For me, it’s not about that. It’s because SW seems very dishonest to me. I see him as a very manipulative…
I agree about SW. I had mentioned this already in another comment. He is a good person, obviously everyone are good people. However, the problem is he is too good at taking care of the women. And he gives everyone the same attention during the dates. It's like during the date, he gives his best and tries to be a gentleman. This is not wrong and such but women could mistake/ misunderstand his gesture.
With YE, her feelings for SW is fine. Her trying to express herself to SW is also perfect. That is what this show is for. I applaud her courage for approaching him irrespective of his feelings towards her. I also applaud her for liking one person and sticking to what her heart says. These are really commendable.
1. The reason she wasn't picked by anyone is on her not anyone else. She went on dates with 2 people if I remember correctly - SW and MJ. MJ was already pretty set on BH and SW was not interested in her. Again I blame his behaviours (buying wasabi which she wud obviously misunderstand). She didn't approach anyone else as she was interested only in SW. So, it's not about her not getting to go on a date with any guy but rather SW not picking her.
2. The reason SW picked JW and not YE is not JW's fault. Also, SW picked a new girl (SH) over YE. If you think about it without bias, ideally YE should be annoyed at SH cos she lost to a new girl. But, she takes it that SW only asked for another date with JW and not her. So she could feel embarrassed. This is not JW's fault either.
YE wanting not to see JW is understandable. That is mixture of emotions she is dealing with. Earlier YE had also showed off in front of JW and made her look bad (a mean behaviour). And therefore, JW getting a second chance with SW would be embarrassing to YE. This is on YE not on SW or JW.
Her deep feelings for SW are admirable. However, her trying to act demanding to SW and rude to JW are not admirable nor acceptable.
End of the day, issue is to be cleared between YE and SW, not with JW. Hope she apologizes properly and grows to be mature!
It's interesting that you don't read his annoyance as jealousy because I definitely do. He's so pouty over her…
Oh I do I do! I love second lead syndrome hehe. However, it is precisely because I didn't want to be disappointed, that I kept my expectations low. It'd be super interesting to see some story develop between Chung Jae and Se Na, though Chung Jae seems super nice and it'd be heart breaking if he doesn't have someone who likes him.
What kind of feeling does Park Chung Jae have towards Maeng Se Na? Friend? A non-blood related sibling? A crush? Or something that cannot be explained?
I'm watching Ep 4 and it seems they have a childhood history. Till date, Chung Jae has not shown any romantic interest on Se Na nor has he shown any jealousy towards Ra Ik. Towards Ra Ik, it seems like he is annoyed that a grown man needs to be taken care of. Nothing more. But during the scene where he has a jar of chocolates, he seems to be deep in thought about a past. What feeling could that mean? Is it like 'You took care of me back then too. You are so kind'. Is it this kind of feeling or what?
I don't think HJ should get back with BH. BH should leave the show alone. HJ better not pick YS. Maybe she can…
Oh I'm not asking her to choose, I'm just expressing a thought. Besides, I have explained it again in the above comment.
Also, if HJ was never interested in SY, she would never listen to him or think rationally with him about real life issue. Ofc, again not to misunderstand my point. For her, there are mix of expectations - stability (marriage/ reassurance), type of partner (kind, considerate, sweet). None of the participants are a good fit to match these. While BH is experiencing a whirlwind of confusion (very unsteady), and YS keeps her anxious, and SY doesn't have the love/ passion bones in him, there is no choice for her in all honesty.
However, she can choose one of them (right now HJ still thinks BH is set on YN and so she has never approached him again), so right now she's only considering YS and SY - YS for emotions and SY for practicality. Neither are a perfect option yet. If YS gives her reassurance, then she may be able to open up about her desire to get married and also give a clear answer to SY. However, since YS is keeping her anxious and confused, she is keeping her option open to SY. Not saying she will choose this or that but purely thinking from HJ's perspective.
Would a girl who thinks seriously about marriage, pick a guy on a whim?? I highly doubt that. At the same time, it does not mean she would pick a guy who offers her marriage on a plate. She needs both - love and stability. And there is none who is offering her that. So, imo since the only guy who is even willing to make a change is SY, she 'could try' giving him a chance. Please read my words carefully. I said 'she could try'. It does not mean 'she should choose' or 'she would choose'.
I don't think HJ should get back with BH. BH should leave the show alone. HJ better not pick YS. Maybe she can…
'Maybe she can try giving SY a chance and see if he is truly sincere!'
This is just my wish. Ofc, HJ isn't interested in someone who isn't lovey-dovey. And I don't think she has a stable partner in this show. Even if she leaves the show with someone, it may not last. Pls don't misunderstand my point - a guy that is stable for HJ isn't there in the show.
I think MK is very right in saying YS will regret this later (if they don't end up together), because that girl…
Their problem was she had lots of time in hand and he had a job. He is a dancer and dancers career is short lived. She was immature (still the girl from highschool while he grew up. She prioritized play and he prioritized his responsibilites. If she had been busy as well, maybe this problem wouldn't have escalated so much.
at this point I'm just like baek hyun and hyun ji should get together, yy deserves better🤦🏾♀️ free…
I don't think HJ should get back with BH. BH should leave the show alone. HJ better not pick YS. Maybe she can try giving SY a chance and see if he is truly sincere!
Did wonkyu ever go on that date with jihyun? 🤔 I remember he told her wanted a date, she got angry cos of the…
Oh you are right to point that out! Probably this show intends to separate the exes until the ex-date, force them to find new connections, make them reminisce their past during the ex-date and then make a choice!
more melodrama ,, more tears ,, more angst ,, more life drama ,, more family issues = more views in S.Korea .....
More melodrama when the drama is about to end?? Hahaha what is the writer thinking! Do they want us to be stressed and annoyed till the end waiting for the ML and FL to get back together?? Lol, perhaps we can expect sth in Ep 50 😂
as someone stated in the comments before, that was a mistranslationwhat that word ment is that he is single/unmarried…
That's right!! The translation also messed up the part where she was talking to SY in front of the pool and she says something right when YS enters the house and the English subtitles wrongly translated her words as 'Did she cheat?' or sth, to which SY replies 'No'. SMH! And there are online comments that says it was a wrong translation and that she actually asked if he smoked.
He’s very passive and I don’t really think that he’s good for catfish - not much charm just a good guy!
And he seemed like he had to 'act' a certain way probably because he felt the pressure of being a 'catfish'.. He always tried to look cool.. I really like him and all.. but him trying to act cool was not cool at all.. I felt it when he told JH during their date that he is sweet and gentle (?) and never fights in a relationship.. I wished he would have shown that true side of him, his real charm and him being himself..
I'm watching EP 19 but honestly this is so frustrating ~
1. An old grandma still controlling her middle aged son. And the son still unable to draw the line. 2. A woman who was deceived into believing she had lost her son, is wayyyyyy toooo calm after finding the truth. Normally, wouldn't a mother feel like her heart was ripped apart after finding out that she was cunningly separated from her child?? 3. I'm not sure why she did not ask to see her child, even if she was told he was dead? No normal mother would 'just accept' that her son was born dead and say 'Oh okay. Since the child is dead, I'll go dance to Swan Lake'. Wouldn't she cry and run to see her child even if it was one last time. Or at least go to his grave or at least beg to see any trace left behind by her child?? This is normal you guys. The only mother who wouldn't do any of these is a woman who hates being a mother, and who has no affection for her child. This may sound harsh but truth is often bitter. 4. The same woman is behaving like she is in her 20s. All she shows is her beauty and her fashion. No motherly love. The 'Pei Yan' character showed wayyyyy moreee motherly love and care than the real mom character. Even the 'Pei Yan' character sobbed after the breakup but this woman even wants her cry to come out beautiful. 5. The man after knowing the truth about what his mom did, goes on about his life as if nothing happened. Wouldn't a son who couldn't marry/ date another woman for 12 + years, be angryy at his mother for deceiving him and breaking up not only his love but also his family for 12+ years???
This drama is a total let down. The only character that showed life is the Pei Yan woman.
With YE, her feelings for SW is fine. Her trying to express herself to SW is also perfect. That is what this show is for. I applaud her courage for approaching him irrespective of his feelings towards her. I also applaud her for liking one person and sticking to what her heart says. These are really commendable.
1. The reason she wasn't picked by anyone is on her not anyone else. She went on dates with 2 people if I remember correctly - SW and MJ. MJ was already pretty set on BH and SW was not interested in her. Again I blame his behaviours (buying wasabi which she wud obviously misunderstand). She didn't approach anyone else as she was interested only in SW. So, it's not about her not getting to go on a date with any guy but rather SW not picking her.
2. The reason SW picked JW and not YE is not JW's fault. Also, SW picked a new girl (SH) over YE. If you think about it without bias, ideally YE should be annoyed at SH cos she lost to a new girl. But, she takes it that SW only asked for another date with JW and not her. So she could feel embarrassed. This is not JW's fault either.
YE wanting not to see JW is understandable. That is mixture of emotions she is dealing with. Earlier YE had also showed off in front of JW and made her look bad (a mean behaviour). And therefore, JW getting a second chance with SW would be embarrassing to YE. This is on YE not on SW or JW.
Her deep feelings for SW are admirable. However, her trying to act demanding to SW and rude to JW are not admirable nor acceptable.
End of the day, issue is to be cleared between YE and SW, not with JW. Hope she apologizes properly and grows to be mature!
I'm watching Ep 4 and it seems they have a childhood history. Till date, Chung Jae has not shown any romantic interest on Se Na nor has he shown any jealousy towards Ra Ik. Towards Ra Ik, it seems like he is annoyed that a grown man needs to be taken care of. Nothing more. But during the scene where he has a jar of chocolates, he seems to be deep in thought about a past. What feeling could that mean? Is it like 'You took care of me back then too. You are so kind'. Is it this kind of feeling or what?
Also, if HJ was never interested in SY, she would never listen to him or think rationally with him about real life issue. Ofc, again not to misunderstand my point. For her, there are mix of expectations - stability (marriage/ reassurance), type of partner (kind, considerate, sweet). None of the participants are a good fit to match these. While BH is experiencing a whirlwind of confusion (very unsteady), and YS keeps her anxious, and SY doesn't have the love/ passion bones in him, there is no choice for her in all honesty.
However, she can choose one of them (right now HJ still thinks BH is set on YN and so she has never approached him again), so right now she's only considering YS and SY - YS for emotions and SY for practicality. Neither are a perfect option yet. If YS gives her reassurance, then she may be able to open up about her desire to get married and also give a clear answer to SY. However, since YS is keeping her anxious and confused, she is keeping her option open to SY. Not saying she will choose this or that but purely thinking from HJ's perspective.
Would a girl who thinks seriously about marriage, pick a guy on a whim?? I highly doubt that. At the same time, it does not mean she would pick a guy who offers her marriage on a plate. She needs both - love and stability. And there is none who is offering her that. So, imo since the only guy who is even willing to make a change is SY, she 'could try' giving him a chance. Please read my words carefully. I said 'she could try'. It does not mean 'she should choose' or 'she would choose'.
This is just my wish. Ofc, HJ isn't interested in someone who isn't lovey-dovey. And I don't think she has a stable partner in this show. Even if she leaves the show with someone, it may not last. Pls don't misunderstand my point - a guy that is stable for HJ isn't there in the show.
1. An old grandma still controlling her middle aged son. And the son still unable to draw the line.
2. A woman who was deceived into believing she had lost her son, is wayyyyyy toooo calm after finding the truth. Normally, wouldn't a mother feel like her heart was ripped apart after finding out that she was cunningly separated from her child??
3. I'm not sure why she did not ask to see her child, even if she was told he was dead? No normal mother would 'just accept' that her son was born dead and say 'Oh okay. Since the child is dead, I'll go dance to Swan Lake'. Wouldn't she cry and run to see her child even if it was one last time. Or at least go to his grave or at least beg to see any trace left behind by her child?? This is normal you guys. The only mother who wouldn't do any of these is a woman who hates being a mother, and who has no affection for her child. This may sound harsh but truth is often bitter.
4. The same woman is behaving like she is in her 20s. All she shows is her beauty and her fashion. No motherly love. The 'Pei Yan' character showed wayyyyy moreee motherly love and care than the real mom character. Even the 'Pei Yan' character sobbed after the breakup but this woman even wants her cry to come out beautiful.
5. The man after knowing the truth about what his mom did, goes on about his life as if nothing happened. Wouldn't a son who couldn't marry/ date another woman for 12 + years, be angryy at his mother for deceiving him and breaking up not only his love but also his family for 12+ years???
This drama is a total let down. The only character that showed life is the Pei Yan woman.