they're both the homewreckers since both of them knew he was married and both of them knew what they were doing…
I was referring to the comments such as "She destroyed their marriage!! / She is a homewrecker! / She stole him!!" and similar. Those comments show that these people put the majority of blame on the woman.
"NEVER the mistress's fault"? "all Sung Joon's fault"?ohh my...BOTH are at fault when she knew he was married…
"But you're saying the mistress's has no fault because it was the husband who had a committed relationship and he was the one who allowed the mistress to come in??? "
Well... yeah? It wasn't the mistress who forced him to spend time with her. He could have brushed her off with one sentence.
they're both the homewreckers since both of them knew he was married and both of them knew what they were doing…
It doesn't matter what her intentions were. There could have been dozens of women throwing themselves at him, if he was a faithful man who loved his wife he wouldn't have succumbed to the charms AT ALL. Which means that it is his fault for betraying his wife. On the other hand, if the mistress is a close relative or a friend, then I'd say the betrayal would be double. All I'm saying is that I've noticed people hating on the mistress more than the husband, which is wrong on many levels. She didn't steal him, he decided to give up on his marriage.
I can't believe you think she has NO blame at all...I am not taking off any blame on the husband, but as a fellow…
But you are once again saying as if she is the one who "destroyed" the marriage. She DIDN'T. He is the one who walked away from his wife. He is the one who took that chance from them. Not her. She didn't tie him up and drug him. It is not her responsibility.
Agree with everything you say. However, I believe people "hate" this mistress, and I can speak for myself here,…
I get it but I dislike this trend of portraying men as helpless idiotic creatures who get "stolen." Nobody can steal you and nobody can force you to cheat. To be honest I'd be happy that she showed me what a weak ass of a man I have and I'd gladly "let" her have him since she is so dumb to believe that such a man would be faithful to anyone.
btw, something that's been on my mind... I see that the majority of hate is directed toward the mistress, and I get it, she IS annoying; however, it is NEVER the mistress's fault. She is not the one who is in a relationship or marriage. It is all Sung Joon's fault and I really hate it when the woman gets 2x hate when she shouldn't. Can we please get rid of those patriarchal notions that it is always the mistress that is a homewrecker?
I really do not think that the girl is the daughter the boss guy. It sounds more like a good cover up story. although…
I just don't think his wife would sit with her husband's mistress at the same table + they would have to keep the lie until the end of their lives, the daughter can't just disappear over night I guess?
The Good Wife... HA! She selfishly chose her own happiness because she didn't even try to go on counseling to…
Why always the cheated ones have to fight and salvage the marriage? HE is the one who destroyed their marriage and lives. Nobody should have to accept that kind of person. Jesus
Well... yeah? It wasn't the mistress who forced him to spend time with her. He could have brushed her off with one sentence.
All I'm saying is that I've noticed people hating on the mistress more than the husband, which is wrong on many levels. She didn't steal him, he decided to give up on his marriage.
To be honest I'd be happy that she showed me what a weak ass of a man I have and I'd gladly "let" her have him since she is so dumb to believe that such a man would be faithful to anyone.
btw, something that's been on my mind... I see that the majority of hate is directed toward the mistress, and I get it, she IS annoying; however, it is NEVER the mistress's fault. She is not the one who is in a relationship or marriage. It is all Sung Joon's fault and I really hate it when the woman gets 2x hate when she shouldn't. Can we please get rid of those patriarchal notions that it is always the mistress that is a homewrecker?
It takes two to tango, people.