Pearl Harbor

What would have happened if Gu Wei hadn't gone to explain her be it to her work place or to her place..... She just left after venting out at him without even trying to listen to what he had to tell.....she was like, are you enjoying? Are you relaxing by making them worry about him...lol....for the same reason he didn't tell her to begin with because he thought that would worry her ( which I am totally against it)....but either way it is shown as if he is at fault , that's all.

I remember something at this point. This happened I think in ep 4 or 5. Remember!!! They were on the rooftop and she told him that all her life she was average and she took up cello very late in her life so she is just avg at that and she is used to it. But he on the other hand was always at the top of things he did. So when things happen to such overachievers they usually don't know what to do because they have never experienced it before in their lives. So all he knows is save his patients or care for them, he doesn't know much outside of it. She knows about him more than anyone so blaming him entirely was not called for. She didn't even give him a chance to talk. Even in courts they give fugitives to talk or say something before handing them the verdicts, but she just outright punished him...lol... sorry, I am too involved with this show so even I am venting out. As this is ongoing on a daily basis , I feel I know them personally...lol

Didn't she say"come find her when he resolves this issue", didn't he do exactly that. Then why was she still being hard on him despite knowing his situation, without giving him a chance to explain. She said that they have broken up but I don't remember or when they did.

Me too.... I thought you were refuting my comment, lol..... Didn't she tell him "to come to her once we solves his problem"... didn't he do exactly that. He saved the patient and then went to her, but I still didn't understand why she was being so hard him without giving him a chance to explain. If he hadn't come or persuaded him then he didn't try, now he is doing that but she is playing hard to get. I really didn't understand, what she wanted.

Question....If Gu Wei keeps apologizing to her or go behind her doesn't their relationship will also become like LXZ's friends where that clingy female thinks she is right all the time and she doesn't even realize even she has her share of mistakes.

Just because Gu Wei is not telling anything doesn't mean he is wrong. I know you are telling they both are at fault. I am not going to give her brownie points because she is young. He told her he needs time also everyone have different ways of figuring out. She just lashed out on him when she found him in the suburbs. Without letting him talk. She herself had made comment about his professional ethics before when she had just found out about the rumor that because of him, his mentor died or how he is the future son-in-law of the hospital. After all this he is hearing about the same rumours again, i can only imagine how he might have felt and now it is everywhere on the internet. Shouldn't she keep her complaint aside for now and support him and help him pull himself again rather than telling him how horrible of a boyfriend he is.
Why should he go behind her in the midst of the chaos.

You have nicely pinned down your thoughts. I have commented below and couldn't help but reply to yours. For some reason i am not able to sympathize with LXZ. I mean, Gu Wei was ready to let go off this wonderful opportunity of going to germany if LXZ was not going to go with him. He was like "either we are going to go together or i am not going alone". I don't know how much more assurance one could give to his loved one that he is gambling with his professional life to be with his gf. I don't know how she jumped to conclusion saying he might have lost interest in her or may no longer be in love with her. I understand him being the older guy in their relationship but that doesn't mean he can be right or stable all the time. At times even he would need support. I still do not understand how come she didn't check social media at all when it had become such a big issue. How she is not doing anything else to understand his issues. She probably tried twice to bang on his door and that's it. She just gave up and tried to move on (Their solution of moving is clubbing and drinking). Gu Wei on the other hand was so persistent to win her back this doesn't mean he was wrong so he is trying to win her back or his situation had become ok so he was trying to win her back.
When she had gone to find Gu Wei, she again made it about herself. Like how he had hurt her, how he is a bad bf, how he made her look bad infront of her dad (everything was about herself) etc. She didn't even try to console him or try to understand his perspective. She just vented out on him and left.

By now she knows he is head over heels for her. This time it was not about that so like how women need assurance, so does guys. Its not just their job to make a woman feel secure. This time it was Gu Wei whose life was unstable and LXZ was doing fine. She had signed a contract, going to germany etc.

I understand when Gu Wei behaved out of character infront of LXZ's parents and she was in shock too but when she asked for a reason she mainly asked questions about her and her family like "Do you not have feelings for me? Did my father put too much pressure? Did you fall out of love with me? etc" so everything was about her....It could have also been about his parents, something might have happened in hospital (we have seen how it affected Gu Wei when his mentor had died)so she didn't even ask anything about him (It was so clearly visible in his eyes that he is in pain).... He didn't say anything about breakup but just asked little time to sort it out but later he had to chase her also and sort things at hospital also. I mean, it was not totally his fault. It is shown in this series that all 3 men chasing after their women be it their fault or no and apologizing and not the other way around. MEN ALWAYS CRY SILENT TEARS.

Also, San San used to give her all the news like if he was with a girl, etc. This thing is all over internet, i wonder how she didn't notice the entire day and inform LXZ

I was about to write this as i have only seen the chinese version and atleast the backdrop made sense, the college premise. Here, by the end of the day Gorya is still in 11th class and Thyme is just a highschool pass out. Though i like this version more than the chinese but so many things here doesn't make sense here like Gorya working part time (in a flower shop where we have hardly seen any customers) when is only 15-16 years old. Her parents leaving her alone and moving back to their hometown because they are financially broke, then how is gorya supporting herself alone in the city. I think after ep 6 or 7 i haven't seen her going to school, i wonder which school break lasts this long.

Shouldn't Thyme have at least a management college degree (Bachelor's if not master's) to run such a big Pharamanantha empire. He is just a highschool pass out now, i mean how can his mother even pass the baton to a 18 year old kid. I know he is naive in the business world like his mother said but that is because he is still a teenager and has no business knowledge whatsoever be it a bookish knowledge or practical.
When Gorya asked him what is he planning for his future, he said i want to run the Pharama group with gorya by his side, i mean doesn't he want to study more.......I know i am looking for too much of a logic, lol

Thank you so much for answering my query

So we are not really missing out on anything right? I mean, when we watch episodes on drama cool. Thanks for answering my questions in advance

So we are not really missing out on anything right? I mean, when we watch episodes on drama cool. Thanks for answering my questions in advance

Does that mean DVD version is edited alot to cut down from tv version. TV has many more scenes compared to DVD version?

Exactly and he is on the genius side. He was in top throughout his academics and in professional life so when something like this happens where someone questions his working ethics obviously they will crumble because they haven't seen something like this before

In the novel , he ends up with Liu Shi Yun

Which version is on dramacool or kissah?

I agree.... His whole professional motto is been shaken and on top of that his girlfriend is not being understanding. She encouraged him before when he had given upon on surgery after his mentor's death but now she is just pushing him away when this time the situation is worse than before. She is been surrounded by very toxic friends - San San and the other clingy female. So i guess, she thinks whatever she does is always right and as he is apologizing so he is wrong. He is apologizing because he doesn't want to make the situation worse.

Actually speaking, he is just a boy..I mean he is still 18 in the drama