felt like crying alongside with her when she said I’d rather he hates me than himself I know zz romance arc…
I would want to protect my sanity🤣ofcource you're right here🤗what I'm saying is, if that was my boyfriend, I would die of guilt sooner or later💛or end up on medication💛 naturally, I'd terminate this relationship, but I wouldn't choose a mourning Wake for this💛poor chap is already devastated by the loss of his Mom, I wouldn't go right there to add to his sorrow 😁 there are always causes and effects in our lives,we shouldn't feel guilty for everything...I may feel guilty because I sneezed and my dog fell off the stairs in a fit of surprise...this ship was full of guilt feelings and it sunk because of guilt🥴 XieWei isn't a saint, but has a healthy heart,not rotten by self condemning guilt💛 perfect Zhang isn't that perfect, he just revealed a flaw that can drive him to suicide, cause misunderstandings, like the scene with the emperor, or cause people who love him -to abandon him, so as not to cause him guilt feelings
But why does Duke Xue hate his own son so much? Is he not the real father?
his firstborn,yes🙂why does he 'hate' him..? the exact reason isn't shown yet,my guess is,that XieWei was very upright as a child, truthful and capable🙂and his father wanted him to pay lip service to the Prince and forgo being truthful... seems like this child didn't fit into corrupted Xue family...🙂
although Ning & Zhang ship sunk, that scene is filled with ning's guilt and selfishness...who comes to a house in mourning and starts to cause more pain to already pained family members? Ning, instead of consoling Zhang in his grief, she came looking for consolation from him and caused only greater pain for him.... this girl knows how to destroy relationships..
Ning cries her heart out in front of Zhang -he, otherwise calm, pushed her harshly away 👀😳👀 Ning cries her heart out in front of XiWei -he, otherwise choleric -gently draws her to himself,comforts her and embraces her 💗💗 and snow melts
I doubt she will be an obedient wife with 10 kids. Zhang Zhe is always calm and Ning is bubling and brave. in…
😁 another possibility is, for Zhang to become totally submissive to Ning, maybe that's the reason she started to pull away from wooing him to herself 😁💛😁
Yah, and Zhang would get tired sitting at home, because everything would be bubbling there, so he would escape to his office for peace and relaxation 🤣at first he would try to put everyone into straight jacket and order in his family, but it doesn't work that way, it's never worked🤣🤣
Zhang Zhe is always calm,which can be intriguing at first,but boring on a long run for Ning's bubbling personality💛immagine an arranged marriage between them, they might even get along💛Ning would become an obedient wife with ten kids🤣 since she'd eventually get bored with Zhang, she'd have to shift her interests to bubbling kids🤣🤣
Xie Wei getting mad anytime his feelings for Ning bubble up to the surface is hilarious to me. It's not her fault…
yah, looks like a capricious action, pestering someone, when she's treated with distance, but when he finally smiles and turns to her, she gives a cold shoulder treatment...
I don't care anymore whether Ning lives or dies👈👉she's running her own life anyway😁who can always run after her trying to save her,while she rampantly disregards her safety😁 she's imperious even without being an Empress
is Zhang Zhe always going to be that 'holy'? Ning is not able to reach his perfection😁he's too high up on the altar like a monk, hard for him to graciously condescend to a lowly sinner like Ning
Ning cries her heart out in front of XiWei -he, otherwise choleric -gently draws her to himself,comforts her and embraces her 💗💗 and snow melts