Read the synopsis Looked at the characters and I felt this could be a great one But the reviews said Otherwise and now that I have completed this , I can see why it rated low. This was such a waste of potential... There was almost NOTHING....It felt so bland... Such a waste... 5.5/10
Don't believe the comments. Treat yourself to this First Love gem.
spoil me this Does she end up with the fisherman or the other guy? because someone in the comment said it felt like cm per second and i absolutely hated that movie. SO plz spoil me
1. Filmmakers always portray Cheating wife as a victim but actually they're not.Just before she cheats, her husband…
"Doormat or not, at the end he's with his wife and kid, smiling and receiving a gift. He has forgiven the adultery and accepted the child as his one"
--You don't need not add "or not" because that's quite literal definition of a doormat , a Cuck. Most people don't want to be that person. But Hey, People like it different. If you are fine with your Spouse cheating on you, emotionally and physically with another Person and you still forgive them. I am happy for you. You do You!!! BUT for most of the world this ain't it.
"For someone who thinks no one should forgive their spouse for raping them OR for cheating on them, maybe this is surprising. I acknowledge millions of people stay with spouses who were mean, violent or unfaithful, and are able to be happy later if the behavior changes."
-- I am not 100% for NEVER FORGIVE Cheater. may be 99%. But the difference in this drama is that she didn't come clean on her own. Most relationship that overcome is where the Spouse come clean for their deed. But here she was ready to lie her whole life!
" You may feel like sleeping with someone else is not the answer, but for her it was. "
--I mean of course it was. Did we not see the same drama and how it opened? how their past was brought up again and again? She literally had feelings for him. she loved him, she wanted him and to cleanse herself from her husband, she made a hormone sandwich with him and the fact she never regretted about it until MONTHS LATER . LOL.
"I personally don't think if your spouse wants a kid you have to rape them, but that's what the husband did."
-- I agree 100% . But I find it weird how few days ago she wanted a kid and few days later when her husband saw what he saw how she was happy with kids and went for it but she didn't want it then and its interesting how most people are trying to Justify her Cheating and emotional affair with this action.
"What it sounds like TO ME is that you feel like being cheated on is worse than being raped"
-Disagree. I am all against Sexual Abuse But one doesn't give justification for the Other and that's exactly how people like you are trying to justify it.
First, their relationship was already done, she should have filed for divorce. Second ,after that Night, she still could have filed for divorce or filed a Police complain about the abuse and all. I am all for him getting punished for it. She still could have confronted the husband about it but she didn't because she already had another guy for physical and emotional need.
Now Paint me this, a husband comes home from work and previously they talked about wanting kids and how he wanted to become a father so the wife initiates sex, kisses and bites him forces herself on her husband for sex. Husband hates this and leaves after that, goes to a bar. He finds his Highschool/college Crush and they get Hot and steamy and he has sex with her and starts emotional affair as well and gets her pregnant instead of his wife. Is the wife more in the wrong than him?
"You call him a doormat, when in the end he was able to keep his life. He's capable of acting out, but he chooses not to. He knows he could abandon them, even sue her for damages. He chooses instead to forgive her and stay with her because he still loves and wants her. "
-- Hello!!!! That's what doormats are. They forgive every actions because they love the other person. LOL
"He's a true winner because at the end he gets to keep his family and I bet his wife will love him even more from now on."
-- Of course his wife will love him even more from now on because he forgave her Duh! I mean that's THE DREAM what some people TODAY yearn for. Having a Partner who will forgive your cheating. A loving Doormat with no ounce of self respect!
**** ALSO I love that You addressed everything about my comment except for the fact that he brought on the topic of that night, all his past actions and behavior, his treatment of her because of work stress. He knows what he did was wrong that's why asks her if she really wants the baby as it was conceived under that act.
But you're downplaying her CHOICE to play him as a fool, deceive him, intentionally making him raise another man's baby . The fact that she had multiple chances to confess the truth but she was selfish about it for her own happiness..
This is the one of the main reason why "Mandatory DNA Testing" is such a hot topic these days.
1. Filmmakers always portray Cheating wife as a victim but actually they're not.Just before she cheats, her husband…
1. Filmmakers always portray Cheating wife as a victim but actually they're not. Just before she cheats, her husband does attack her.
-- so we gonna completely ignore the fact that She kept on Constantly pestering him that she wanted kids and after seeing her in the park with the kids, he just went for it that night. True at that night, she wasn't feeling doing it and that's why you can call it sexual abuse/rape. and what was her way of feeling good again? By having hormone sandwich with the other guy who she actually had feelings for. So all in all she was okay with other guy but not the husband.. Hilarious.
-- and yes I agree to the second part of your statement "He also clearly tells the coffee shop guy that he knows he's been mistreating her as a way to vent his anger (although not physically, he only went physical that one time)."
Yes he knew how he didn't treat her well as he was Stressed out all the time because of his work ( Funnily enough her friend noticed how the husband wasn't feeling well but the wife never did) but still He should have treated her well . Later he even came upfront and apologized about everything and even for that night. AND YET! She never came upfront about her Cheating. Never confessed the Truth but intentionally Let him raise another man's child, That's some Genius shit right there. KUDOS to her!!
4. Most storylines of cheating wives always ends in a happy ending and the husband suffers in the end. Oooh you didn't watch the show. OK, I'll just stop here.
-- BUT did you watch the show??? It did end up with a cheating wife getting a happy ending. There was no KARMA. She is very lucky that the husband decided to become a doormat and give in.
Some producer and director need to just PAIR UP her with Wu Jun Ting in a good romance drama because their part in You are in my lover friend was just a splash in an ocean. I need to see that pair as a lead pair
He doesn't have range to portray that. In fact, he doesn't have any range at all.
Its all forced hate because of the divorce which NOBODY knows nothing about except for SJK &SHK & maybe their families
I find it funny because these people feel bad when some celebs commit suicide because of online hate and cyber bullying and Yet here they are doing the same..
> But he wasn't ABUSIVE ABUSIVE!I mean, he raped her though. That's in part why she cheated, she was looking for…
Let roll back a bit. Not saying Marital Rape cannot happen. But She was constantly bringing up kids and how she wanted one and after seeing Her smiling with Kids at the park , he just went for it.
But lets not act like She had not already fallen out of love. She could have asked for divorce then and there or filed a case. She disliked making hormone sandwich with her Husband BUT Completely Enjoyed making one with the Other guy whom she always had feelings her.
She still had a choice to come clean and talk about it... He in fact later did, came clean about it and apologized. she however still did not.. ...... Gaslighting him to intentionally Raise another man's Baby. KUDOS!!!
I have watched the last episode more than 5 times now and Some part of me is like ah..... this maybe just maybe , not a bad ending after all
But then I go watch episode 1 again and I am like Hell NO! Recency Bias made me forget what actually happened.
Sure This man ignored her and not treated her well. But he wasn't ABUSIVE ABUSIVE! A part of him still cared for her. He used to cry and laugh together with her before the Hectic work life kicked in. he wasn't mentally well as well and You can still work on that.
But what cannot be done and what must NEVER EVER be done is cheating. This woman went FULL ON with other guy, Physically and emotionally. IT WAS FULL ON! She was ready to Leave him had the news of Ryo's death not come. She actually Trapped the husband with the baby Intentionally knowing , it wasn't his.
SO F*** THAT ENDING!
Another series Glorifying Cheating
PS: Both Female and the Male lead are fantastic actors.. especially the ML...
Neglecting your wife and cheating on your husband then having baby with cheater and manipulating husband into…
I mean She has repeatedly said Ryo was the one who saved her and One can understand his POV, Ryo was important enough for her to make hormone sandwich and cheat on her own husband. Sooner or later she will go that route so why not speed up so that Shiori can at least have a happy life and have her parents with her.
But as someone who's been cheated on before.. I feel absolutely terrible for Hiroki. His actions & behaviour for what he did or did not do doesn't warrant CHEATING.
At the end of the day. There's no Karma for the FL
Man this drama is taking over my head I can't wait to know how this one ends. All I know is, If she does get back together RYO That's Gonna be a BIG W for all the cheaters out there.
"You're unhappy in your marriage? Just Cheat on you partner. Let him raise someone else's kid believing its theirs. Make the Kid his whole world and when he finds about it simply leave , leaving him in pain and agony and Misery and get yourself a Happy ending with your AP" thats gonna be a big F.YOU to all those who've been cheated on.
The husband in NO way was a perfect Husband. He let his work become his whole life, he had troubles, stress at work which is why he changed. He was surely Cold and ignored wife at timeBut still this doesn't even Close to the action she took.
After ep9 looks like The wife and husband are officially divorced, the wife is gonna find a job now the question is, will she remain alone or is she gonna choose one of em?? As someone who's been cheated on , I will always Sympathize with the one who's been cheated on unless the person has some done some irrevocable stuffs. So I just hope Hiroki gets his happiness at least.
I am hesitant to start only because there's only Goddamn 4 episodes and I don't think that's enough to quinch my thirst and I don't have much patience these days.
I have seen pretty much every clips and shorts so i pretty much have the idea of what's going on. My only Question is and I don't mind spoilers, "What's ML's secret?? What is FL trying to get out of ML by tricking him ?" Plz spoil me this part. Thank you.
When you are unhappy in marriage. Just end it Just leave!!! Never EVER Cheat!!!
The husband was obviously not treating his wife well but he was no way abusive. Before they cried together and shared every issue but now due to Workload , he changed and that's how his behaviour changed. I can understand Wife's frustration and pain but that STILL DOESN'T warrant Cheating!!!!
And on top of that, fooling him to raise another man's baby intentionally??? Don't come to me with "But But but had he showed his love more and paid attention, she wouldn't have cheated" If you don't feel loved, LEAVE!!! It's simple as that!!
Nothing. NOTHING should Justify Cheating.
I am curious as to how the writers are gonna end it because at the end of day, The child is the Innocent one, If she does end up with the other Guy, that's gonna be SLAP in the face of everyone who's been cheated on! Implying " Cheaters always get a happy ending"
If she does end up with husband again, it's gonna send " Cheaters can be forgiven even if they lie to you and intentionally force you raise another man's child" you just need to become Rug!!!
Or she might end up alone?
Honestly I dunno which ending is worse.. I might actually break something depending how it ends
Looked at the characters
and I felt this could be a great one But the reviews said Otherwise
and now that I have completed this , I can see why it rated low.
This was such a waste of potential...
There was almost NOTHING....It felt so bland...
Such a waste... 5.5/10
Does she end up with the fisherman or the other guy?
because someone in the comment said it felt like cm per second and i absolutely hated that movie.
SO plz spoil me
--You don't need not add "or not" because that's quite literal definition of a doormat , a Cuck. Most people don't want to be that person.
But Hey, People like it different. If you are fine with your Spouse cheating on you, emotionally and physically with another Person and you still forgive them. I am happy for you. You do You!!!
BUT for most of the world this ain't it.
"For someone who thinks no one should forgive their spouse for raping them OR for cheating on them, maybe this is surprising. I acknowledge millions of people stay with spouses who were mean, violent or unfaithful, and are able to be happy later if the behavior changes."
-- I am not 100% for NEVER FORGIVE Cheater. may be 99%. But the difference in this drama is that she didn't come clean on her own. Most relationship that overcome is where the Spouse come clean for their deed. But here she was ready to lie her whole life!
" You may feel like sleeping with someone else is not the answer, but for her it was. "
--I mean of course it was. Did we not see the same drama and how it opened? how their past was brought up again and again? She literally had feelings for him. she loved him, she wanted him and to cleanse herself from her husband, she made a hormone sandwich with him and the fact she never regretted about it until MONTHS LATER . LOL.
"I personally don't think if your spouse wants a kid you have to rape them, but that's what the husband did."
-- I agree 100% .
But I find it weird how few days ago she wanted a kid and few days later when her husband saw what he saw how she was happy with kids and went for it but she didn't want it then and its interesting how most people are trying to Justify her Cheating and emotional affair with this action.
"What it sounds like TO ME is that you feel like being cheated on is worse than being raped"
-Disagree. I am all against Sexual Abuse But one doesn't give justification for the Other and that's exactly how people like you are trying to justify it.
First, their relationship was already done, she should have filed for divorce.
Second ,after that Night, she still could have filed for divorce or filed a Police complain about the abuse and all. I am all for him getting punished for it. She still could have confronted the husband about it but she didn't because she already had another guy for physical and emotional need.
Now Paint me this,
a husband comes home from work and previously they talked about wanting kids and how he wanted to become a father so the wife initiates sex, kisses and bites him forces herself on her husband for sex.
Husband hates this and leaves after that, goes to a bar. He finds his Highschool/college Crush and they get Hot and steamy and he has sex with her and starts emotional affair as well and gets her pregnant instead of his wife. Is the wife more in the wrong than him?
"You call him a doormat, when in the end he was able to keep his life. He's capable of acting out, but he chooses not to. He knows he could abandon them, even sue her for damages. He chooses instead to forgive her and stay with her because he still loves and wants her. "
-- Hello!!!! That's what doormats are. They forgive every actions because they love the other person. LOL
"He's a true winner because at the end he gets to keep his family and I bet his wife will love him even more from now on."
-- Of course his wife will love him even more from now on because he forgave her Duh! I mean that's THE DREAM what some people TODAY yearn for. Having a Partner who will forgive your cheating. A loving Doormat with no ounce of self respect!
**** ALSO I love that You addressed everything about my comment except for the fact that he brought on the topic of that night, all his past actions and behavior, his treatment of her because of work stress. He knows what he did was wrong that's why asks her if she really wants the baby as it was conceived under that act.
But you're downplaying her CHOICE to play him as a fool, deceive him, intentionally making him raise another man's baby . The fact that she had multiple chances to confess the truth but she was selfish about it for her own happiness..
This is the one of the main reason why "Mandatory DNA Testing" is such a hot topic these days.
Just before she cheats, her husband does attack her.
-- so we gonna completely ignore the fact that She kept on Constantly pestering him that she wanted kids and after seeing her in the park with the kids, he just went for it that night. True at that night, she wasn't feeling doing it and that's why you can call it sexual abuse/rape.
and what was her way of feeling good again? By having hormone sandwich with the other guy who she actually had feelings for.
So all in all she was okay with other guy but not the husband.. Hilarious.
-- and yes I agree to the second part of your statement
"He also clearly tells the coffee shop guy that he knows he's been mistreating her as a way to vent his anger (although not physically, he only went physical that one time)."
Yes he knew how he didn't treat her well as he was Stressed out all the time because of his work ( Funnily enough her friend noticed how the husband wasn't feeling well but the wife never did)
but still He should have treated her well . Later he even came upfront and apologized about everything and even for that night. AND YET! She never came upfront about her Cheating. Never confessed the Truth but intentionally Let him raise another man's child, That's some Genius shit right there. KUDOS to her!!
4. Most storylines of cheating wives always ends in a happy ending and the husband suffers in the end.
Oooh you didn't watch the show. OK, I'll just stop here.
-- BUT did you watch the show??? It did end up with a cheating wife getting a happy ending. There was no KARMA. She is very lucky that the husband decided to become a doormat and give in.
I find it funny because these people feel bad when some celebs commit suicide because of online hate and cyber bullying and Yet here they are doing the same..
F*** You
Not saying Marital Rape cannot happen.
But She was constantly bringing up kids and how she wanted one and after seeing Her smiling with Kids at the park , he just went for it.
But lets not act like She had not already fallen out of love. She could have asked for divorce then and there or filed a case. She disliked making hormone sandwich with her Husband BUT Completely Enjoyed making one with the Other guy whom she always had feelings her.
She still had a choice to come clean and talk about it...
He in fact later did, came clean about it and apologized.
she however still did not..
...... Gaslighting him to intentionally Raise another man's Baby. KUDOS!!!
But then I go watch episode 1 again and I am like Hell NO! Recency Bias made me forget what actually happened.
Sure This man ignored her and not treated her well. But he wasn't ABUSIVE ABUSIVE! A part of him still cared for her. He used to cry and laugh together with her before the Hectic work life kicked in. he wasn't mentally well as well and You can still work on that.
But what cannot be done and what must NEVER EVER be done is cheating.
This woman went FULL ON with other guy, Physically and emotionally. IT WAS FULL ON! She was ready to Leave him had the news of Ryo's death not come.
She actually Trapped the husband with the baby Intentionally knowing , it wasn't his.
SO F*** THAT ENDING!
Another series Glorifying Cheating
PS: Both Female and the Male lead are fantastic actors.. especially the ML...
Should I watch eps 7 tonight or wait for tomorrow and watch eps 7&8 combined tomorrow
Hope he takes on more serious roles as well
But as someone who's been cheated on before.. I feel absolutely terrible for Hiroki. His actions & behaviour for what he did or did not do doesn't warrant CHEATING.
At the end of the day. There's no Karma for the FL
I can't wait to know how this one ends.
All I know is, If she does get back together RYO
That's Gonna be a BIG W for all the cheaters out there.
"You're unhappy in your marriage?
Just Cheat on you partner. Let him raise someone else's kid believing its theirs. Make the Kid his whole world and when he finds about it simply leave , leaving him in pain and agony and Misery and get yourself a Happy ending with your AP" thats gonna be a big F.YOU to all those who've been cheated on.
The husband in NO way was a perfect Husband. He let his work become his whole life, he had troubles, stress at work which is why he changed. He was surely Cold and ignored wife at timeBut still this doesn't even Close to the action she took.
After ep9 looks like The wife and husband are officially divorced, the wife is gonna find a job now the question is, will she remain alone or is she gonna choose one of em??
As someone who's been cheated on , I will always Sympathize with the one who's been cheated on unless the person has some done some irrevocable stuffs.
So I just hope Hiroki gets his happiness at least.
I have seen pretty much every clips and shorts so i pretty much have the idea of what's going on.
My only Question is and I don't mind spoilers,
"What's ML's secret?? What is FL trying to get out of ML by tricking him ?" Plz spoil me this part. Thank you.
Just end it Just leave!!!
Never EVER Cheat!!!
The husband was obviously not treating his wife well but he was no way abusive. Before they cried together and shared every issue but now due to Workload , he changed and that's how his behaviour changed. I can understand Wife's frustration and pain but that STILL DOESN'T warrant Cheating!!!!
And on top of that, fooling him to raise another man's baby intentionally???
Don't come to me with "But But but had he showed his love more and paid attention, she wouldn't have cheated"
If you don't feel loved, LEAVE!!! It's simple as that!!
Nothing. NOTHING should Justify Cheating.
I am curious as to how the writers are gonna end it because at the end of day, The child is the Innocent one, If she does end up with the other Guy, that's gonna be SLAP in the face of everyone who's been cheated on! Implying " Cheaters always get a happy ending"
If she does end up with husband again, it's gonna send " Cheaters can be forgiven even if they lie to you and intentionally force you raise another man's child" you just need to become Rug!!!
Or she might end up alone?
Honestly I dunno which ending is worse..
I might actually break something depending how it ends