This is for the person that wrote the thesis, on Flora’s character and FL’s bad acting……seriously triggered I would say, may need help and needs to look within the ““self””, rather than the world on the outside. It seems less about the character being “stupid” and more about how the commenter S’s personally connected (or disconnected) with her choices.
Flora’s behaviour can be read as insecurity, yes, but that doesn’t automatically make her a poor character. In fact, her lack of communication and projection of frustration are deliberate traits that highlight the tension in her relationship arc. Where some see “bad energy,” others might see realism…..people often shut down or lash out when overwhelmed. Calling her “a textbook insecure bird” feels more like the commenter’s S’s own frustration spilling over than an objective critique. Characters like Xu Yan or Zheng Shu Yi are labelled “flawed” because their struggles are relatable; Flora’s flaws are simply harder for this viewer to empathise with. That doesn’t mean she’s poorly written….it means that the viewer S’s lens is colouring the interpretation.
So rather than Flora being “dumb,” it may be that the commenter S was triggered by traits they dislike or recognise from real life. That’s valid emotionally, but it doesn’t erase the narrative intent behind her portrayal. Flora’s character is written to embody a particular kind of insecurity and relational dysfunction, and that is part of the story’s design. Her inability to communicate isn’t accidental...it’s a deliberate tension that drives conflict and growth in the plot. If every character were polished, self aware, and balanced, the drama would collapse into blandness.
What the commenter S of that critique seems to miss is that “flawed” doesn’t always mean “relatable” or “likeable.” Sometimes flaws are uncomfortable to watch because they mirror behaviours we dislike in real life. Flora’s projection and silence may feel grating, but that discomfort is precisely what makes her arc meaningful. It forces the audience to wrestle with the frustration of watching someone sabotage their own relationship, which is a very human pattern. So, while commenter S interprets her as “dumb,” the narrative intent is to show a woman trapped in her own insecurities, unable to break free until circumstances push her. That’s not stupid its... it’s realism. The fact that commenter S felt so triggered suggests the character succeeded in evoking strong emotion, which is arguably the mark of effective writing rather than poor characterisation.
And finally, commenter S’s reaction says more about their own triggers than about Flora’s construction as a character. The intensity of their frustration demonstrates that the writing succeeded in evoking strong emotion, which is the hallmark of effective storytelling. Flora isn’t “dumb”.....she’s intentionally written as insecure and conflict avoidant, and those traits create the very tension that keeps the narrative alive. Rather than being evidence of poor characterisation, commenter S’s anger is proof that the character achieved her purpose - to challenge, provoke, and stir discomfort in the audience. THAT’S NOT FAILURE, THAT’S IMPACT. The end. From….the notes of a Therapist…getting real...
Ditto......please avoid mentioning the name of the website in this platform...it can cause major problems later and can be taken down, which is sad- as its a resource for many. change the name/ or remove post, pls and thx.
@whoissilmoy If you quote all the reviews, comments and discussions from Douban (including neutral and critical…
Oh my, but aren't you a wonderful ray of sunshine, and using the word 'poisonous' is really indicative of your own mind... when you resort to judgement of others and name-calling, take note-these are your own issues going on inside of you....I am a licenced Therapist-DM me and I will give you some sessions for free.....love and hugs! :)
I literally just commented about that, huge overreaction, saying he is scary omg! he did sooooo much for her and…
Absolutely spot on!! I can't even count how many posts I've seen that have said she ran away....she ran away ad infinitum. I do not condone her going into his safe though, that is not on. HOWEVER, people really forget she refused his investment at first, and he then went to her office to approach her again afterwards. She again said no....but then she specified her terms-EPS 32-36mins.45secs- (his flashback)- she says...'I hope Star Tech won't involve external teams in the future. I will have sole control over all internal personnel matters'. He agrees, he got up and shook hands with her. How is this not betrayal, goodness without explanation I would run to the other end of the world too, to find myself and cope with the hurt from the man I loved. You can see that when he sits at the first merger meeting, this is significant, because he has done everything he said he wouldn't do and he is reflecting deeply on himself, because it it totally incongruent behaviour. Shaking hands is your bond, your promise, and then you go and do the opposite thing. In EPS 37, when he's giving his speech, even though the Companies are now merged- he actualises/realises her dream she mentioned at the College competition as well as when she said it again on the beach when they did the charity medical services event in the village- by providing medical devices particularly to those who cannot afford it, and to provide after-care for free. It was at this moment, that I forgave him ha! ha! :)
Do you make this same comment for other 30-to-40-episode dramas which is probably the majority of dramas?"I just…
Your truth to you yes, and its your right to feel that way.....and of course there are similarities to other Dramas. You keep pointing out the 40 episodes, we get it. But for me it was also too short as many others have said. I feel that this is the No 1 Drama of the Year, we couldn't get enough of how it made us feel with the storyline and how the Actors brought it to life, and so, we can't let go. That's why some of us are still here....maybe don't watch it then?....moving on.... :)
I found this particularly meaningful.... :) “Sometimes we're so busy developing and playing with concepts, without seriously listening to and perceiving what ordinary people need. It's the same thing with relationships. I always gave you what I wanted, and told you what I wanted you to know, thinking that I'm protecting you, but it eventually just became a pale excuse for me, ignoring what you want and what kind of love you need. Love is mutual, and so is medical technology. Science and technology for the country, is for curing diseases for the people. Only by reaching people in this way can we truly benefit people. Such a simple truth, yet it was at a great cost for me to understand. I would like to announce something here. In the future, Dongyang Medical will join forces with Hanhai Star Tech, investing 20 million every quarter to aid 30 towns and 150 natural villages implementing customized free clinic events, helping more patients in need, and providing follow-up services for patients participating in the free clinic events to ensure their health constantly. In fact, life is nothing for a man but for pursuing two things. One is the ideal that requires lifelong struggle. Another one is a partner who can walk with you side by side. At this Forum, I want to ask for another chance. I hope that the friend who helped me out of the fog can give me this chance.” -Han Ting- Shenzhen AI Conference 2024.
I still want to know how Dahuang went out the door, pushed the elevator button to go from the 21st floor to the Ground floor. and how he crossed the bridge to be on the other side of the water... someone pls tell me..😂😂😂
What decisions regarding JX did HT exactly take without consulting her?The ONLY thing was getting XC shares back…
This is absolutely on point! And when he's washing the strawberries in the kitchen when she comes in, she asks him. And then he looks emotional and he swallows with difficulty, as he cannot answer her...
JX is a sweet yet strong person, intelligent, confident, passionate about her work, loving towards friends, caring…
I think you have said this several times on this page regarding your take on her negative behaviour and something is triggering you, let it go....sending you love and light and hugs.... :)
The ones bashing JX are perfect that’s why. They prob never made a mistake in their lives
Absolutely agree @Lloudkat, who knows what they will do when facing deep crises in their own lives. We can never predict what's going to happen. and one precious rule to live by is, we do not judge...
Flora’s behaviour can be read as insecurity, yes, but that doesn’t automatically make her a poor character. In fact, her lack of communication and projection of frustration are deliberate traits that highlight the tension in her relationship arc. Where some see “bad energy,” others might see realism…..people often shut down or lash out when overwhelmed.
Calling her “a textbook insecure bird” feels more like the commenter’s S’s own frustration spilling over than an objective critique. Characters like Xu Yan or Zheng Shu Yi are labelled “flawed” because their struggles are relatable; Flora’s flaws are simply harder for this viewer to empathise with. That doesn’t mean she’s poorly written….it means that the viewer S’s lens is colouring the interpretation.
So rather than Flora being “dumb,” it may be that the commenter S was triggered by traits they dislike or recognise from real life. That’s valid emotionally, but it doesn’t erase the narrative intent behind her portrayal.
Flora’s character is written to embody a particular kind of insecurity and relational dysfunction, and that is part of the story’s design. Her inability to communicate isn’t accidental...it’s a deliberate tension that drives conflict and growth in the plot. If every character were polished, self aware, and balanced, the drama would collapse into blandness.
What the commenter S of that critique seems to miss is that “flawed” doesn’t always mean “relatable” or “likeable.” Sometimes flaws are uncomfortable to watch because they mirror behaviours we dislike in real life. Flora’s projection and silence may feel grating, but that discomfort is precisely what makes her arc meaningful. It forces the audience to wrestle with the frustration of watching someone sabotage their own relationship, which is a very human pattern.
So, while commenter S interprets her as “dumb,” the narrative intent is to show a woman trapped in her own insecurities, unable to break free until circumstances push her. That’s not stupid its... it’s realism. The fact that commenter S felt so triggered suggests the character succeeded in evoking strong emotion, which is arguably the mark of effective writing rather than poor characterisation.
And finally, commenter S’s reaction says more about their own triggers than about Flora’s construction as a character. The intensity of their frustration demonstrates that the writing succeeded in evoking strong emotion, which is the hallmark of effective storytelling. Flora isn’t “dumb”.....she’s intentionally written as insecure and conflict avoidant, and those traits create the very tension that keeps the narrative alive.
Rather than being evidence of poor characterisation, commenter S’s anger is proof that the character achieved her purpose - to challenge, provoke, and stir discomfort in the audience. THAT’S NOT FAILURE, THAT’S IMPACT. The end. From….the notes of a Therapist…getting real...
“Sometimes we're so busy developing and playing with concepts, without seriously listening to and perceiving what ordinary people need.
It's the same thing with relationships.
I always gave you what I wanted, and told you what I wanted you to know, thinking that I'm protecting you, but it eventually just became a pale excuse for me, ignoring what you want and what kind of love you need.
Love is mutual, and so is medical technology. Science and technology for the country, is for curing diseases for the people. Only by reaching people in this way can we truly benefit people. Such a simple truth, yet it was at a great cost for me to understand.
I would like to announce something here. In the future, Dongyang Medical will join forces with Hanhai Star Tech, investing 20 million every quarter to aid 30 towns and 150 natural villages implementing customized free clinic events, helping more patients in need, and providing follow-up services for patients participating in the free clinic events to ensure their health constantly.
In fact, life is nothing for a man but for pursuing two things. One is the ideal that requires lifelong struggle. Another one is a partner who can walk with you side by side.
At this Forum, I want to ask for another chance. I hope that the friend who helped me out of the fog can give me this chance.”
-Han Ting- Shenzhen AI Conference 2024.