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We Are All Trying Here korean drama review
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We Are All Trying Here
33 people found this review helpful
by Dodo Finger Heart Award1 Flower Award1 Hidden Gem Recommender1
24 days ago
12 of 12 episodes seen
Completed 1
Overall 9.0
Story 9.5
Acting/Cast 10.0
Music 9.0
Rewatch Value 9.0

This Drama Understands The Parts Of People They Never Talk About

I honestly don’t think this drama is meant to be “easy” to watch.

It’s uncomfortable sometimes. Frustrating too. There were moments where I wanted certain characters to stop hurting themselves, stop pretending they were okay, stop carrying everything alone. But I think that’s exactly what makes this drama feel so real to me.

None of these characters feel perfectly written just to be liked by the audience. They feel human.

Hwang Dong-man especially stayed with me throughout the drama. A lot of people might see him as bitter, insecure or difficult sometimes, but honestly… I never saw him as a bad person. I saw someone who spent years trying to move forward while constantly feeling left behind.

Watching everyone around him become successful while he remains stuck slowly destroys his confidence, and the saddest part is that he’s painfully aware of it himself. The way he talks too much sometimes, gets defensive, criticizes others or tries to make himself look stronger than he feels inside ,,none of it looked like arrogance to me. It looked like frustration. Like exhaustion. Like someone trying very hard not to disappear emotionally.

At the same time, there were moments where Dong-man frustrated me deeply too. Sometimes he lives more inside his imagination than reality itself, constantly holding onto versions of life that no longer exist. There’s this strange disconnect in him where he keeps chasing emotional comfort in memories, old expectations and fantasies because reality feels too painful to fully accept. And honestly, that made his character even sadder to me. Not because he was “crazy” or mentally unstable, but because he felt like someone emotionally stuck between who he wanted to become and who life slowly forced him to be.

And honestly, I hated how some of his friends treated him sometimes.

It felt like they only remembered him when they needed something, but emotionally he was always left alone with his struggles. That kind of friendship hurts in a very quiet way because you slowly realize you are present for people who are never truly present for you.

This drama captures that feeling so well.

The loneliness of being surrounded by people yet still feeling emotionally unsupported. The exhaustion of maintaining relationships that start feeling one-sided over time. The sadness of realizing that not everyone who stays in your life truly understands you.

And maybe that’s why Dong-man hurt me so much as a character. Because beneath all his flaws, he was still trying. Still hoping. Still wanting to matter to someone.

And then there’s Eun-ah.
She was honestly the character I related to the most sometimes. There’s something painfully familiar about the way she carries herself. She looks calm and composed on the outside, but internally she feels emotionally exhausted all the time. The way she quietly keeps things inside, overthinks, silently endures emotions instead of expressing them immediately… it felt too real at times.

What I admired about her is that the drama never tries to make her unrealistically “strong.” She feels emotionally fragile in such a natural human way. Sometimes she withdraws, sometimes she avoids difficult emotions, sometimes she looks like she’s carrying years of emotional tiredness behind simple expressions. And somehow that made her even more relatable to me.

What I loved most about her relationship with Dong-man is that they understood each other beyond words sometimes. Their connection never felt overly dramatic or unrealistic to me. It felt like two emotionally tired people finding comfort in someone who could see through the version they showed the world.

And maybe that’s what made their relationship feel beautiful.

Not because they “fixed” each other, but because they understood the loneliness inside each other.

But honestly, what makes this drama truly special is that it’s not only about one person’s pain. Every character here feels like they are fighting their own quiet battle with life. Some hide it behind success, some behind humor, some behind silence, some behind relationships that are already emotionally falling apart.

That’s why the story feels so emotionally heavy sometimes. Nobody here feels completely okay. Everyone is trying to survive life in their own imperfect way.

This drama really captures the quiet loneliness of trying your best and still feeling lost sometimes.

The fear of wasting your life.
The exhaustion of comparing yourself to others.
The pressure of pretending you’re okay while silently questioning yourself every day.

What makes this drama special to me is that it never tries to force artificial positivity onto these emotions. It simply lets them exist honestly.

And somehow, that honesty makes everything hit even harder.

Because while watching this drama, I didn’t just feel like I was watching fictional characters.

I felt like I was watching emotions most of us quietly carry in real life.
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