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And also because the reason that most people think this is how "modern relationship" is is because of westernization, for western people when look at the world they don't see, but others are living in a superficial surface and cannot connect to the culture at heart becasue of westernization, but as long as everything looks fine enough from the surface, like party culture, they would think this is how the whole world do if they want to enjoy or feel happy
India and china has the most people in the whole world and yet because of being invaded and poverty, no body knows enough about these cultures except from western's perspective, and it is mostly not true and definitely not nice, probably why I feel the need to over explain, because so many of these comments eveywhere full of insults, when this is how real love should be

The love story line is not forced in there, it is how the novel is written, and although his decision has caused pain, I can see from his perspective too, his whole "after life" that 10 years he is looking for his senior brother, and yet it turns out to be this way, and I think he wanted to live, but when he heard that (I think around ep 39 or 40) that xiaobao's dad is still in the palace, he knows what is going on, he knows that he need to save xiaobao's family this way, for a scene you can see his shock or pain in his face knowing that himself cannot live

Probably I have seen too many comments from western people that would use their own perspective to substitute others' culture, they like to think longer love is obsess, when that is the only way to truly contain someone in your heart

And there is no "main story", this is a realistic show drama, not idol drama, you are too used to watching idol drama with fake main love plot

And 10 years it is normal, but in western culture you are too used to dating another person every other week, in non-western culture you usually love only one person your whole life Not because you have to, but any person that have non-sexual emotion, real genuine feeling, you can feel this family or warm love, that will never go away, you care, that has nothing to do with sexual, nothing to do with affection, but every western audience demand sexual-like or casual realitionship from other culture, to fit themselves

And there is no "main story", this is a realistic show drama, not idol drama, you are too used to watching idol drama with fake main love plot

Warm and sweet, it is for the two girls

And I feel like you are from somewhere that do not care about other people but only yourself, that kind of culture, I do feel like he should try to speak his heart, in a way that can make others understand him, he is too quiet about his own wants and wish, but still, it is not because he did not love her enough, it is because this heart to care about everyone
So many western cultures has no idea of the world being a whole, and what you do will affect other people, one act and there is aftermath, whether you see it or not, every action you need to think about what effect it cause, like his parents, they are controlling, but they are old, and they will feel unwell by feeling shock, I do think he should not keep quiet and should think of ways to explain himself, there are hundreds of ways he can explain himself and make others understand him and not having to feel shocked by his decision, but still, he is very considerate, but what you are looking for is a selfish man, and a man like that will never see you as equal

Why would she be weak? She has such good personality, the best in everyone I have ever known, she would never be someone that's jealous of another women and have petty / narrow heart, her heart is always so big, she would always support other people

Who told you this is a love-centric plot drama? this is how real life is, you are suitable for watching fake idol dramas

And if the torture you are mentioning has this same trauma then it would be as disgusting and as heinous, but if someone murder quick and no pain, and even with pain, it still have dignity
Murder is not worse than this

And I don't know how you could say there are worse crimes than r@pe, it is the worse form of torture because you without permission insert yourself into someone else violating other people, it is heinous it is disgusting and not like when someone has hit you on the arm or even run you over with a car, when someone think they can just take everything away from a person and make the victim feel shame and guilt, which is something that is beared by the victim not the perpertrator
If for example someone try to murder you, when you escape, you won't have to feel guilt and shame upon yourself, but this crime that you are mentioning?? It becomes the victim's stigma, not just when it was torturing, but everyday after that, every moment in your head, you don't just feel the trauma you also blame and criticize yourself

I haven't watch the drama and I don't know what is the torture you are mentioning, but r@pe is the worse crime, in china, r@pe has death penalty and life sentence

Also while rewatching I feel like the most interesting ep are the first two ep, she was so strong and so in tune and peaceful with herself, that's her real personality, that is the inspiring personality that should be the FL

I would like it so much better if it didn't have the switching body plot😭😭😭😭 The first time I watch it I think it's fine, but when I was rewatching, I keep thinking it would be so much better if there are more ep with the first version of FL

It's on dramacool but no subtitles

is it a detective drama?

If you are interested in older drama, I have started watching Oh my general (2017), I haven't finish watching but it seems interesting too

I am trying to find a detective drama like this one too, recently I finshed watching In Blossom, it is quite good, not as good as MLC in my perspective, but each of the cases is good, I am interested in the daily cases solving than the main plot

I feel like there has been clues hinted as some point in season 1, from early on I have actually suspected Ze could be helping the big boss and could be the spy in the yamen, but he doesn't seem to have any suspicious behaviors