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On The First Frost Mar 7, 2025
Wow! People are literally saying that because of her abandonment and trust issues she is giving SY some trust issues too.

A person who doesn't express her/his feelings needs a person who can communicate.
A person who feels she/he is not worthy of love, needs a person to love him/her unconditionally.
A person with past traumas needs a partner who is emotionally available to balance the relationship.
SY is not someone who is weak, here the writer wrote him perfectly suited for a girl like WYF.
If SY also left her then he would have made her realized that all her trust issues were right. But he didn't let her overthinking to be reality. And that kind of relationship can save us irl. It looks like our surroundings are filled with only brave and clever people. ๐Ÿฅฑ
Replying to Cherry Mar 7, 2025
I just Realized The same people saying Sang Yan is a DOORMAT for always being there even when YiFan leaves him…
I'm so sick of these people. They are acting in a way as if they are all badass in their real lives. WoW!!!!! Because of her past she is still broken and her family members are still creating problem in her life. How could she even love SY fully if she doesn't heal from all these traumas. This drama is beautifully written by showing that how patient SY is with her. And how little things make her cry. Because no one ever cared for her. IDK, why people can't relate to her. I guess everyone is loved then, and doesn't have any past traumas.
Replying to Prometeumoderno Mar 7, 2025
if people cant even understand a character that is a victim of s@ in a show that we got to see all her pain being…
NGL, nowadays people are becoming more deranged. Specially in drama's comment section, or any reels about books, manhwa, anime, etc. sometimes it feels like they must be some immature teenagers. Or maybe some underage people who don't have enough idea of life and world outside their rooms. And the thing is most of the viewers of this kind of dramas are girls. Some of them are okay with r@pist ML, but can't digest a normal FL. I guess every fandom is now filled with this kind of immature fans. Who don't have enough brain to judge anything but know one sentence "respect my opinion."
Replying to Cherry Mar 7, 2025
People want realistic characters and plots but when they get one it's too much to handle! People actually run…
Obviously. I know there must be other ways to solve everything. But she hasn't recover fully. To recover from those memories she needs to open up to her close people. But I don't think in real life any girl would want to tell her bf that she was molested not only once but twice. And that man appears again. In real life when we face this kind of people again in life, istg we can get panic attack easily.
Replying to Sounova Mar 7, 2025
I was 14 when a guy (a family member) grabbed me and kissed me on my cheeks and it was so disgusting i think I…
The sad thing is majority of us have to face this kind of things at least for once in our lifetime. And nothing to say how we are touched by a random stranger outside. So the thing was I was coming back from hospital and the road was kinda crowded but a man suddenly grabbed my upper thigh. After this minor accident I was kinda scared because of PTSD whenever I had to return to home alone after uni classes at night. It was kinda "if the road is crowded that means someone can assault me and easily blend with the crowd, and if it is empty then suddenly anyone can come out and grab me." Then I realised one thing if this accident could haunt me like this, then how those girls felt who were molested badly beyond repair. May God save every girl from this kind of monster.
On The First Frost Mar 7, 2025
This last episode just triggered something inside me. I can't imagine what WFY felt at those times, alone in a small room, craving for her mother, wanting someone to save her. But there was no backup, she was her only backup.
I want to say to every girl here who have ever faced this kind of horrific situation "Sorry, that it happened to you, sorry that no one saved you, sorry that life and people failed you, but you're strong and you deserve every happiness in this universe."
On The First Frost Mar 7, 2025
OMG!!! I guess day by day people are losing the ability to judge a situation or any character. They want everyone to act like a superhuman.
But are we all superhuman, badass, strong beyond imagination in our real life? Absolutely NO!
Yes Sang Yan is a good man anyone could ever have, he didn't deserve any pain, nor does he deserve it now.
But please think rationally as a human being, his pain and suffering is nothing compared to Wen Yifan.
His only pain was he didn't get the equal love from the person he was madly in love with.
But WFY, she lost her father, then her mom abandoned her so that her mom could live happily, she was about to rape by that b@$tard, again her mom abandoned her. Her mother has to be the most disgusting mother I have ever seen in C-dramas, not only she abandoned her daughter to live a secure life, but also she said that b@$tard uncle was a good man. I mean she didn't even care whether her daughter was r@ped or not. At that time WYF was not an adult, so scars from childhood hit different. She was abandoned by everyone, and she has to lose her only lifeline SY. Now you could say she shouldn't live him, she should have gone to the same uni and live happily ever after.
But different people deal with their traumas in different ways. Isn't it a normal thing to do? If you are living a pathetic life like a worm, like and orphan, you're sexually assaulted, do you think you wanna show this part of your life to the person you love? Absolutely not. And at that no one could think of a bigger picture. So she did the best thing for both of them. Also when nothing good happens to a person, she/he thinks herself as unworthy of lovable, she thinks she must have deserved it. Sometimes this kind of people never dare to open up again. They crave love but never dream to have it.
But WFY tried to pursue SY, she accepted that it was her fault to hurt SY (even though she was not living a happy life either). At least she showed the courage to be happy again. But sometimes $hitty people and traumas haunt us till the end.
Even though I didn't like the idea of her leaving everything again. But I don't hate her, I don't have a single reason to hate her. She suffered a lot, and now she's tired. That night she was SA by that man she was staring blanking towards her mother and her aunt. That face was enough to make me cry as a woman. I hope she can heal asap and get a happy ending. Because she deserves it.
On The Remarried Empress Mar 7, 2025
Some people are saying that Lee Se-young is going to play the role of Rashta aka Trashta. I'm really curious, because LSY needs to put a lot of hard work to make us hate her character.
Also they didn't change the foreign name, so again I'm hella curious about the era and costume design of this drama.
Replying to PrincetonGirl818 Feb 25, 2025
I want them to get together too but with this drama I don't mind the slow burn as long as it doesn't drag
By burning I meant positive, because their chemistry is chemistrying even though they aren't couple yet.
On The First Frost Feb 24, 2025
Before starting to watch I didn't even have any idea that it was related to Hidden Love. Not a big fan of Chinese modern drama. But after the first episode, I couldn't stop watching. Nothing extraordinary about the story, but it still feels so warm to watch how Sang Yan is so caring for her even though they are not together. At the same time, it feels so sad to watch him doing this and that for WF. Because there are so many WF around us, lonely, unlucky, mistreated, abused and insecure, but they don't have any SY. Indeed life is unfair.
On Study Group Feb 21, 2025
Title Study Group
Everything was perfect but in the last scene when her students came forward to save her .....wow!!!!! That was just the cherry on the top.
IDK, if they will bring the second season or not. And I haven't read the webtoon. But the last line of Han Ul, "Try changing the school", was so real. Because in real life humans never learn. They become normal for a moment, but then again, it doesn't take too much time to go back to their rotten past version. Only a few of them can become a new leaf.
On Kim Sae Ron Feb 19, 2025
Person Kim Sae Ron
It's high time fan should be more kind to artists and idols. They are human too. She did a mistake and paid her price. But I'll never understand K-culture, people become blind when it comes to severe scandal, prostitutions, and so many heinous crimes. But the same people become so serious when idols date each other, or someone uses drugs (not supporting taking drugs but please there are more serious issue is happening around us) this and that. But again some trash so called actors can proudly work even after assaulting someone, cheating on their partners.
Replying to Winter Feb 16, 2025
Title Study Group
well if they donโ€™t it means season 2 is basically confirmed
I don't believe them, because still we are waiting for dramas like Allah of us are dead, Kingdom. ๐ŸŒš
On The Witch Feb 16, 2025
Title The Witch
The more days pass, the more this app doesn't make any sense. It looks like the rate of immature viewers is increasing day by day. Not my fav artists, let's destroy the drama, artists I hate, let's destroy the drama, plot I hate, let's destroy the drama, my favourite drama is also airing, let's destroy the drama, I'm not feeling good today, let's destroy the drama. ๐Ÿ˜ถ
On The Witch Feb 16, 2025
Title The Witch
It's only one ep!!!!.... But what's wrong with the rating. ๐ŸŒš