I don't have him on the list. Probably you're thinking of another one on the list, right?
Sorry, I was just speaking about Wi Ha Joon in in terms of 2nd male leads and not making reference to him being on your list. Also, I miss read it and thought you were referring to 2nd Male Leads.
It may be selfish, but anger is also apart of the grieving process. I wouldn't dare suggest or tell someone how to grieve. It's an emotional rollercoaster and everyone handles it differently.