well, more or less same, also we are in 2022 already, chores can be split and you don't have to become a stay…
mother in laws can be a minefield on their own I hope you can find a solution with your partner also I had this weird mindset that I had to become the perfect housewife get a good job, look a certain way, and than I'm finally worthy of love now I get how messed-up that was
Pran cooks, cleans and probably does Pats laundry.. everything my mom wishes I could be to my future husband...…
well, more or less same, also we are in 2022 already, chores can be split and you don't have to become a stay at home mom if you don't want to, but I was raised like that as well, that I should be good at those stuff, etc, like it is ok for boys to have a messy room but not for a girl and I should know it intuituively if you want to learn to cook and do chores, you can always learn if you want to, if not, you might want to figure out other solutions, you don't have to beat yourself up over it
I hope you can find a solution with your partner
also I had this weird mindset that I had to become the perfect housewife
get a good job, look a certain way, and than I'm finally worthy of love
now I get how messed-up that was
if you want to learn to cook and do chores, you can always learn if you want to, if not, you might want to figure out other solutions, you don't have to beat yourself up over it