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It is absolutely wrong to lie about being someone's daughter and she did have every opportunity to say wait a minute. Somethings wrong here this is what happened. This is what so-and-so told me. But again, you also have to understand that that is also part of the trauma, she's afraid to speak up. She has been told to shut up and to Stay silent and whatever her entire life and then she experienced this kidnapping trauma so though she has done wrong and I do not absolve her of it. I see the trauma in it as well. There are a lot of people with PTSD that lie through their teeth about Lord knows what and it's part of that. Yes it's not modern day where you can just go to a therapist and Treat it well but I still think it should be acknowledged.

As for A Shui, past episode one where she's the bride of some old dude and then sees people get murdered and obviously that's traumatic as well but at this moment, even that has not been explained. How did she end up there? Where is the supposedly burial ground of the father that she was there for? We see previews that she probably lost her memory and that she gets it back somehow, so I think her arc and her trauma is still on the way.

I'm not picking anything actually you're picking it for me. You have this notion of thinking you know what other people are thinking and it's incorrect. The person or rather character that you mentioned we don't know much about other than the first episode as the previews start to come in, we are saying that she probably had memory loss. So we will see her trauma. But thus far other than that first episode, which was not properly explained She has been there to help and save however, what her real purpose is, we do not know yet.

I definitely think you don’t comprehend basic human speech; as in you have no clue of what I wrote. I think it’s best if you just scroll by my comments.

Ok thank you.

Huh?

I guess it is on my watchlist lol.

Sounds familiar.

You know what I found myself really thinking about in the last few episodes with the war and whatever that ZCJ has had a lot of trauma from her childhood to the abduction and hostage thing with the lunatic, and yet nobody addressed the trauma; they just expected her to smile and get over it. She was showing clear signs of PTSD and yet no one even acknowledged it. I’m acknowledging it here in case I missed a comment someone else wrote. How do you get through a hostage situation where you’re literally slitting your own wrists, which means she has a whole lot of trauma in her head and that may come out to really harm her in the end, but it needs to be addressed. It’s not one of those “turn your frown upside down.” Can you possibly imagine the breakdown she’s going to have when she realizes she’s not the real princess? Everything that she has gone through plus now this forget going down the wrong path. She will absolutely have a mental breakdown unless TLC or someone notices it and fixes it before it becomes Self-destructive. All those stupid sword alliance people that called her low born all of a sudden were like “oh you can have your old position back you’re amazing” etc. As someone who suffers from PTSD from completely different traumas, I would’ve honestly punched him. I know this is a drama and it’s not real, but the emotions and the symptoms are real; hiding in the corner, having voices in your head telling you that you’re worthless; slitting your wrists, trying to harm yourself, banging your head against the wall. I mean, these are all symptoms of PTSD. There are many of them and we (PTSD ppl) all experienced different ones but I feel a little scared for her honestly. I don’t think she’s going to be used, but I think she may go down some self destructive path when she finds out that she’s not who they think she is. That her entire life is essentially a mystery. Where did she come from? How did she get into that poor family who was trying to sell her? Honestly, I hope she never finds out because I can’t think of anyone else in the female section of town especially team lunatic that could possibly be the real princess. Unless it’s someone we haven’t met yet.

I’m honestly very surprised that no one has brought this up. People have been talking about her possibly going down the wrong path, but no one addressed her trauma. She’s had her head filled with all kinds of lies, but they are her inner most fears basically her inner demons as they like to call them in these dramas. And they’re being exploited now. And if she is the whatever princess all of a sudden she’s gained parents that she’s never known that are not even hers I mean, can you just put yourself in her shoes? We really need to pay attention to what happens with her because I fear that’s a powder keg that’s going to self-destruct and unfortunately not make it in the end. Because people with PTSD unfortunately a lot take their own lives because they can’t handle it and a lot of times not many people help them or want to or know what to do just like in this case so even though these are real life situations, they are happening in this make-believe world and even though TLC and LY and all this other stuff is happening and these people are important. We have to look at other characters too and how they contribute and what has been done to them.

OK, I think I’ve rambled enough. If you guys have any questions in regards to PTSD, please let me know. I am very open about the topic. My own experience with the I guess you can call a disease is like I said not the same as this. Common stereotype is that PTSD is only considered something that happens to people who have seen war and combat and/or have suffered tremendous abuse throughout their lives and that’s actually completely untrue. PTSD can come in many forms like mine which is both harassment and medical trauma. I still do have triggers that I do avoid. But when I see the signs even if it’s a fictional fantasy drama I will point them out. so again don’t feel like you’re encroaching if you have questions.

I haven’t watched today’s episodes yet. Yeah that’s a good question. How does he know? Unless GMD told him something. It’s kind of strange.

Hey guys, I wanted to ask you I kept forgetting during the drama, but was the uncle speaking some kind of dialect or was it Cantonese?

Do you mean the uncle?

I like a height difference but it's not a big deal if there isn't one. Those dramas work too. People don't get cast based on that, but because of how they fit the character. Rumors only start fan wars (which are stupid to begin with) so always wait for official announcements on cast.

Clip: https://weibo.com/7908632637/5230840340809952
Really hope the reliable bloggers are right and this drops at the end of the month, looks awesome.

Wait so she's not the princess? I'm confused.

Are those even working?

Which one?

But are they there? Like for episode 27?

Oy.

Well hopefully he won't opt for that either. No blaze of glory crap.

Yeah I know, final product we don’t know; leaked script or not. It would just be a shame for all those stab wounds a didn’t kill him in the series but at the end….boom. I think it may be anticlimactic.