Pearl Harbor

That's what..... You are speaking for me here lol..... She is heartbroken here for the death of that little girl. But she has changed her stance according to the situation. Ok, say suppose if the old magistrate was killed by an enemy country soldier in a war then was that justified. Enemy soldiers are also working and protecting their country just like the soldiers of her country. So according to me there is no blood as good or bad and no death is justified. All deaths are bad as it is going to be hard on the loved ones left behind

I agree that the max a 9-10 old could do was run away but atleast she could have helped the police catch the culprit or point at that damn house where they were kept captive

Remember how she told LBY to kill the guys who were captured when they tried to kill her in that abandoned inn. She was like I will them if you don't. Then LBY was like you be inside or else you won't be able to see that. But she still sneakily went to the place where those bandits were killed. So now she changed her stance that she hates people with blood on their hands. I understand she is not responsible for people and how they interpret her words. LBY's 2 assistants were like it is not a good omen to kill one who surrenders ,LBY only killed them because CSS would have killed them herself. This shows how immature she is and how she changes her stance according to the situation

Remember how she told LBY to kill the guys who were captured when they tried to kill her in that abandoned in. She was like I will them if you don't. Then LBY was like you be inside or else you won't be able to see that. But she still sneakily went to the place where those bandits were killed. So now she changed her stance that she hates people with blood on their hands. I understand she is not responsible for people and how they interpret her words. LBY's 2 assistants were like it is not a good omen to kill one who surrenders ,LBY only killed them because CSS would have killed them herself. This shows how immature she is and how she changes her stance according to the situation

I understand , because of that it gave wrong impression to 2 different men. So words are more dangerous than a sword.

I agree to your comment and as we are talking about if it had happened in real life then it could have worked. I honestly think it wouldn't have worked. In the longer run you would need a spouse/partner who not just praises you but also criticizes you if needed. This would help CSS( just as an ex) to grow as a person. If you just keep praising your spouse then unknowingly the other person will turn cocky and overconfident. So both is needed. So i don't think this kinda relationship would work in the longer run.

Add his mother also into this picture. 3 strong women in his life

Will you accept a death / killing / assassination if it was for a good cause or justified? Just a general question

Bandits and soldiers both have blood on their hands. Both can justify saying they did to protect their loved ones and the country. We know that these bandits were actually rebel soldiers in disguise so they did it for their people so now who is in the wrong.

I hated CSS when she said this " I hate people with blood on their hands"......That's very hypocritical of her to say. If Ling BuYi hadn't killed those bandits then she and her aunt wouldn't be alive now. The entire Hua county would be slaughtered by now. It doesn't have to be Ling Buyi, there are millions of soldiers out there who put their lives on line to safeguard other's lives so that people like CSS and LY can build their so called house of peace.

She doesn't have to marry LBY if she doesn't like it, but she is denying saying she doesn't like military generals. She doesn't realize that she is equally ruthless, ex. That bridge incident. She went ahead with her plan despite knowing what would be the consequences. She is just grabbing whatever coming her way without thinking about the consequences.

Again, marriage is not a dish that she will try and see. If she doesn't like it then she can leave it. It will leave permanent scar.

At this point LY looks just like CSS's maid servant LianFang who does whatever her master tells her to do without any question. No doubt LY is good but that boy has no personality. CSS wanting to get married because she thinks that could get her out of her mother's control then i am in loss of words. There is a saying "A known devil is always better than an unknown angel" so she doesn't know the outside world is or how LY's household is. I thought she is really smart, i mean she learnt all the military techniques by looking at the books, carpentry work by just looking at the carpenters so why did she fail here. She didn't go to the war grounds to learn so she doesn't have to go to each house to learn about other family dynamics. She could get that information anyhow if she wanted. I really want to smack this 14-15 years old girl and put some sense into her head. Listen to her mom for once, though her words are hash but she means well.

So this engagement shit goes on till ep 20 is it?

They were there together till ep 18 :(

I am happy that ep 13 and onwards are going to come from tomorrow but that means angst part is approaching. CSS is going to be cold towards LBY and going to choose that kid LY's proposal. Hope they wrap up their track this week

I agree that people marry for different reasons like social status, money etc but whatever it is women always loose freedom because they are expected to behave certain at her in laws which is even more restraining than it was at her mom's place. There is one thing which money cannot buy is freedom. Like you said , CSS is very young to understand all these and she is trying to solve just one thing that is Infront of her which is escaping from her mom. She is too smart for her own good. Also I know that she is soon going to understand that whatever reason she is going to choose LY for is actually not fully right. I am fully relying on her mother here , to show CSS that this is not a right match for her

I skip most of the FL's scenes and watch only cafe members scenes.

No no I completely agree. I also agree what would I do if this person whom I think is related to my brother 's case is deliberately hiding evidence, ofcourse I would be angry too. But this person has already served his term. He was in jail and recently released. If a police officer still accuses him then how will society accept an ex offender. I know everything is put in a funnier manner ( which I hate it) but they are omitting serious issues. We as an audience know that he is not a culprit and was framed but again even if he was, he has been punished by the law and has served his jail time.

I don't know what you are saying....which women gets freedom after marriage? Whether it's 300 years ago or now, it's the same for any married women. You spoke the opposite. All women looses freedom after marriage m I agree he is easy to control, but again he is the youngest in his family and doesn't hold much of an authority in the house.