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Yes that's right. Boi is trapped in guilt and believes that he is responsible for their breakup. She keeps telling him so and he keeps believing it. It's toxic imo. Even if he chooses to start a new relationship, idk if it'll last. He needs time to completely heal from the old relationship.

No, that is okay. I have seen all the seasons. I mean, at one point in the season, they started approaching their exes right? It was like everyone went through that phase at the same time, so it felt like scripted. Exes approaching to talk means they must have had them in their mind right? Also, when the show starts, wouldn't they be itching to talk to their ex? Wouldn't they at least talk about their new interest or what is on their mind, etc? I understand that that kind of conversation cannot be shown until the time comes for the ex reveal. So, what I mean to say is, it is natural for exes to talk to each other irrespective of whether it is day 1 or 10. So, did those scenes get edited out or they were forbidden to approach their ex until a certain day?

I have a doubt. Did the PD script the show in a way that in the beginning, the participants were not supposed to talk to their exes? It doesn't look like there were any interactions or that they were edited out. Not sure because when the ex-interactions happen, it feels like suddenly everyone feels like talking to their ex at the same time.

Oh I have been understanding a lot these past few days. I'm an INFP too. Although idk how INFP in male works, but here is what I realized based on my own self introspection. I am the same exact as Song Hyeon. If people say good things about me, I feel like they are being polite and they don't mean it. When people express interest where I'm not interested, I do not understand and feel confused. I keep brushing it off. However, when someone expresses anything good towards me that reaches my heart - gentle, calm, sincerity, honest, making me understand, then it definitely opens my eyes. Not saying I get interested but it's needed for me to believe that they are sincere and not just half hearted.

If there is a person of interest, I am shy but am always watching them, curious about them, wanting to talk, spend time, gain their attention, happy just seeing them. I also feel jealous if their attention is on someone else, and feel less valuable and think something must be wrong with me and that I'm not attractive enough and maybe I'm weird. I tend to compare and overthink. I even think maybe I should be like the other person because that's the right way to be.

Again, I'm not defending SH. However, I completely understand how he might have felt.

PD also has a talent for 'dramas'

'Genuinely never been this invested in a dating show' Aye me too! It's so good this season! Makes us feel all their emotions 10 fold!

Logically it makes sense but love isn't logical. It isn't rational either. If you keep watching you'll see YS/ MK conversations and you will understand. I don't want to spoil it for you.

I think everyone faces this in their life. It seems like a big issue right? But they have been dating since high school and never parted even once. So it must feel super strange that he became an adult and had additional responsibilities. If it was others, they'd have dated and broken up and met other people, taking breaks and not dating when they are busy with work. But in YS/ MK case, their relationship started since school. That's why it looks like a bigger issue and fault than it actually is.

Just him talking at least once

They will surely end up together 100 percent :))

If WK did not have lingering feelings towards his ex, he might have wanted to talk to HJ since he said she is his ideal type. I love JH so WK/ JH!

Episode 1 -> For the women picking the men based on what they can cook, I think the production team should have first made the men side to talk about what they chose to cook. And then they should have made the female side to choose.

I'm still watching episode 1. Overall, the show feels a bit funny, a bit embarassing and a bit painful. Hope nobody gets hurt or let their confidence drop. Despite this, those who take the rejection lightly are really admirable. It replaces the bad feeling with fun and good feeling. Rooting for everyone!

MK says 'If you had said you'd do what you want, then I'd not have said anything, but you said you wouldn't' and YS calls her out on this saying, 'You wouldn't have said anything? Even if I said no, you wouldn't have left until you got the answer you wanted. You do this always to every decision I make.. ... would you have left me alone if I told you not to intervene in my decisions. absolutely not.. you are not that type of person'.
She doesn't have anything to say to this, is speechless for a moment and brings up the same point AGAIN. Applause to him for his patience.

Woah playing with people's emotions just for money goals! Cruel.

Can they influence such a thing during the show? If that's true, then they are pure evil, playing with real people's emotions.

Ikr!!

Idk about the show but the some of the thoughtless comments here and in other platforms makes my blood boil 😂

Yepp! That's why the maturity gap between them is way more than their age gap. Not judging, cos everyone's time works differently.

And while she expresses her hurt by crying, complaining, and even sharing her burden with others, YS remains in control of his emotions as much as possible. It makes me think, if work and dance also serves as a let out for him.

I agree with what you say - rejecting someone verbally is also a form of respect. Yes, in that way the other person won't have hopes. However, he has been very honest with his feelings since the beginning, even surpassing Sang Won who gave mixed signals to all his dates. Not blaming him but he tends to take good care of every woman, while his feelings may be on someone else.

Sang Hyeon was natural with Bon Hee but a mess with Su Hyun does not mean he is dishonest but rather he shows a clear difference between the woman he is interested in and the others. He never gave SH any hope. In a way I think that is his way of showing he isn't interested.

Here HJ comes to mind. I remember the date where JW brings up that she knew him before and had even asked for his number. HJ didn't show any interest in her, which she caught on pretty quick and never approached him again after that. That's what I'm talking about. I'm not defending anyone but I see that different people have different personalities. While YJ straight up rejected JW by clearly saying he is interested in another person and only wants to focus on her but HJ gave her signals. So Hyun got the signal multiple times but still wanted to knock at Sang Hyeon's heart. That is her style. Maybe she was curious about why he wasn't paying her attention. She has the right to approach him and he can express his disinterest as well.

And him telling her that he wanted to help her at the ice rink is something even I don't understand. I agree to that. Him telling SH that he misunderstood her is something I don't understand but believe him. After all, he tends to look down on himself a lot.

He has a lot of flaws and lot to learn. That is obvious and I will absolutely not deny it. That's why I said this experience will help him understand himself better and help him grow as well. I also noticed a few things - sometimes, especially with the boys, he comes across as confident and leads well. But with women, he is a complete mess. Ofc, BH is different cos he was interested in her and wanted desperately to go on a date with her. Also, he seems to suffer from low self esteem. Hopefully, he will overcome all these barriers, understand his own charms and become a better person.

I don't think it was about her, but rather about him. Will he become capable of taking care of her, will his career stabilize, when would that be?