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A love so beautiful?
I started watching this drama for the idea of a fresh youth romance with the "sweet girl and cold guy" trope. But as it unfolded, all I could notice were problematic and frustrating things hidden under a surface of pastel colors, tender music, and adorable gestures.
First, we have the female lead, whose life seems to revolve solely and exclusively around her crush of many years. He has never shown a genuine interest in her; he is someone cold who, when he speaks, does so with rudeness. It was quite annoying to see her trying harder and harder to make him happy while he didn't seem to care at all (though, of course, they gave us those hints of him smiling behind her back just to keep us hooked on the idea that he was actually interested).
The male lead's attitude only generated confusion for me. They portray him as someone who doesn't know how to express his feelings and who also had an interest in her, but seriously—would you treat someone you care about or are interested in such a blunt and cold way? Just playing it tough and smiling every time she made an effort to get closer to you? And what did you give in return? If you want to convince me that this is cute and romantic, I’m sorry, but I can't empathize with you.
Regarding the female lead, I have to say she is a character that makes me feel pity. It bothers me because you can tell she is innocent and kind-hearted, but she has let her entire life revolve around one person, idealizing someone who is clearly flawed and minimizing his bad attitudes. The most revealing part—and what a surprise—is that it’s precisely during the three years he is away that she finally manages to build herself independently and get a job. I can only interpret this as her only being able to grow once he stopped being the center of her world.
Later, as time passes, we see them start a relationship because, clearly, "the girl who begs" achieves her goal of melting the ice guy. Everything is laughter and smiles until she can’t find a job—a frustrating situation—and to top it off, she is nearly assaulted; it’s simply horrible. Meanwhile, we have our "prodigy boy" for whom everything is going great with his opportunity to go abroad for three years. The misunderstanding, the terrible conversation they had afterward, and the three years of zero contact prove that this relationship was far from being something sweet and beautiful.
We are shown the breakdown of the person who has waited so long when she says: "I can't wait anymore, you don't give me the attention you should." That is the problem with waiting too long for someone: you burn out emotionally. The guy made a selfish decision for three years; my problem isn't that he left, but that they left things on such bad terms only for him to return later with "acts of kindness" toward her father and a drunken confession to soften her heart again.
It is very sad that this happens, especially with his confession saying he regretted it during those years but was unable to even send a message, or when he said he thought she would wait for him. BRO, what else is she supposed to wait for? Please!
But of course, since the plot is a romance, it doesn't matter what the characters say or do; everything is going to look pretty and happy in the end. It’s all very sad and delicate.
My goal isn't to be a perfect judge; I fully recognize that as human beings we are complex and imperfect—we fail and we hurt others. But my problem is that the fresh, youthful aesthetic and the idea of a "beautiful love" seems to take this too lightly. It asks us not to give it much importance, that everything is solved with a few words, and that we should just enjoy the pretty things and understand a handsome guy and an adorable girl. For me, this wasn't enjoyable; it was sad, frustrating, and confusing, which is why I couldn't connect emotionally with the story.
The good points: The aesthetic is beautiful, the friendship was the most youthful and meaningful part, and the second lead was someone I really liked as well.
First, we have the female lead, whose life seems to revolve solely and exclusively around her crush of many years. He has never shown a genuine interest in her; he is someone cold who, when he speaks, does so with rudeness. It was quite annoying to see her trying harder and harder to make him happy while he didn't seem to care at all (though, of course, they gave us those hints of him smiling behind her back just to keep us hooked on the idea that he was actually interested).
The male lead's attitude only generated confusion for me. They portray him as someone who doesn't know how to express his feelings and who also had an interest in her, but seriously—would you treat someone you care about or are interested in such a blunt and cold way? Just playing it tough and smiling every time she made an effort to get closer to you? And what did you give in return? If you want to convince me that this is cute and romantic, I’m sorry, but I can't empathize with you.
Regarding the female lead, I have to say she is a character that makes me feel pity. It bothers me because you can tell she is innocent and kind-hearted, but she has let her entire life revolve around one person, idealizing someone who is clearly flawed and minimizing his bad attitudes. The most revealing part—and what a surprise—is that it’s precisely during the three years he is away that she finally manages to build herself independently and get a job. I can only interpret this as her only being able to grow once he stopped being the center of her world.
Later, as time passes, we see them start a relationship because, clearly, "the girl who begs" achieves her goal of melting the ice guy. Everything is laughter and smiles until she can’t find a job—a frustrating situation—and to top it off, she is nearly assaulted; it’s simply horrible. Meanwhile, we have our "prodigy boy" for whom everything is going great with his opportunity to go abroad for three years. The misunderstanding, the terrible conversation they had afterward, and the three years of zero contact prove that this relationship was far from being something sweet and beautiful.
We are shown the breakdown of the person who has waited so long when she says: "I can't wait anymore, you don't give me the attention you should." That is the problem with waiting too long for someone: you burn out emotionally. The guy made a selfish decision for three years; my problem isn't that he left, but that they left things on such bad terms only for him to return later with "acts of kindness" toward her father and a drunken confession to soften her heart again.
It is very sad that this happens, especially with his confession saying he regretted it during those years but was unable to even send a message, or when he said he thought she would wait for him. BRO, what else is she supposed to wait for? Please!
But of course, since the plot is a romance, it doesn't matter what the characters say or do; everything is going to look pretty and happy in the end. It’s all very sad and delicate.
My goal isn't to be a perfect judge; I fully recognize that as human beings we are complex and imperfect—we fail and we hurt others. But my problem is that the fresh, youthful aesthetic and the idea of a "beautiful love" seems to take this too lightly. It asks us not to give it much importance, that everything is solved with a few words, and that we should just enjoy the pretty things and understand a handsome guy and an adorable girl. For me, this wasn't enjoyable; it was sad, frustrating, and confusing, which is why I couldn't connect emotionally with the story.
The good points: The aesthetic is beautiful, the friendship was the most youthful and meaningful part, and the second lead was someone I really liked as well.
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