a cnetz has this theory on why shen haoming chose xu yan as his wife among all the women ✍🏻
"why did he choose xu yan? because within his current range, xu yan is someone he can use to rebel against his parents without going too far & she's still someone he can control. if he married someone truly well-matched in terms of family background, that would just mean adding another pair of parents. would he be able to control that rich girl? probably not. so he deliberately chose someone of lower status.
I really feel like shen haoming is being so intentional. he says some things on purpose from time to time. I feel like he really enjoys watching xu yan panic, scramble and rack her brain over him. it's like a cat playing with a mouse. he likes to swat at her tail once in a while, just to remind her she's under his control and she can't escape.
xu yan really is the most suitable, aside from her family background, everything else is perfect; her looks, work ability, emotional intelligence. but that 'flaw' (her family) is actually the biggest advantage for him. he can control xu yan just like how his parents control him.
do you remember what xu yan said about agave? she said the reason she likes agave is because she can trim and shape it however she wants. xu yan is she haoming's agave. he really has such a strong desire for control but it's a subtle kind of control.
just when xu yan is about to let her guard down, he does something to make her tensed again. he really enjoys controlling her...she's like his "project." he wants to shape her into exactly what he likes, and he won't allow her to deviate even a little. so he's kind of unhinged...he loves watching her walk a tightrope, one misstep away from falling. and then right at that moment, he'll slowly reach out a hand to steady her, so she can keep walking.
every time he treats her “too well,” I just feel creeped out. I don't know if i'm overthinking, because we already knew from the premise of thr show, that in the beginning, his love wasn't as pure as xu yan thought so everything he does feels calculated.
yes, he likes her, that's for sure. choosing xu yan in the first place means there were things about her he genuinely liked and found attractive. but what he likes more is someone he personally shaped; someone who matches his tastes in every way and who loves him wholeheartedly.
he always carries this super relaxed vibe. even with how his parents behave, he never seems angry. he just seems indifferent, like nothing affects him. and that's the scary part. the more he acts like that, the more i feel like he actually very strong opinions.
he's not like his dad. his dad maintains the status quo but he obviously has ambition, he doesn’t want to just keep things as they are, he wants to get bigger and rise higher. but right now, he doesn't have enough say.
isn't all this also beneficial to him? he raises xu yan up and then her connections can be used by him too. he doesn't even need to break ties with anyone so effortlessly, he gains more say and decision-making power with his parents. unlike before, when his dad could just casually veto him.
those wealthy wives also socialise to support their husbands' careers. like his mom said, those rich wives are helpful to their husbands. he knows this and what he wants is exactly a capable woman. the stronger his wife becomes, the more helpful she is to him.
because no matter what, he chose his wife, so he won't let her be exposed so easily.
he already knows everything, so even if he finds out more, what difference does it make?
it's just that qiao yan took one step closer to the person he's shaping her into and she’s closer to becoming the wife he thinks is worthy of him. qiao yan didn’t rebel against his parents; it was him who got satisfaction the moment he realised she had faked her background to fool them. that moment when she tricked his parents thoroughly..he loves it."
i shall wait for it to end before watching and see if the ending is Happy or not. In my need good things phase…
Hmmm? 🤔 they got married in very early stage, and got divorced too, but not sure about will be remarried or not.. this drama is about self development, self discovery , we might hate ML to the point we want him to separate from FL just like those short dramas in Youtube… this is just my personal opinion and guessing from the available synopsis
another teenie weenie staff shares the most heartwarming behind the scenes: our most sincere and genuine #zhaolusi, who does every little thing with her kelulis in mind ❤️
💅 lusi specially gotten her new manicure done the night before, with the colors and style matching the event’s theme color
💇🏻♀️ to meet everyone’s expectations, lusi had stayed up late the night before to get semi permanent hair extensions, softly saying “i know you all like seeing me in long hair the most”
🧃 on the morning of the event itself, lusi texted the staff saying “i wanna gift the fans apple juice. do you all have enough? i’ll buy more as it’s pretty hot today i’m worried they might faint
💨 because of safety protocols, lusi had to keep pace with the staff in a “military-drill-style jog” throughout the day, moving so fast her steps were like a whirlwind. when it all ended and op saw her in the elevator, out of breath and gasping 🥺
she also revealed that tw’s livestream gmv (gross merchandise value) reached a historical peak with more than 500 security guards onsite
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"why did he choose xu yan? because within his current range, xu yan is someone he can use to rebel against his parents without going too far & she's still someone he can control. if he married someone truly well-matched in terms of family background, that would just mean adding another pair of parents.
would he be able to control that rich girl? probably not. so he deliberately chose someone of lower status.
I really feel like shen haoming is being so intentional. he says some things on purpose from time to time. I feel like he really enjoys watching xu yan panic, scramble and rack her brain over him. it's like a cat playing with a mouse. he likes to swat at her tail once in a while, just to remind her she's under his control and she can't escape.
xu yan really is the most suitable, aside from her family background, everything else is perfect; her looks, work ability, emotional intelligence. but that 'flaw' (her family) is actually the biggest advantage for him. he can control xu yan just like how his parents control him.
do you remember what xu yan said about agave? she said the reason she likes agave is because she can trim and shape it however she wants. xu yan is she haoming's agave. he really has such a strong desire for control but it's a subtle kind of control.
just when xu yan is about to let her guard down, he does something to make her tensed again. he really enjoys controlling her...she's like his "project." he wants to shape her into exactly what he likes, and he won't allow her to deviate even a little.
so he's kind of unhinged...he loves watching her walk a tightrope, one misstep away from falling. and then right at that moment, he'll slowly reach out a hand to steady her, so she can keep walking.
every time he treats her “too well,” I just feel creeped out. I don't know if i'm overthinking, because we already knew from the premise of thr show, that in the beginning, his love wasn't as pure as xu yan thought so everything he does feels calculated.
yes, he likes her, that's for sure. choosing xu yan in the first place means there were things about her he genuinely liked and found attractive. but what he likes more is someone he personally shaped; someone who matches his tastes in every way and who loves him wholeheartedly.
he always carries this super relaxed vibe.
even with how his parents behave, he never seems angry. he just seems indifferent, like nothing affects him.
and that's the scary part. the more he acts like that, the more i feel like he actually very strong opinions.
he's not like his dad. his dad maintains the status quo but he obviously has ambition, he doesn’t want to just keep things as they are, he wants to get bigger and rise higher. but right now, he doesn't have enough say.
isn't all this also beneficial to him?
he raises xu yan up and then her connections can be used by him too. he doesn't even need to break ties with anyone so effortlessly, he gains more say and decision-making power with his parents. unlike before, when his dad could just casually veto him.
those wealthy wives also socialise to support their husbands' careers.
like his mom said, those rich wives are helpful to their husbands. he knows this and what he wants is exactly a capable woman. the stronger his wife becomes, the more helpful she is to him.
because no matter what, he chose his wife, so he won't let her be exposed so easily.
he already knows everything, so even if he finds out more, what difference does it make?
it's just that qiao yan took one step closer to the person he's shaping her into and she’s closer to becoming the wife he thinks is worthy of him.
qiao yan didn’t rebel against his parents;
it was him who got satisfaction the moment he realised she had faked her background to fool them.
that moment when she tricked his parents thoroughly..he loves it."
#lovesambition
https://x.com/wonwoncity/status/1971854881075118574?s=46
💅 lusi specially gotten her new manicure done the night before, with the colors and style matching the event’s theme color
💇🏻♀️ to meet everyone’s expectations, lusi had stayed up late the night before to get semi permanent hair extensions, softly saying “i know you all like seeing me in long hair the most”
🧃 on the morning of the event itself, lusi texted the staff saying “i wanna gift the fans apple juice. do you all have enough? i’ll buy more as it’s pretty hot today i’m worried they might faint
💨 because of safety protocols, lusi had to keep pace with the staff in a “military-drill-style jog” throughout the day, moving so fast her steps were like a whirlwind. when it all ended and op saw her in the elevator, out of breath and gasping 🥺
she also revealed that tw’s livestream gmv (gross merchandise value) reached a historical peak with more than 500 security guards onsite
https://x.com/youniebear/status/1970384643221516461?s=46