when they kiss in a chinese drama 🥳but it’s a kill your gays trope🥲🔫
To be fair, the story began when she was sick, terminally ill. She had never been in a relationship before. Her death didn't come out of no where or simply because she was gay.
They just used the child as a plot device. Might as well have cast him as a dog. Does Tan Siting really care more about her dead dad than the child she's been separated from for a decade and some? Honestly, both the mother and father are disappointing parents.
They have an intelligent child who keeps giving them the chance to choose him, but they just cast him aside. I think they dealt so poorly without that child. No explanations, no consolation, just some variation of "don't believe everything you hear online." or "we can't explain some things to you right now"
This show has some of the most passive doormats for leads.
Shuan? Wow!!!!!! I can’t even describe how despicable she is. Imagine in real life having a friend like that.…
Right! In retrospect, there was that scene in the outdoor tea place when a fan and her mother approached Ms. Tan, and Shuan was looking away from them, similar to a person who's jealous. It gave me some weird vibes, but I chalked it up to her being polite to the fans
What she did is beyond evil. And for her to keep saying nobody loved her since childhood, what about the friend she invested so much in destroying?
I kept wondering why a grown woman would want to take over another woman's child like that, but then, watching her behavior when his son breaks up with the music teacher, it all makes sense.
This woman is in a one-sided emotionally incestous relationship with her son. She has seen herself as the ideal mother to the child right from the begining. She's also sen herself as the perfect wife, until that position is suddenly threatened by the return of Ms. Tan to china.
It's why she's fully comfortable with the piano teacher because she presents no risk to her as the son's lover. She knows that she holds a more important position in her son's heart than the piano teacher does.
She also starts to behave like an offended mother when Le, has a genuine connection with his mother, and even enjoys the gift she's given him. See how she threatens to confiscate them, when we haven't seen her make such a threat before.
It's also why she's so against SuTing becuase for the first time, there's a woman who holds greater importance in Feng Rui's heart compared to her. I think she had the same relationship with her brother, that's why she defended him so fiercely, when the rape accusations came.
She would rather believe that Ms. Tan, this seductive devil of a woman and her father set out to kill her brother, instead of confronting the fact that her brother was a rapist. Or even the fact that, she's is an emotionally unstable woman with poor emotional regulation and boundaries, she goes around being a dysfunctional geezer and depriving a mother and her child the joys and sorrows they could have shared over the last 12 years.
They have an intelligent child who keeps giving them the chance to choose him, but they just cast him aside. I think they dealt so poorly without that child. No explanations, no consolation, just some variation of "don't believe everything you hear online." or "we can't explain some things to you right now"
This show has some of the most passive doormats for leads.
What she did is beyond evil. And for her to keep saying nobody loved her since childhood, what about the friend she invested so much in destroying?
This woman is in a one-sided emotionally incestous relationship with her son. She has seen herself as the ideal mother to the child right from the begining. She's also sen herself as the perfect wife, until that position is suddenly threatened by the return of Ms. Tan to china.
It's why she's fully comfortable with the piano teacher because she presents no risk to her as the son's lover. She knows that she holds a more important position in her son's heart than the piano teacher does.
She also starts to behave like an offended mother when Le, has a genuine connection with his mother, and even enjoys the gift she's given him. See how she threatens to confiscate them, when we haven't seen her make such a threat before.
It's also why she's so against SuTing becuase for the first time, there's a woman who holds greater importance in Feng Rui's heart compared to her. I think she had the same relationship with her brother, that's why she defended him so fiercely, when the rape accusations came.
She would rather believe that Ms. Tan, this seductive devil of a woman and her father set out to kill her brother, instead of confronting the fact that her brother was a rapist. Or even the fact that, she's is an emotionally unstable woman with poor emotional regulation and boundaries, she goes around being a dysfunctional geezer and depriving a mother and her child the joys and sorrows they could have shared over the last 12 years.