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Replying to Eyera Dec 9, 2025
Title Dear X Spoiler
Most people are angry about the ending, but what haunts me is something entirely different: how the writer and…
I never read the webtoon, I don’t know its details, and everything I say comes solely from the drama. From what I’ve gathered, the show and the webtoon diverge so much that it feels almost wrong to compare them. It’s better to treat them as two separate stories—one simply inspired by the other.

The drama began through Jun-seo’s eyes. In that very first moment, he planted a seed in our minds: Ah-jin is a sociopath. We didn’t question it. I didn’t question it. I assumed it was just a dramatic introduction, a way to pull us into the story. I didn’t realize it was a trap.

I don’t think Ah-jin was a psychopath or a sociopath. Maybe she had traits of antisocial behavior, but that doesn’t automatically mean she clinically qualifies. And honestly, her behavior makes sense once you know her childhood. Ah-jin was the unluckiest lucky character I’ve ever seen. Her whole life is full of contradictions: her instinct to survive despite every horrific obstacle in her way; the fact that she was surrounded by people who loved her yet still hurt her; the moments when everything finally seemed to go her way only to drag her even deeper into the swamp.

If anyone in that story was a true psychopath, it was Do-hyuk. Not even Jun-seo held that title. Though Jun-seo… yes, he deserves every curse I can throw at him. His emotional manipulation was on par with Do-hyuk’s, if not worse. Yes, Ah-jin shaped him into what he became, but he twisted himself into something darker. In the end, Jun-seo didn’t want Ah-jin to be happy... he wanted her to be his. The idea that he’d accept her being with O was a pretty lie. Ah-jin was visibly happy with In-kang, the exact happiness Jun-seo claimed to want for her. Yet after more than a year of their relationship, he had the audacity to confront her, demanding to know why she hadn’t ended things “according to plan.” Jun-seo never wanted her joy. He wanted her obedience.

The series begins with Jun-seo’s perspective: Ah-jin is a sociopath. I’m not trying to justify anything she did, but looking back, things were not as catastrophic as they seemed. Personally, I think her father got exactly what he deserved. The only person she truly wronged was the café owner. Ah-jin definitely took advantage of his kindness. Even her mother’s fate was something she had coming. And if we put the grandmother’s accidental death aside, we get to In-kang. What happened to him was awful. Ah-jin suddenly cutting him off completely destroyed the little stability he had left. But even then, I don’t think she was 100% to blame. It was clear from the beginning that In-kang didn’t have strong emotional resilience—and that’s fine! Some people are like that. He was suffering from guilt over what happened to his former teammate, the company president (who pretended to be caring) ignored his emotional condition and pressured him even more, and aside from his grandmother, no one in his life was actually good for him.

Ah-jin wasn’t a monster; she was gray. Not even dark gray... just gray. My perception of her was so warped by Jun-seo’s narrative that when she asked him how far he’d go for her, I genuinely thought she meant murder. But what she wanted was the one thing O gave her: the willingness to sacrifice his life. She wanted to know if Jun-seo would go that far. And he wouldn’t. He never would. His devotion was an illusion he clung to. He couldn’t even let go of his mother... a death that could have freed Ah-jin from a lifetime of pain. He claimed he wanted to atone for the past, yet he protected the very person who destroyed her. That was the bare minimum he could have done… if he truly wanted her peace.

And again, I’m not excusing Ah-jin. I’m just saying that because the entire story was filtered through a manipulative lens designed to isolate her, our judgment became harsher than the truth. People say O understood her best, but I disagree. The real Ah-jin existed somewhere between O’s version of her and Jun-seo’s. In the end, no one ever fully saw her—not completely.

This drama was filled with beautifully flawed, morally gray characters, but the writer and director twisted our perception so cleverly 😂 that many of us couldn’t see them clearly until the end.

And genuinely... those acting scores in the reviews… are they real? Did we even watch the same show? If I could rate the acting higher than a ten, I absolutely would. Even Young-dae (no offense) shocked me with how good he was.

Anyway… after such a long time, I finally found a drama that stayed with me. :)
On Dear X Dec 9, 2025
Title Dear X
Most people are angry about the ending, but what haunts me is something entirely different: how the writer and director managed to deceive me for eleven whole episodes, and how I, foolishly, never saw it coming.