELPING OTHER PEOPLE. YOU SUPPOSED TO LOVE HIM.

Yea, I already know that. I am talking about her behavior before and after learning about everything. Instead of trying and talking about how they can resolve his trauma and how can they move forward she just gives him a hug and they don't talk about it or even mention it again. If you see the preview of the last episode, she is gonna say to him to talk to his mother about everything when she is in the hospital but for me it is a little too late. They already broken up before even try to resolve their issues and she said to him that she is really gonna try to move on and she wishes both of them to be happy now. For me that is not love. Love is trying to help the person you love even if you are together or not. Love is trying to perseverance against everything and everyone. They haven't even tried yet and they both quit. And I can understand him for wanting to quit, it is easier when you have trauma about something. Normally people with traumas have a hard time dealing with them but most importantly accepting that they have a trauma. The other person, if they truly love you must fight two times harder to help you because they are fighting for you and they are fighting for themselves too. And she just said thank you and gave up. Nice 10 years of love ,my a**.

Let me just put it out there for people that never had to deal with any kind trauma themselves or even had to deal with people who are dealing with trauma. ML is suffering from childhood trauma(that is the worst kind because it can affect how you grow up and what decisions you are gonna make in the future). That's why he always did what the FL wanted even though he was uncomfortable and he never complained about anything. He is still blaming himself for the loss of his sister because someone who truly loved died when he was out playing with his friends instead of watching her even though he himself was still a kid and had no business watching his little sister. Also his mother, the one person who should console him and help him move on blamed him for EVERYTHING. That alone can take a toll on a adult person. Now imagine being kid and being blamed by your own mother. That is why he does not want kids at the moment. If he deals with his trauma maybe in the future he is gonna change his mind or maybe not but until that barrier is down you can not tell for sure what it is that he truly wants. And the FL instead of helping him she decided to rope his mother into it (because she also wants to have grandchildren) by saying that if they have a child he is gonna get a building because he likes money. If the FL truly loved him after he told her everything she should try and really help him even if they get back together at the end or not. Instead she is wishing that both of them should try and really be happy now and that she is really gonna try and move and live her life. I am not saying that the ML was right about his approach with the divorce or the break up that was caused by a misunderstanding(although he misunderstood her because she gave him an excuse to misunderstand her). But as someone who has dealt with trauma myself I can understand him a little better. If the people you truly love do not try and help you but instead try to fulfill their own desires before the serious problems are addressed and dealt with then why the f**k are you talking about true love and marriage and children or whatever other topic there is?

ohh my bad.yea,you are probably right,sorry :D

No,is the mother of the FL and she knows about her husband having an affair and that's why she said to the ML that divorce is not an option.Not 100% sure yet but that is my understanding from the preview for the next episode.

Can i ask you,how old are you?And if you are watching the same drama as us?Because if you do,i can't understand,how you have the opinion you have.Of course it is your right but i am just asking.

Guys,do you even know the rule/law about getting a divorce in South Korea?If there is no abuse or cheating then both people have to agree to get a divorce, not only one. And FL like she said at that time she would have never given him a divorce about a reason that pathetic...for her standards of course. Because something that you find pathetic or not good enough reason to do or not to do something,doesn't mean that the same goes for the other person.I know that he was not in the right about not communicate what he has feeling when he was married to her and he only kept giving and giving without getting anything in return but the FL took the case just to spite him because she saw him together with the SFL and then she revealed about the "cheating" because she didn't want to lose to him. If you truly love someone then you try to win them back,if you want to repair the relationship, regardless of what they have done.Otherwise,you should wish them the best with whatever choice they make,even if you are angry or disappointed with what they have done to you.